11 years after his death, he knew why Bai Han wanted to entrust his 31-year-old son to Haiqing when he was dying
Do you remember the vicious mother-in-law who made people hate her teeth in "The Beautiful Times of Daughter-in-law"? She is the actor Bai Han, a strong woman who has gone through hardships in her life and lost her parents and husband. And the national daughter-in-law who confronts her in the play is the well-known Haiqing.
You may think that the two in the play are incompatible, and they must not get along with each other outside the play. Despite the age difference of 22 years, the two get along very well like old friends for many years.
Bai Han met Haiqing at the trough of his life, they shared the joys and pains of life together, and supported each other through one difficulty after another. When Bai Han won the Best Actress for her outstanding acting skills, her life seemed to finally usher in the dawn. However, fate played a trick on her again - she unfortunately fell seriously ill.
At the last moment of his life, Bai Han only saw Haiqing alone. She held Haiqing's hand tightly, her eyes full of trust and expectation. She entrusted Haiqing to take care of her son, and handed over the person she cared about the most in the world to this friend who was not related by blood.
What kind of affection made Bai Han so relieved to hand over his son to Haiqing, and will Haiqing fulfill this heavy promise?
From the trough of marriage to the peak of life, the friendship with Haiqing and the encounter with director Han Xiaolei
When Bai Han felt that there was no one behind her, she chose to entrust her 31-year-old son Han Qing to Haiqing, and this trust and entrustment stemmed from the deep friendship between the two.
Back in time to 1980, when Bai Han was in her youth and her acting career was just starting, she also met her first husband at this time. However, this marriage did not bring happiness and warmth as she had hoped.
Her husband's alcoholism and indifference to the family made Bai Han, who had lacked love since childhood, feel the indifference of life again. Soon after giving birth to her son Han Qing, she chose to divorce, and this short married life became a past she didn't want to mention.
After the divorce, Bai Han put all her mind on acting and raising Han Qing, and she worked hard to shine on the stage and create a better future for her son. Just when she thought she would go through the rest of her life alone, fate quietly came.
In 1996, 41-year-old Bai Han met director Han Xiaolei. The best of the fourth-generation directors pointed out the shortcomings in Bai Han's performance with a unique vision and sharp evaluation.
It was this evaluation that made Bai Hanmao suddenly open his mouth and find a breakthrough in his performance. The two appreciated each other in their cooperation and gradually came together. Despite the 13-year age gap between them, the two have crossed the gap and come together.
Bai Han and Han Xiaolei: Finding Sweet Love in Bitterness
At that time, Han Xiaolei held two precious drama tickets in his hands, and he remembered Bai Han, who was working hard to hone his acting skills. So, a ticket became the starting point of the fate of the two. On the stage of the drama, they saw the various states of life, and in reality, they found the resonance in each other's hearts.
Their friendship deepens imperceptibly and eventually sublimates into love. For this relationship, they cherish it very much, because they have all experienced the failure of the relationship, so they understand this hard-won happiness better.
In Bai Han's heart, those seven years were the happiest time spent with Han Xiaolei. Han Xiaolei's love and care, like warm sunshine, illuminates her once gloomy world. In those days, their laughter and their happiness became the most beautiful scenery in each other's lives.
But fate always seems to like to play tricks on people. Just when Bai Han was immersed in happiness, a sudden change broke her dream. That day, she pushed open the door, but what she saw was Han Xiaolei's pale and weak face. At that moment, her heart felt as if it had been hit with a heavy hammer, and she couldn't breathe in pain.
When people are old, how difficult it is to find a soulful partner. Bai Han's happiness was cruelly taken away in this way, and she fell back into the abyss of life.
But she didn't give up, because she knew that Han Xiaolei in the spirit of heaven must hope that she could live strongly. Bai Han's life is like a glass of coptis water, extremely bitter. But it is this bitterness that makes her cherish the sweetness she once had even more.
Cinderella's counterattack: The road to acting and the fight against fate
Bai Han once had a happy childhood, with a well-to-do family and a pampered parent. However, the good times did not last long, and the giant wheel of history ruthlessly crushed this warm little home.
