In February 2012, Haiqing was participating in an event when he suddenly received a call from Han Qing:
"Sister, you come to the hospital, the doctor told the family to come to see the last side."
Prior to this, Bai Han had been in a coma for several days,
This time I woke up to a return to the light.
Haiqing pushed off all the work and ran to the hospital.
Before entering the ward, Bai Han asked, "Is Haiqing coming?" ”
Haiqing: "I haven't pushed open the door yet, how do you know?" ”
Bai Han: "I feel like you." ”
Haiqing saw Bai Han lying dying on the bed, and her heart was very uncomfortable, and she had to hold back the tears.
Bai Han took Haiqing's hand, and she said that she could not rest assured of her son.
Haiqing knew the concerns in Bai Han's heart, and she promised Bai Han in front of the hospital bed:
"You can rest assured, I will have one more brother in the future, and I will treat Qing well."
Bai Han finally stopped worrying and quietly closed his eyes on February 19 at the age of 56.
It has been 10 years since Bai Han's death, and Haiqing, who originally said that he would help her take care of her son, has now fulfilled his promise?
01
The BaiHan family was born very well, the father was a teacher, and the mother was a public member.
However, when he was 7 years old, because of the change of times, his parents lost their jobs.
After that, both intellectuals went to work in factories.
At a young age, Bai Han had to learn to take care of himself.
And my mother was devastated by all kinds of blows.
Depressed all day, unrecognizable, often gibberish.
Dad worked in the countryside again, and the burden of taking care of mom fell on Bai Han.
She got up every morning to make her own breakfast and prepare a day's ration for her mother.
After everything was settled, Bai Han locked the door of the house and put his school bag on his back to go to school.
When Bai Han came back from school, he still had to clean up the mess that his mother was tossing and turning.
But she was not upset by this, and she firmly believed that the days would always get better and better.
No matter how her mother tossed and turned, she silently cleaned up everything without complaint.
On a normal day, Bai Han prepared a day's ration for his mother as usual.
Before going to school, her mother suddenly said to her: "Child, mom is sorry for you." ”
Bai Han's heart lit up with hope, and she thought that her mother should be gradually clear.
She was particularly happy on her way to school that day, and her steps were particularly light.
By the time she got home from school, however, her mother had broken herself off in her dilapidated bed.
Bai Han stood by the bed and could not speak.
Also in this year, Bai Han's father was diagnosed with advanced esophageal cancer.
It wasn't long before my father lay on this bed and died.
Bai Han's young mind had long been devastated.
She was the only one left in the yard, not only to go to school, but also to find a way to earn money to support herself.
Bai Han has loved to listen to drama since she was a child, but she can't afford to buy a radio, so she can only lie on the window sill of a neighbor's house and listen.
In this way, east and west, Bai Han learned to sing.
At the age of 15, Bai Han became a worker.
First of all, I did the lathe work, one stop is one day, and the work is very heavy.
Three years later, Bai Han became a watchmaker again, which was cleaner and easier than that of a lathe worker.
Repair this job, one year is 4 years.
In these 4 years, every day is a torment for Bai Han.
She is not here, and only longs for art and performance.
Once in a while, the propaganda team asked her to be a announcer.
Since that day, Bai Han has been looking around for whether the major art troupes have sent out recruitment information.
As long as she enrolls, she will sign up.
Once she passed an exam for an orchestra, but was eliminated because of her parents.
Since then, she has taken more than 20 different exams in succession, but each time she has been brushed off because of this problem.
In 1979, Bai Han finally saw hope.
This year, Bai Han received guidance from nobles.
This nobleman is Teacher Sun Qingrong.
Sun Qingrong's wife is Han Ying, who played "Aunt Liu" in "Longing";
The son is Sun Song, who once played a role in "Longing" to see people and scolded "Wang Husheng".
Teacher Sun Qingrong found that Bai Han had a talent for acting, so he suggested that she focus on acting and put the music on the table for the time being.
After the guidance of Teacher Sun, Bai Han went to apply for the drama troupe.
And successfully stood out from thousands of candidates.
Since then, Bai Han has become a drama actor.
At the age of 25, Bai Han met a man.
The two fell in love at first sight, and the man was very gentle and attentive.
At that time, Bai Han married each other.
On the wedding day, the neighbors couldn't help but wipe away tears.
"This child is so bitter, and now he finally has a home."
Also in the year of marriage, Bai Han gave birth to a son, Han Qing.
Bai Han, who thought he was lonely and bitter, finally had his own warm family,
But fate never treated this poor woman well.
Not long after the birth of the child, the husband's temperament changed dramatically.
When you're in a relationship, you're two people.
Yelled at Bai Han all day, and sometimes beat her when he was drunk.
For the sake of the child, Bai Han endured again and again.
But Bai Han's tolerance could not be exchanged for her husband's understanding.
Eventually, Bai Han divorced her husband and lived alone with her children.
Years later, she expressed this matter in the show, telling endless grievances.
