That she walked is a big loss in the entertainment industry.
I get goosebumps when I watch her play.
This is a dialogue between Venus and Haiqing in a show, and the person they mention is Bai Han, who starred with Haiqing in "The Good Time of the Daughter-in-Law".
In the early morning of February 19, 2012, Haiqing received a call from Bai Hanqing, the son of Teacher Bai Han, "Sister, come here, the doctor wants to see the family."
Bai Han had been in the hospital for several months at this time, in fact, in Haiqing's heart, she already knew that the other party's time was short, and when she heard Han Qing's crying voice on the phone, she realized that maybe...
On the way to the hospital, she asked the agent to push off the afternoon activities, and people are often the most sensitive when they are sick.
Therefore, Hai Qingqiang calmly teased Bai Han with happiness.
"What do you think now?" Can you still act? ”
"Of course, if Ang Lee sees me now, let me play a dying person, a cancer person, I am not cured, I am willing to act." 」
"I'll help you get in touch!"
Haiqing is 22 years younger than Bai Han, but the generation gap in age has not affected the feelings of the two, and they get along like mother and daughter, like sisters, and trust each other extremely.
After dinner, Bai Han entrusted Haiqing with two things, one was that she and her husband were buried together, and the other was to help her take care of Qing'er.
After speaking, Bai Han calmly closed her eyes and bid farewell to the world that had made her suffer for a lifetime.
Haiqing is only 4 years older than Hanqing and does not need to rely on anyone at all.
So, why did Bai Han leave such a will, 10 years of precipitation finally understood her intentions.
01、
Bai Han's life was just like her name, cold and desolate.
Born in 1955, her parents were very cultured, and when she was young, she was the envy of others.
Her parents attach great importance to her education, and her grades have always been very good, and this period of time is the most stable and happy in her life.
Due to the special period, her father was sent to the countryside to work as a coolie, and her mother was also a little nervous because of the blow.
At this time, she was just a primary school student, and human maturity had nothing to do with age, it was experience.
Xiao Baihan ran home as fast as she could every day after school, and she was worried that her mother was running around again with illness.
She slept very lightly, and as soon as the bell on the door rang she would immediately get up and check it out.
Mothers are sometimes rude to neighbors or her classmates, so everything she does every day needs to be done by herself, without the help of others.
The grievances in his heart were incomparable, but Xiao Baihan had no one to talk to.
Once, the school unified to organize the viewing of movies, she chose another corner of the position, while watching and crying, not only the plot is touching, but also to find a way for herself to vent.
In 1969, when her mother's consciousness was awakened, Xiao Baihan naively thought that everything would return to the right way, and when she returned from school, she was paralyzed by the scene in front of her.
The mother's lips were already white, and her body was lying on the ground cold without breathing.
At this time, she realized that before she went out, her mother said to her,"Child, mother is sorry for you", which is saying goodbye to herself.
In the year of her mother's death, her father transferred back.
But her father was no longer the way she remembered, from the original tall and strong figure to a dry and thin appearance, and his voice was no longer loud, on the contrary, it was weak and ethereal.
Years of fatigue have left my father in poor physical condition.
When Xiao Baihan could not feel the warmth of his father's love, his father found out esophageal cancer.
The high cost of treatment is that this fragmented family can not afford it at all, and in desperation, Xiao Baihan took his father home to take care of it.
The father was often cried out in pain on the bed, and as a daughter, she could only wipe her sweat and body after her father eased up.
At night, she would lie next to her father, who often stroked her head and said, "Everything will be all right."
Unfortunately, it backfired, many things can not be obtained by hard work, and human beings are very small in the face of life and death.
Eventually, her father also left.
Family members have passed away one after another, and it is difficult for adults to accept it, not to mention that Xiao Baihan was only a child at that time.
Heroes in the chaotic world, this sentence also applies in life,
From the moment she lost her parents, she knew that in this world there would no longer be anyone who would be unconditionally kind to her, and she could only rely on herself.
The hardships of life made her stronger, and in order to support herself, she dropped out of school at the age of 16 to work.
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Although she was young, she was very capable, and she did not complain about the hard work.
Over time, her boss introduced her to a serious job.
So she became a worker with the help of well-wishers.
At that time, it was in the development period of the mainland, and workers were the most important people in social development, but the work was relatively tiring.
At first, she was assigned to the workshop to make parts, and she worked for 3 years.
Subsequently, the staff in the factory was transferred, and she was assigned to the maintenance team and became a watch repair master, where the work was much cleaner than in the workshop.
She dedicated her 8 years of youth to the factory, the cruelty of life did not make her lonely, cold, she is still optimistic, upward.
During that time, she often went to her colleagues' homes to watch TV, and looking at the brilliant singers on the screen, she thought that if only she could become a singer.
