Remember that in "The Belle Epoque of the Daughter-in-Law", Comrade Cao Xinmei, who is "great, kind and super joyful", and Ms. Edamame, the daughter-in-law who is "grumpy", are all troubled by the relationship between the two mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Bai Han and Hai Qing, who can leave the spotlight, are not incompatible with water and fire, but can even be said to be "yearless friends" without talking.
Many people think that the entertainment industry is a vanity fair, there is no real feeling, but there are exceptions to everything.
After the death of "mother-in-law" Bai Han, Haiqing promised at the funeral: "Teacher Bai Han, your child is my brother." ”
For so many years, Haiqing has been taking care of Han Qing, the "brother", and Bai Han is also a teacher, friend, and relative to her.
Such dedication and affection, anyone does not say a word of admiration.
Haiqing was born in 1977 in a famous artistic family in Nanjing, and Gan Tao, the grandmaster of the Chinese national music generation, is Haiqing's "uncle", such a family allows Haiqing to start to contact art from an early age, and he also has a lot of artistic talent.
Singing and dancing are not a problem, at the age of 7, she began to appear in TV dramas, went from school to the opera house at the age of 17, and received both Chinese opera and Nortel acceptance letters at the age of 20.
Such excellent results allowed her to successfully enter Nortel and become a proud disciple of Teacher Huang Lei.
After graduating from Nortel, she received her first heroine, and her life can be described as smooth sailing.
But her "mother-in-law" Teacher Bai Han has a completely different life from Haiqing.
Born in 1956 in a small hutong in Beijing, Bai Han's father died when she was a child, and her mother committed suicide at an early age.
Without dependence, she entered the power supply bureau as a worker at the age of 16, and was not admitted to the Chinese opera until 1978 as a tragic actor, but she could only make a living by some small roles without a background.
Her life is even more miserable, she married an inappropriate son Han Qing at the age of 25, and after the divorce, she raised the child alone and depended on the child for her life.
At the age of 40, he finally found his true love, he thought it would be long, but fate made people, and her husband Han Xiaolei died of heart failure and ineffective rescue, and he was separated from his lover yin and yang overnight.
The experience of losing her mother in her early years and widowing in middle age did not bring her down, and she still tried to live and act.
In 2010, Bai Han partnered with Haiqing and starred in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in "The Beautiful Age of Daughter-in-law", and Bai Han's acting skills honed for many years allowed her to portray her mother-in-law "Cao Xinmei" in the play.
For his "mother-in-law" Haiqing also said: "I can play this role like this, except for Teacher Bai Han, I can't find a second person." ”
In the play, the two are sword-fighting, and outside the play, they talk about everything, and the two often lament why they can't meet their confidants earlier.
Their relationship made Teacher Bai Han often say: "If it is possible, next time we play mother and daughter, we can play the role." ”
Haiqing smiled and replied, "Well, I can't ask for it." ”
When the two were nominated for best actress in Magnolia at the same time, Haiqing smiled and said, "This award should be my mother's." ”
The staff couldn't help but say: "You are really the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the play, and the mother and daughter outside the play." ”
In life, they are like girlfriends, in the leisure time of the two filming, Haiqing will go to Bai Han's teacher's house to rub rice, talk to Bai Han about the bottlenecks he encountered in acting, nag at home, and also go on a trip together.
Bai Han said: "Let's go to Sichuan, I want to see the giant pandas." ”
Haiqing said, "Well, I just want to go to Mount Emei, we can go climbing." ”
The two of them hit it off and came to a trip that said they were going to go.
A trip to Sichuan has made the two people, who are 20 years apart, more intimate, and perhaps made another trip commitment.
In July 2010, Teacher Bai Han, who was preparing for filming in the crew, suddenly announced his withdrawal from the group, and Teacher Bai Han had to be admitted to the hospital because of the tumor.
Haiqing, who received the news, immediately stopped his work and hurried to the hospital.
Haiqing, who rushed to the hospital, saw Bai Han lying on the hospital bed still thinking about his own script, and when he saw HaiQing who rushed in, Bai Han said: "You are nervous about everything, it is a small illness, the doctor said that he can be discharged in a few days, and I still have to go back to acting." ”
But what she didn't know was that the disease had almost no chance of healing, and everyone was hiding it from her.
She pushed down everyone's visitation requests, leaving Haiqing alone: "I don't want too many people here, I just want to talk to you." ”
She took Haiqing's hand and said, "You said strange no, I used to think about filming this every day, I would take a break for a while, and now that I'm lying here, I want to act more, as if I still miss the busy but fulfilling life of the crew." ”
Haiqing said, "Then you should take good care of your illness, and when you have a good body, I will take you into the group." ”
Bai Han smiled and nodded, and Haiqing looked at Teacher Bai Han, her eyes were full of desire for acting.
Bai Han actively cooperated with the hospital's treatment every day, and Haiqing pushed off all activities and accompanied her all the time.
Gradually, Bai Han's body began to improve, and Haiqing took Bai Han to the filming scene as promised, and she watched so quietly without saying a word.
After returning home in the evening, she said to Haiqing: "I went to the crew today to watch them act, and I was thinking that if I met director Ang Lee, if he let me play a cancer patient, I would be able to play the role." ”
Listening to Bai Han's broken thoughts, Haiqing's eyes were red, and she really began to try to contact director Ang Lee.
The actors and directors she knew asked a circle, and there was really no way to ask her friends.
However, before she could contact director Ang Lee, she first received a call from Han Qing: "Sister Haiqing, the hospital has issued a critical illness notice, you come to the hospital to see my mother." ”
Listening to Han Qing's sobbing on the other end of the phone, Haiqing seemed to have been sucked away, she couldn't believe that this day would come so quickly, catching her off guard.
