When I was in college, there was a girl in the dormitory who had a soft personality, who laughed very sweetly and her voice was soft and sticky, so we all liked to play with this girl at that time.
At that time, there was a school flower-level goddess in the same major, and when she introduced herself on stage, she was amazed, but I don't know why, after four years of college, my roommate peach blossom luck is more.
When I asked, I learned that although the original school flowers were beautiful, because they were used to being held by the stars, they had a feeling of self-esteem, and this also gave men a feeling of unattainable, so they also looked at it from a distance.
But the roommate is different, she is very affinity, others and her will not have pressure when getting along, plus she usually likes to read, so she can also quickly receive each other's stems in the process of chatting, confessed by the opposite sex, even if it is not liked, it will be politely rejected, taking care of each other's self-esteem.
Therefore, the personality of the roommate makes her popular in the opposite sex group very good, plus she is already beautiful, so the peach blossom luck has become a reasonable thing.
And I, it is also from this one thing that I understand that what can fascinate men is not necessarily the appearance, but also some other aspects of the characteristics.
Know how to respect others and empathize
A small child makes a grimace in front of the mirror, and the mirror does the same action, the child does not understand why, thinking that the mirror is deliberately provoking, so he is very unhappy.
His mom told him, "Maybe you can try smiling in the mirror." The child did so, and sure enough, when he smiled in the mirror, the mirror gave him the same smile back.
When we are with others, the attitude of others to us is actually a reflection of our attitude towards each other.
Some people do not know how to respect others, then others are naturally unwilling to deal with her;
Some people are vain and empty-minded, then others will naturally want to associate with her because they are respected, which is mutual.
Cangyang Gyatso said: "I thought that others respected me because I was excellent, and slowly I understood that others respected me because I was very good, and excellent people knew how to respect others better." To respect others is to solemnize yourself. ”
Therefore, no matter in what kind of relationship, knowing how to respect others is the most important, and this is also the key to determining whether a person will be recognized by the opposite sex.
Unique and extraordinary
01), Liang Shuang in the TV series "Twenty Not Confused" is somewhat unsociable, on weekdays, when other roommates stay up all night, she turns off the lights early and goes to bed;
When other people collapsed in their bedrooms on weekends and got moldy, she sweated profusely at the gym.
No matter what she does, she seems to be a lonely person, but such an unsociable person has created an extraordinary Liang Shuang.
Because she doesn't fit in, her personality can stand out; because she doesn't fit in, she has more energy to do what she loves to do.
Su Cen once said: "It is better to be lonely than against your heart." I'd rather regret it than settle down. Whoever can enter my heart, I am a king. Those who do not enter my heart, disdain perfunctory. ”
02), treat friendship, they will not deliberately fit in, having three or two friends is enough, if not, they can also become their confidants;
Instead of having low-quality love, it is better to maintain high-quality singleness, they will not rush to achieve success, but are accustomed to waiting inside.
They never care about other people's eyes, they don't take what others do as their own standard of action, they can be alone, they can get along with themselves, and they have strong psychological qualities.
As a result, such a woman exudes a different charm, and will naturally stand out in the crowd and attract the attention of the opposite sex.
Be bold and rational, never indecisive
Before some netizens said, fitness is actually similar to doing nail art, good training, can attract the attention of the opposite sex, but if the practice is particularly good, then the attraction will only be the attention of the same sex.
Due to the influence of perceptual thinking, it is normal for a woman to be sentimental and indecisive, but if a woman is very bold and rational in handling things, then she will attract the attention of the opposite sex to a certain extent.
Therefore, from this point of view, it is necessary for us to exercise our thinking ability in daily life:
For example, when you feel that your emotions are about to lose control, take a deep breath, calm yourself down, and quickly think about whether there is a better solution;
For example, when dealing with problems, we must consider many aspects, to think about whether this thing is worth doing by yourself, if it is worth it, then do it, if it is not worth it, then give up, do not drag the mud and water.
In short, when we have some male thinking ability, we can better consider the problem from the perspective of men, so that in a sense, it will increase the attraction of the opposite sex.