Bai Han was a person who had ideas and was bound to pay action, and she began to inquire about the recruitment of major art troupes everywhere.
As long as it is still within the time of registration, she will definitely participate and fight for herself.
After several interviews, she managed to get a chance to retake the exam, but the examiner eliminated her on the grounds that her parents had investigated her background.
In the six months that followed, she attended no less than 20 interviews, each time for the same reason.
Where there is bitterness, there must be sweetness, which is in line with the laws of nature.
In 1979, Bai Han met her own Bole, who also brought her into the entertainment circle.
This person is Sun Qingrong, the father of Sun Song, the actor of Wang Husheng in "Longing".
By chance, Sun Qingrong went to the song and dance troupe to find friends, and happened to meet Bai Han who was interviewing, and he felt that such a little girl was very spirited, and if she acted, she should be a good seedling.
There was no accident at all, and Bai Han failed again.
When she was depressed, Sun Qingrong stopped her and suggested that she could apply for the drama troupe.
After a period of study, Bai Han participated in the recruitment of the National Experimental Drama Troupe and was successfully admitted.
The show she performed, based on herself, told the story of her and her mother squatting in front of her house every day waiting for her father to come home, but when he returned, the home was just a word in a book.
The most touching emotion is sincerity, and people who have often experienced great compassion can interpret the hope of life more vividly.
The judges present were all touched by it and shed tears.
There were more than 6,000 participants that year, and the number of participants was only 24, and Bai Han was one of them.
With his super high acting talent, Bai Han has been a very good actor in a short period of time and has been recognized by his predecessors.
The dramas she has participated in are also countless, such as "Peach Blossom Fan" and other works.
Men should marry when women marry, and Bai Han has also reached the age of marriage.
In 1981, she fell in love with a person outside her circle with a friend.
If the appearance is likened to a flower, then the inner cultivation is the flower heart, emitting a unique floral fragrance.
The man is a staff member, a Beijing native, who is not very good-looking, but he is very cultured, also respectful of women, and also takes good care of Bai Han.
Therefore, after a year of love, the two officially became husband and wife.
For Bai Han, although he also has a house, he will always be very disappointed when he comes home at night to see that other houses are brightly lit, and only his own windows in the whole building are black.
Now, even if she comes home late after rehearsal, the lights at home are always on, and her husband will wait for her in the living room.
This allowed her to feel the warmth of her family for many years at one time.
But what she never expected was that such warm, happy days did not last long.
A year after marriage, the original world of two people became a family of three, and the two named the child Han Qing.
The closer the person is, the more he understands the weakness of the other person, and therefore, he will eventually hurt the other person.
Bai Han has personally experienced the pain of losing her mother's love, so she would rather temporarily give up her career than accompany her children to grow up.
In this way, she not only has time to accompany her son, but also her husband can let him eat a hot meal after work.
After she returned to the family, the family's expenses were all on the head of her husband.
With the change of the times, the efficiency of many factories is not good, and there are dismissed employees every day.
The husband watched his colleagues being dismissed one by one, and his heart was very worried, and he could only express himself with hard work, because of this, he was very depressed inside.
After returning home, he often vented about his wife and children, and even complained about why he wanted to marry Bai Han, and his words were very hurtful.
In order to let her son have a complete home, she repeatedly tolerated and forgiven, and the result was ruthless spit and disgust.
Poor parents in the world, in order to keep this home, she gave up the time she cared about most about spending time with her children, and returned to the crew to shoot, so that she could subsidize the family, and the pressure on her husband would be less.
At that time, the film and television circle in the mainland was not developed, and the equipment was relatively backward, so the shooting time was relatively long.
When Bai Han returned home after filming, he lamented that the child was really the same every day, and when he was ready to hold his son, the son called her aunt.
She stood frozen for a few seconds, holding her son calmly and stating that she was his mother.
At night, she lay in bed unconsciously thinking about this and her son, crying like a child who had lost her beloved toy under the covers.
Even so, when she and her husband discussed spending time with the children, they were opposed, and for a few days she rested, the battle between the two was ready to start.
When her husband went to work, Bai Han came to his son's room, looked at his sleeping son and said, "Son, don't blame the mother", revealing the firmness of something from her eyes.
At the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Bai Han and her husband were dressed neatly, holding divorce papers in their hands, and the last words she said to her husband were "Good luck and goodbye."
03、
Bai Han won custody, she loves her son, and at the same time, his son is also her spiritual pillar, her only relative in this world.
Actors were originally a profession, different from the millions of salaries of actors now, and even famous actors at that time were paid a fixed salary every month like ordinary workers.
Bai Han's salary is 40 yuan, these dozens of yuan is her and her son's security, she will divide the money into several parts, the purpose of each share is also very clear, Qing'er's tuition, family living expenses, water and electricity costs...
