"I'm going to trouble you again, my good sister, my son is only 31 years old, not calm enough, after I die, I hope you can treat him as a younger brother and raise him, okay?" Bai Han shed tears before he died, held Haiqing's hands, and after a few words, he never breathed again...
Bai Han has been happy in "bitterness" all his life, with his own efforts and self-motivation, he has emerged in many TV series, especially the role of the evil mother-in-law "Cao Xinmei" played in the TV series "The Good Time of Daughter-in-law", which made her a hit and left an unfinished impression on the audience.
A strong woman who fights for her career wholeheartedly, her family is unfortunate and her feelings are bumpy, and now after her death, whether Haiqing has fulfilled her original promise, and how is her younger brother Han Qing doing now, let's take a look together.
One
Bai Han, as his name suggests, spends his whole life in "cold" and "bitter".
Born an intellectual, she was the only daughter in her family, and was loved by her parents.
But happy and happy family life always came too quickly, and my father was exiled to work in the countryside, but my mother became mentally ill for it.
That year, Bai Han was only 14 years old, and the burden of the family fell on her. The mother was mentally abnormal, and the neighbors turned a blind eye, not only buried the tide, but also threw vegetables and leaves at home, and tried to get rid of the mothers,
Even the school couldn't accommodate her. Bai Han is often ridiculed and discriminated against by his classmates, who are afraid of being stained by her, like chewing gum stuck under his feet, which is disgusting and disgusting.
It's hard to imagine that Bai Han's childhood was gray, and other girls might escape, wipe tears, and commit suicide, but she didn't,
She chose to endure and endure psychological pressure to live carefully among her classmates and neighbors.
In fact, her mother was mentally disturbed and often lost, and Bai Han skipped school several times, searching for her mother all the way, constantly taking care of her living life, for fear of losing her only relative.
In her spare time, she stood in front of the only dilapidated tape recorder in her home, listening to the singing of that era, as if she were the star of the radio.
Perhaps, at that time, the dream of a little artist had been quietly planted in his heart.
Perhaps God has mercy, her mother has actually improved, her mind is clear, her face is full of debt to her daughter, and the mother and mother hugged each other with tears in their eyes.
The improvement of his mother made Bai Han instantly cheer up, yearning for the beginning of a better life in the future, who expected, but his mother could not go away from the hurdle in her heart and chose to take her own life.
At that time, his father also returned to the family, but he was away all year round, and the shell was no longer his own, plus he suffered from advanced esophageal cancer, there was no cure, and his life was over.
The death of his parents made Bai Han fall into a trough. But she has no extra time for herself to grieve, she can only forcibly cheer up, in order to be worthy of her parents in heaven,
Two
In 1960, she graduated from high school and entered the society early to work at the Beijing Power Supply Bureau.
During this period, she did a lot of odd jobs and participated in many performances of art teams, but she was not strong enough professionally, and she lost many battles and achieved nothing.
However, the self-created show "Return" ushered in her turning point. The selection of material for this play is entirely her personal experience, which won the light of the judges and opened the door of her dream of acting.
With a successful career, she ushered in her first spring. Her ex-husband is an outsider, a public institution, the salary is not high, barely making ends meet, and the two got married and had children after talking for less than half a year.
But this marriage is not satisfactory, after marriage, the two are always involved in various trivialities of life, and their personalities are contrasting, which leads to Bai Han's urge to divorce,
But for the sake of her child's mental health, she chose to endure, desperately taking the script, filming, paralyzing herself, and diverting her attention,
But she thought that by doing this, she could dispel her husband's attitude towards her, but the reality was the opposite, and her ex-husband intensified his quarrels with her day and night, and finally had to go to the end of the marriage.
Three
After the divorce, she took her son Han Qing to live in a private house of only 20 square meters, and Bai Han worked as a handyman in addition to filming in order for her son to live better, and put the earned salary into four envelopes.
Bai Han, a diligent and thrifty mother, told her son that the four letters contained electricity, water, education, and living expenses, so that her son understood that life is not easy, and he must know how to save and not waste every amount of money.
Such a state of life, until I met the famous director Han Xiaolei, it improved.
They met at the work seminar, and the experts present were full of praise for Bai Han, but Han Xiaolei stood up and put forward pertinent suggestions and opinions to her, and these few comments made Bai Han have a good impression of him.
Bai Han not only appreciates Han Xiaolei's knowledge, but also likes his gentle and considerate, sincere and bold personality.