"I don't want to say his name because he's the last person I want to remember, and the least willing to talk about."
After the divorce, Bai Han returned to the desolate courtyard with his children.
No one knew why they divorced, and the neighbors only knew that the bitter girl was back.
02
Bai Han suffered a lot with a child.
In order to make money, she has done everything, filming in the water in the winter, getting sick and insisting on working in the cold wind.
But every day when I come home and see my son's smile, it's all worth it.
That period was also the stage when Bai Han's film and television works were the most numerous.
In 1988, Wang Fulin, the director of "Dream of the Red Chamber", found Bai Han.
He invited Bai Han to star in the TV series "Anecdotes of Concubine Zhuang".
This drama has increased The popularity of Bai Han again.
Since then, Bai Han has starred in film and television dramas such as "Women Are Not the Moon", "Love Crisis", "Urban Love Words" and so on.
However, the response has been flat and has been in a tepid state.
In 1995, the 40-year-old Bai Han attended a drama seminar.
Many peers in the industry have expressed their affirmation of Bai Han's acting skills.
Only Han Xiaolei offered a rebuttal.
In a wave of encouragement, Han Xiaolei pointed out that Bai Han had many shortcomings and deficiencies.
The scene was suddenly silent, and the atmosphere was very awkward.
Han Xiaolei is the winner of the Feitian Award for Best Screenplay and is the fourth generation of famous directors.
The fifth generation of directors Chen Kaige and Li Shaohong have been guided by him.
Everyone was playing round, trying to soften the atmosphere.
At this time, the criticized Bai Han did not remember him, but also humbly accepted Han Xiaolei's criticism.
Because Bai Han's career is indeed in a bottleneck period, there has been no breakthrough.
Han Xiaolei's criticism was undoubtedly a timely rain that made her realize the problem.
Therefore, Bai Han and Han Xiaolei became good friends.
A few months later, Han Xiaolei got two drama tickets.
He wanted to invite Bai Han to watch it with him.
To surprise Bo Han, he didn't call her and was ready to deliver it to her house in person.
When Han Xiaolei arrived at the mouth of the hutong, he saw Bai Han carrying a gas canister to his home alone.
Under the scorching sun, the beads of sweat on Bai Han's head were particularly obvious.
Han Xiaolei also had a failed marriage, and at this moment he seemed to be able to appreciate Bai Han's difficulty.
Two people who had the same illness began to comfort each other.
They tell each other the stories of their hearts and encourage each other.
Soon, the two walked hand in hand into the palace of marriage.
For most people, one marriage is irrational, and the second marriage is very rational.
For Bai Han, the second marriage made her dig her heart and lungs even more.
Two middle-aged people together, actually found the feeling of first love.
Han Xiaolei will tell Bai Han a lot of big truths.
Bai Han is more pessimistic, which is related to her experience in the first half of her life.
She sighed often, and it was hard to laugh from the heart.
Han Xiaolei found a friend of psychology to give Bai Han guidance.
Every time Bai Han encounters a problem, he thinks in a bad way.
Once, when Bai Han had just learned to drive, he scraped someone else's car.
Bai Han thought to himself, "How can I be so unlucky, I still have to repair my own car, and I have to lose money." ”
But Han Xiaolei was very open-minded, comforting her: "You have to think so, this is the tuition you pay, how can you drive a good car without paying tuition!" ”
With this, Bai Han's heart immediately opened up.
Before meeting Han Xiaolei, Bai Han's life was as bitter as Huang Lian's.
After meeting Han Xiaolei, it was as if a warm ray of sunshine shone into her heart.
Let her finally clear the fog and see the sun.
Together, they went to the market to buy vegetables and went to the cinema to enjoy the film together.
Sit at home together and discuss performances, discuss life.
Han Xiaolei has a heavy taste, likes oil, likes spicy, and Bai Han has a light taste.
But neither of the two people has ever had a conflict because of diet,
Han Xiaolei will accommodate her and will learn to cook light meals for her.
Bai Han never felt warm in her first husband, and the second husband compensated her.
In the interview, Bai Han said: "When I met him, I knew the taste of first love, he was my first love. ”
Bai Han was finally not alone.
03
Bai Han's life after marrying Han Xiaolei was the happiest time in her life.
Unfortunately, this period lasted only seven years.
In the early morning of March 19, 2003, Bai Han and Han Xiaolei got up early as usual to buy vegetables.
Suddenly Han Xiaolei felt a little uncomfortable in his heart, tightness in his chest and shortness of breath.
That year, Han Xiaolei was 62 years old, and Bai Han didn't care too much, thinking that this was a normal phenomenon for the elderly.
So she let Han Xiaolei rest at home, and she went to the market to buy vegetables by herself.
When she returned with fresh fruits and vegetables, she found herself without the key.
She called out to her husband to open the door, but no one inside answered.
The knock on the door of Bai Han became louder and louder, but the husband never responded.
She quickly called to open the lock company, and when the door opened, Bai Han's heart would be broken.