During this time, Bai Han lived like a robot, getting up on time, cooking, picking up and dropping off children, going to work, sleeping, and full of exhaustion.
Just when the mother and son were struggling, Han Xiaolei reached out to help.
Han Xiaolei is a well-known director in the film and television circle, and he has directed many works, such as "Iron Mayor" and "Looking for Old Jiao".
In 1995, in an academic conversation, he suggested to Bai Han, "When acting, emotion is very strong and there is a sense of substitution, but the clarity of the lines and the flexibility of the body are lacking."
For the problems pointed out by the well-known director, Bai Han attached great importance to it, and discussed some professional knowledge with Han Xiaolei alone after the meeting, so as to improve his own ability.
To this end, the two exchanged contact information.
Through a short contact, Director Han admired Bai Han and asked her colleagues in the troupe for her news.
He knew she was a single mom, but he didn't know what she had been through, and at this moment, he had changed from admiration to admiration.
In June of the same year, he watched a drama with Bai Han and expressed his inner thoughts, opening his heart to each other, similar fates, unhappy marriages, and the two had too many common topics.
In 1989, Bai Han divorced her ex-husband, and in 1996, she and Han Xiaolei married.
7 years is not a long road in life, but her most difficult days, a helpless mother pulling a young child, how difficult it is to walk!
In one show, her evaluation of her second marriage was "with Han Xiaolei, I feel like my first love."
Only the injured people know the same people best, and Han Dao is very good to his wife and Qing'er, and wholeheartedly loves and takes care of them.
Bai Han's life after marriage with Han Xiaolei satisfies all the fantasies of a girl about beautiful love.
Having a loving breakfast after getting up, going for a walk in the park hand in hand at night, and occasionally traveling abroad is the happiest moment for Bai Han.
However, God still did not stand by her side this time.
In the 8th year of their marriage, Han Xiaolei died at the age of 62 due to ineffective rescue.
Since then, Bai Han has closed her feelings, and no one can take the place of her husband in her carefulness, although she was only 48 years old at the time.
In the past 7 years, she has thought about finding another partner countless times, but she is afraid that the other party will let Qing'er be wronged, so she has not interacted.
Until the appearance of Han Xiaolei, in her heart, her husband not only gave herself a happy marriage, but also gave her son a warm home, so that he could feel the father's love.
Han Qing looked at his mother in grief and thought that her mother would collapse, but he was tenacious in his mother, and half a month later, her mother threw herself into acting again.
In 2009, a drama about family trivialities and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was officially broadcast.
Bai Han was well known to the public with the role of his mother-in-law Cao Xinmei, and won the Best Actress Award, which can be described as a success.
A lifetime of hard work, it should have been a happy thing to become popular when she was about to enter the age of the flower nail, but she was detected for neuroendocrine tumors.
At this time, her last concern was her son Qing'er.
On her deathbed, she entrusted her son to Haiqing.
According to her instructions, the son did not hold a farewell to the body, and donated his healthy organs to the people in need free of charge, making his last contribution to society.
In order to commemorate his mother's nurturing grace, he changed his name To Hanqing.
At the funeral, in addition to the son and daughter-in-law, only the main creators and directors of "Happy Belle Epoque" were present.
Haiqing holds the portrait of the old man, and Hanqing and his son Huang Haibo in the play send him off.
After that, Haiqing thought of Hanqing everywhere and regarded him as his own brother.
In 2013, she won the Best Supporting Actress Award for her mother-in-law's role.
The producer invited Haiqing to go to collect it, but she refused, and said that only Hanqing was eligible for this award.
On the podium, Haiqing's eyes were full of love and satisfaction.
Han Qing came forward this time, Haiqing on the one hand to express his respect for Bai Han, on the other hand, for the sake of his brother's future.
Later, under the strong recommendation of Haiqing, Hanqing participated in many large-scale film and television works, and his performance in the play was very good.
The director and crew also have a good evaluation of him, and his dedication and dedication are all role models for the industry.
10 years have passed, Haiqing not only helps Hanqing in her career, but if her brother has difficulties in life, she also starts to help at the first time.
Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for them
Bai Han handed over his son to Haiqing at the last moment, just so that his son would not experience the same familyless days as her.
Although she is not related by blood, she believes in her own vision and believes in Haiqing's character.
The adoptive child knows the grace of the parents, and the adopted daughter knows the hardship of the mother!
Now that Han Qing has her own daughter, she can better appreciate her mother's hardships at that time.
The most precious and expensive thing in the world is not a diamond, not a treasure, but a loved one.
In this life, Teacher Bai Han has had too many bumpy and miserable experiences, just like the Tang monks who have to go through nine nine hundred and eighty-one difficulties in taking the scriptures, and regard the difficulties as a gorgeous dress, and when you take off this dress one day, you will get the true scriptures.
I hope that all people can bravely face difficulties and eventually become a warrior in life.
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