His father was sent to the farm, and his mother was suspended and laid off, and she went insane. Bai Han, who was only seven years old, was forced to end his carefree life ahead of schedule and began to take on the burden of the family.
She travels between school and home every day, taking care of her sick mother and cleaning up the mess. Loneliness and fear became her childhood companions, and friends became unattainable luxuries. At the age of fourteen, his mother chose to die after a short period of soberness, and Bai Han's world completely collapsed.
Two years later, Bai Han dropped out of school and entered the society, looking for work to make ends meet. However, due to family composition problems, she hit a wall everywhere. Luckily, she found a job repairing electricity meters at the power supply bureau, which she cherished even more. It was here that she unexpectedly got the opportunity to perform on stage, and the seeds of acting in her heart quietly sprouted.
Facing the pressure of family and society, Bai Han did not give up his love for acting. She went around to learn from her teachers and seize every opportunity to perform. Although she has been rejected repeatedly, she has always believed that gold will always shine. Finally, after countless attempts and failures, she gradually rose to prominence on the stage.
However, fate did not let Bai Han go. Her father, who was sent down, was carried home due to a serious illness, and the bad news of advanced esophageal cancer pushed her into the abyss again. Faced with the high cost of treatment and her father on the sickbed, she was powerless. The death of her father made her a real orphan.
The hard-working acting life
In 1979, the dawn of society began to appear, and she also found an opportunity to turn around and change her life in this dawn.
That year, Bai Han shocked the judges of the National Experimental Drama with a self-directed and self-performed drama "Return", and it is said that 5 or 6 of the 7 or 8 examiners at that time were moved by her performance and burst into tears. This drama was created by her based on her own experience, and those hardships, like keys, knocked on the door of her acting career.
On stage, Bai Han is a radiant actor, and in life, she is a strong mother. Although her first marriage did not bring her much happiness, she left her the most precious gift - her son Han Qing. The mother and son depended on each other, and it was not until the appearance of her second husband Han Xiaolei that she felt the long-lost happy time.
In Bai Han's acting career, she has always pursued progress and constantly improved her acting skills. Her performances are authentic and moving, and they always touch the hearts of the audience deeply.
In the hospital bed, she still remembered acting, and even said that if Director Ang Lee came to her to play a dying patient, she would rather give up treatment than act. This dedication and love for acting can't help but be moved.
However, fate always plays tricks on people. At the last moment of Bai Han's life, she was still most at ease with her son and acting. Her New Year's friend Haiqing always couldn't help shedding tears whenever she mentioned it.
She promised Bai Han that she would have an extra brother from now on and would take good care of Han Qing. This commitment is not only a consolation to Bai Han, but also a testimony to her deep friendship. Now, Si Ren has passed away, and there is one less serious actor in the entertainment industry!
Mother's love is like a mountain: the act of supporting the lonely and the endless affection
It is not an exaggeration to say that Bai Han is a hard-working person. For her, family affection is like snowflakes in the northern winter, beautiful but cold, and melts at her fingertips. Early on, life forced her to learn to face the wind, frost, rain and snow independently.
In her first marriage, she was like walking into an ice cellar with no temperature. Her husband's indifference and irresponsibility made her feel no warmth in the siege of marriage. In the second marriage, although her husband gave her and her stepson Han Qing a sincere heart, fate made people, and happiness always slipped away from her fingertips like quicksand.
In this context, Bai Han has few shoulders to rely on. And Haiqing, as her best friend, is like the starlight that flickers stubbornly in the dark, giving her endless comfort and strength.
Han Qing is 31 years old, and for many people, this age is already a man who stands up to the sky. But in Bai Han's eyes, he is still the child who needs to be cared for. This mother's love is as deep as the sea, as thick as the mountains, and it is moving.
So, when Bai Han made the decision to entrust his son to Haiqing, what else can we say? This is not a simple trust and delivery, but a warm road paved for her son by a mother at the last moment of her life.
The glitz and bustle of the entertainment industry quietly receded at this moment, leaving only the heavy maternal love and Bai Han's tenacity and wisdom. She makes us understand that parental love is not only a warm embrace and endless giving, but also a far-reaching plan and selfless dedication.