I have an older sister, six years older than me, who grew up with my mom and dad telling him to let me go

I have an older sister, six years older than me, and since I was a child, my parents told him to let me go, but the effect was not good. A new generation of parents must change a perception, the child's love is not average, but unique, each child should feel that they enjoy a unique love, why must the boss let the second brother?

In fact, this is not good for the second brother, because the second brother will take it for granted that he is forced to give way, and he will let her when he enters the society. Second, this is unfair to the growth of the boss, it is constantly losing his life will have a special sense of loss, perhaps he does not dare to fight for what belongs to him, subconsciously take a step back.

So I think we should let the eldest be himself, and the second should also be his own parent, especially the parents of several children, don't be the referee, when the police are right is right and wrong, equal treatment.