#微探讨 Is it important to get married or single?

In the face of home questions, relatives asking, hot searches asked every day, it is difficult for you not to think about this problem now.

Is it happiness to be married or happy to be single?

In this era of high housing prices and low wages, I am afraid that it is not a choice problem for most people, but a survival problem. Of course, most people will be curious

What happens to life after marriage?

What would it be like to be single all the time?

This is what we actually care about, but is it useful to ask netizens?

People who long for family warmth will actively find their other half and then get married and have children, and strive together.

People who like to enjoy loneliness will strive to build their own life kingdom and enjoy being single.

In fact, everyone's standard of happiness is different, everyone's growth experience is different, the missing things are different, the things that can be chosen are even more different, and which way to go is half in luck and choice.

People who are torn between marriage and singlehood are more likely to make up the majority. Seeing you here, can you take a moment to think about it: If you don't ask relatives at home to ask netizens, which one would you choose?

Or are you just falling into the trap of self-doubt because you've passed through the ages and yet haven't been able to find someone you really like?

In fact, why should you be so anxious when you are single, and you are also facing various problems when you get married.

The down payment of the house and the monthly payment of several years or even decades, the support of the elderly on both sides, and the education and companionship of the children are the thresholds of life outside of work.

Not everyone has the courage and ability to meet these conditions.

I know a second-child mother around, in terms of work, it is quite difficult to return to the workplace since marriage and children, and finally found his place in a familiar industry, but he is facing the test of 996 or even 007, busy to baldness. In terms of life, even if there are parents and husbands taking care of children together, children need the companionship and care of their mothers in the end.

Under the double pressure, she is optimistic and upbeat, both happy and haggard. There are still decades to go, and countless ordinary people can only live in the present.

Thirty years later, when Chen Yu said that getting married was to have a safe haven, Zhong Xiaoqin sneered and said that you go to shelter from the wind, who is in charge of the harbor?

Whether married or single, life is still a long way to go, and people say that the older you get, the fewer choices you have – but who can really make up your mind?

Such as people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge. Your happiness, only you, know.