I'm not in a hurry to get married: but where the finale is, it's going to be a good play

Yes, 25 years old should get married, but can I have the right not to marry first, is not everyone born different, some people are married and have children at the age of 25, very good, but I am 25 years old to see the starry sky and the sea, but also to eat double meals, but also to read a lot of books, I don't want to live with a person who is still OK.

You know, holding a person's hand without agitation is a sin! Holding someone and not wanting to kiss is also a sin! Can I slowly live my life, and then, meet a person with the same rhythm as me, maybe, people like us, born not to please the world, so, you see, I am 25 years old, or a person, unlike you, 25 years old, have long been married and have children.

People like us may take a long, long time to meet the same frequency, just like, in a lonely sea, there is a whale with a very strange frequency, she has been humming all her life, but, perhaps, she will not be able to meet the echo in her lifetime, you say, she sings solitude, in fact, you don't know, a person humming, it is also very cool, it is also very interesting.

I also think, like most of you, get married at 25, but what if, near the age of 30, I run into that whale with a very strange frequency? He sang strangely, but I understood it all. He asked me, how can you be so stupid, marry someone you don't like, and at 30 you're going to turn into a bubble.

I tried to explain to myself, trying not to dress up like a monster, to swim like all whales, to sing like all whales, and even to get married like all whales, but in the end I cried.

He said sadly, you are a mermaid, we are born different from them.

Yes, so we don't have to live the same as 25 years old, if you want to get married, you want to go to graduate school, you want to go to graduate school, you want to travel, you want to plant flowers, you want to raise a goldfish to raise goldfish, it is these strange ideas that have come to us.

One day, you met a guy and we talked, and you said wow, you like fish too, and he said yes, yes, do you like goldfish or koi? You laugh and say, I like spicy and braised.

They all like it, but there is a difference between likes.

Whether you're 20, 25, or even 30, 40, 50, you should do things that you really like, things that aren't swayed by others, you should be very clear that you're not the same kind of person as the person who advised you to get married.

Of course, you can love someone at all costs, but don't forget who you are.