The two often date to watch movies and talk dramas, get along very well, and the relationship quickly warms up, and Han Xiaolei is very careful, knowing that Han Qing especially likes to eat citrus, and gives him his friends, and the citrus that he is reluctant to eat is left to Han Qing,
In addition, Han Xiaolei will also care about Han Qing's daily study, living conditions, etc., which moved Han Qing, and inadvertently, shouted "Dad" to Han Xiaolei, which made Han Xiaolei very happy.
In fact, Han Xiaolei's personal experience is similar to Bai Han, he can especially empathize with the pain that Bai Han has experienced, and the two have brought their hearts closer to each other because of their common words.
Four
After marriage, Han Xiaolei and Bai Han lived a happy and quality married life. Han Xiaolei also took care of Bai Han very much, personally took care of all the housework at home, and took care of Han Qing as his own flesh and bones,
This relationship has been maintained for 7 years. Han Xiaolei unexpectedly suffered a heart attack at the age of 62.
After Han Xiaolei died, Bai Han washed her face with tears all day, living in pain, and she even wondered why God was so unfair to herself, allowing herself to lose so many of her loved ones, leaving my son and me alone and suffering.
But she didn't dare to stop, because she still had a son. The son is his only spiritual sustenance.
In 2010, her fortunes took a turn.
Her cooperation with Haiqing "The Good Time of Daughter-in-law and Children" made her a hit and won the highest honor "Magnolia Award" at that time.
Haiqing, a few years younger than her, was born into a famous family, taught strictly since childhood, was influenced by her grandmother and parents, fell in love with acting, was admitted to Nortel, and is a good girl with both literature and art.
In fact, Haiqing's career at the beginning of the period was not particularly good, and what really made Haiqing climb to the peak was that she met high school Meng classmates. Under Mr. Meng's encouragement, she regained her light on the actor, and after getting married, she met Bai Han.
The two have a love affair because of the show. A good sister who not only helps each other in their careers, but also often talks and laughs in private and travels around.
After Bai Han gained friendship and career success, his son also ushered in a happy event,
Han Qing is with Du Feifei, a nurse in a private hospital outside the circle,
After marriage, Bai Han and his daughter-in-law had a relatively harmonious relationship, but there were also many conflicts.
Bai Han once mentioned two things that warmed up the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, one was because of the purchase of clothes, and the values were different; The second is because she is not used to seeing her son being called by her daughter-in-law as a nanny; Third, the daughter-in-law strongly requested that the house be luxuriously decorated and live comfortably.
In order to alleviate the contradiction between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Bai Han asked for help like a mother-in-law expert Han Ying, who told him to grasp the proportion of things, balance his mentality, and do not force his will on others,
Han Ying's words lit up him, and gradually extinguished the anger between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Five
In 2012, Bai Han's dream was shattered. She has been looking forward to spending her old age with her son after filming a few more dramas, but she was found by a pancreatic cell neuroendocrine tumor,
Before dying, Bai Han clasped Haiqing's hand and said tremblingly: "I'm going to trouble you again, my good sister, my son is only 31 years old, not calm enough, after I die, I hope you can treat him as a younger brother and raise him, okay?"
Haiqing shed tears and nodded, Bai Han never breathed again...
After Bai Han passed away, Haiqing promised Bai Han to donate his body to a medical institution and bury him with her husband Han Xiaolei.
Her son Han Qing cried bitterly at the grave, forgave his mother's divorce from her ex-husband, and vowed that he would definitely get ahead.
In the following years, Han Qing also took on various TV series with the help of Haiqing, such as "Little Parting", "Let's Get Married", etc., although they are all supporting roles, but Han Qing takes them seriously.
In each play, he texts his dead mother, telling him that he has grown up, turned grief into strength, and said goodbye to his mother's spirit in heaven.
And Han Qing also changed her name to Hanqing to commemorate her mother. After Bai Han's death, she played the role of the evil mother-in-law Cao Xinmei, and won the supporting actress award, and Haiqing received the award instead.
Write at the end:
Life is like a puzzle, and the longer and deeper you know a person, the more complete the picture becomes. But it can never see the whole thing, because everyone is a mystery, there is no need to see through, but it is always impossible to see through.
Bai Han's life is like a puzzle, she tasted the bittersweet and bittersweet of life, but she was always manipulated by fate, but in the end the painting became more and more complete.
Now 10 years later, I know the reason why Bai Han entrusted his 31-year-old son to Haiqing after his death! ---
She didn't want her son to be like her, walking and tasting unusual roads, she only hoped that her son would have a decent relative by his side to grow up with him, more "family affection" and less "pain", and Haiqing did it.