Haiqing hurriedly drove to the hospital, and there were only two people in the ward, one was a close friend that Bai Han had known since childhood, and the other was Haiqing.
Looking at Haiqing's panicked expression, Bai Han knew that his condition was not optimistic.
But she was still smiling, and said casually: "You see my blood pressure belt tied to the position of my arm, like an armband?" ”
After Fa Xiao left, Bai Han said: "In fact, I only have two regrets, one is that I am afraid that I will not have the opportunity to act again in the future, and the other is my son." ”
"I owe him so much, I didn't let him experience his father's love when I was a child, I was often busy filming, I couldn't often be with him, and now that he has just gotten married, I haven't seen his child born yet."
A few words made Hai Qing cry silently: "You can rest assured, in the future, Han Qing will be my brother, and I will take care of him for you." ”
On February 19, 2012, at 9:57 p.m., Mr. Bai Han died of illness at the age of 56.
Haiqing accompanied Bai Han through the last journey of his life in the hospital, and in addition to Bai Han's relatives in the room, only Haiqing was still with him.
She cried and lay down on the edge of her bed and said, "I am not capable enough, I did not find director Ang Lee, I failed to fulfill your wishes." ”
At the funeral, Shanghai Qing held the photo of Teacher Bai Han, did not say a word, and hung up all the phones in the face of the reporter's interview.
The departure of Teacher Bai Han has made her lose her best friend, and she needs a period of calm and does not want to accept any interviews.
According to the instructions of Teacher Bai Han before his death, Haiqing donated his body to a medical institution, and in the face of external doubts, Haiqing only said: "Teacher Bai Han's dedication to the medical cause deserves our respect." ”
Afterwards, she said: "Teacher Bai Han said when she was sober, she hoped that she would die where she wanted, and since there was no hope of living, she would donate her body to people in need, and Teacher Bai Han hoped that her body could help many people who were sick and let more people be rescued." ”
His son Han Qing listened to this sentence and finally understood his mother's approach, and in order to mourn his mother, he changed his name to Han Qing.
The death of Bai Han brought a huge blow to Han Qing, who grew up with her mother for a while, could not accept the truth of her mother's death, and washed her face with tears all day.
Haiqing said: "I am the best friend of your mother, I will be your relatives in the future, you have one more sister, I will take care of you like a brother." ”
After saying that, the two hugged each other tightly, and this feeling transcended blood.
In order to let Han Qing get out of the grief as soon as possible, Haiqing would take him out to relax, but it didn't seem to be of any use.
Haiqing decided to have an in-depth conversation with him, she told her the truth about the guilt of her son that Teacher BaiHan had said to her before, and then said: "You don't know that when your mother leaves, the most reassuring thing is you, she feels ashamed of you, she hopes that without her you can still live happily and happily, instead of living in the shadow of the past and not being able to walk out." ”
Hearing this, Han Qing burst into tears, he said: "I have never blamed her, I think what she gave me is the best in the world, I am not less than others, I will live well." ”
The two had a long talk, and this exchange made Han Qing let go of her grief, and he said to Haiqing: "I am very grateful that you can accompany my mother to the last moment of life, and also take care of me like a relative, and we will be a family from now on." ”
The two looked at each other and smiled, and these two blood-related people explained what family affection was with actions.
Subsequently, Haiqing received a call from the program group, and the award of Teacher Bai Han before his death let Haiqing go to collect it, the original program group did not intend to let Hanqing go to receive it, and felt that Hanqing was an unknown small actor and was not eligible to receive the award.
But Haiqing strongly demanded that Hanqing must be taken, she said: "I want Hanqing to feel the honor of her mother's life, she will be proud of her mother." ”
On the podium, Shanghai Qing looked at Han Qing, who delivered the acceptance speech for her mother, and her face was full of smiles, perhaps she saw the shadow of Teacher Bai Han on Han Qing's body.
Han Qing is also an actor, but because his appearance is not outstanding, he has been playing some small supporting roles, and he has not been mixed up in the show business for many years.
As a "sister", Haiqing will teach him some acting skills in his spare time, and will also take him to the crew to hone his acting skills, under her leadership, Han qing's acting skills have made a great breakthrough, and slowly have more opportunities.
Haiqing will also privately help Hanqing to win some opportunities, and will organize a dinner to introduce Hanqing to the director and producer.
He Fu, the big villain in "The Twelve Hours of Chang'an" in 2019, And Sun Tongjie in "Top Secret Mission" in 2021, Han Qing's performance is eye-catching, fading away from the previous Qing's acting skills, and now he has a bit of a tough guy's taste, all of which are inseparable from Haiqing's help.
Today's Haiqing has also switched from "national daughter-in-law" to revolutionary drama, and has superb acting skills.
Watching the "brothers and sisters" grow up together in the entertainment industry, I have to say that Haiqing is indispensable.
Now as long as Teacher Bai Han is mentioned, Haiqing will still shed tears, and whether she can help Teacher Bai Han realize her desire to act has always been a thorn in her heart.
However, she did her best for Han Qing, who had no blood relationship, and such a person who cherished love and righteousness was already rare in the world.
With such a "sister" who cares deeply about herself, Han Qing said that she was deeply moved.
Family affection is never measured by blood, and the people who really treat you as family are the most worthy of cherishing.
Now that Teacher Bai Han has been dead for nearly ten years, Haiqing is still fulfilling his promise to Teacher Bai Han.
A sentence: "He will be my brother from now on." ", she has observed it to this day.
Haiqing's kindness and sincerity deserve our praise.