Han Xiaolei was lying on the ground, no longer had vital signs.
That year, Bai Han was 48 years old.
Life had never treated her well, and all the good memories of the past were like a dream.
Also like the moon in the water, it shatters when you touch it.
She wished it was like a dream, waking up with her husband still around.
Fate never seemed to favor her.
Bai Han once again devoted himself to his career, and only by keeping himself busy could he not think about these sad things.
In 2009, the 54-year-old Bai Han received an invitation from director Liu Jiang.
This time she and Haiqing played the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
This drama is the most representative "Beautiful Age of Daughter-in-Law" in Bai Han's life.
In the play, Bai Han plays "Cao Xinmei".
Haiqing plays "Cao Xinmei's daughter-in-law "Edamame".
Edamame bean is a nurse, and it just so happens that Bai Han's daughter-in-law is also a nurse.
"Cao Xinmei" the first husband was not good to her, and the second husband died unfortunately.
This is very similar to what happened to BoHan.
Bai Han himself said: "The film side chose me in particular, and my life experience with Cao Xinmei is roughly similar. ”
"I like to play people who screw up, and people with personalization and psychological problems have more room to play their acting skills. But I have never had the opportunity to show myself in all directions. Only I can play Cao Xinmei well. - Bai Han"
She was right, Cao Xinmei was an extremely screwed person.
He loves his children, is particularly suspicious, extremely frugal and extremely picky, but especially wants to attract the attention of his children.
Bo Han played this role "alive".
As soon as the TV series was broadcast, Bai Han was popular all over the country.
"The Belle Epoque of the Daughter-in-Law" has become a must-see program for the audience after tea and dinner.
The drama also once became popular in Africa, translated into many Chinese words and broadcast overseas.
In the crew, she and Haiqing, who is 22 years apart, became girlfriends who talked about everything.
Two people travel together, go shopping together, eat together, confide in each other.
In 2010, the 54-year-old Bai Han won two major awards: "Magnolia Award for Best Actress" and "Best Supporting Actress Award at the Chinese Opera Festival".
The era that belonged to Bai Han has finally arrived.
She waited too long for this moment.
Unfortunately, Heaven had just given Bai Han a little sweetness, and immediately took it away from her.
In 2011, Bai Han was unwell and was admitted to the hospital during the filming of "Loss is a Blessing".
Subsequently confirmed as a neuroendocrine tumor.
Haiqing visited her many times and kept cheering her on.
Bai Han is still concerned about her acting career in bed, she has loved acting all her life, loves art, and she can give up her life for acting.
She jokingly said from her hospital bed: "If Director Ang Lee asks me to play a dying patient now, I won't even be cured of the disease, and I will immediately go to act." ”
Haiqing wants to fulfill Bai Han's wish, and she contacts director Ang Lee through various channels to win a role for Bai Han.
Unfortunately, Bai Han couldn't wait.
On February 19, 2012, Bai Han passed away.
Before his death, Bai Han once said: "Don't do the farewell ceremony of the body, donate my body to the medical cause and make some contributions to society." ”
In order to commemorate his mother, his son Han Qing changed his name to Han Qing.
At the funeral, Shanghai Qing held up the remains of Bai Han, with a haggard face.
She also kept in mind the promise she had made.
Thinking about his younger brother Hanqing everywhere in life.
In 2013, Bai Han won the Best Supporting Actress Award again for "The Belle Epoque of daughter-in-law".
The program team informed the heroine Haiqing to go to collect it.
But Haiqing left this opportunity to Han Qing.
First, I feel that I do not have the qualifications to take the lead for Bai Han.
The second is to let the unknown Han Qing show his face in front of the major directors.
Han Qing also did not live up to Haiqing's kindness.
He performed very decently on stage and spoke to a very high standard.
Haiqing looked at him from the sidelines, just like her sister looked at her brother.
The eyes were full of love and relief.
Haiqing also often uses his personal connections to introduce resources to Hanqing.
Under the introduction of Haiqing, Han qing has participated in film and television dramas such as "Let's Get Married", "The Twelve Hours of Chang'an", "The Old Tavern", and "Top Secret Mission".
Han Qing is very dedicated, and the actors who have worked with him have a good impression of him.
Now Hanqing also has her own daughter, "the adopter Knows the Grace of His Parents".
Han Qing realized even more that it was not easy for his mother to raise him alone.
He also adhered to his mother's responsible attitude towards art and worked hard to make films.
We also admire Ms. Bai Han's respect for life and art, and she has donated her remains to make great contributions to the medical community.
"The world kisses me with pain, but I sing in return."
Haiqing took such good care of a brother who was not related by blood because of a single word, which was really touching.
The recent hit "Hidden in the Dust", Haiqing also does not want to be paid, just to help the director realize his dreams.
She also went to the countryside to live with local villagers for a year, just to restore the characters more realistically.
Bai Han did not look at the wrong person, she could fully trust Haiqing.
Looking back on Teacher Bai Han's life, almost all of them have been spent in suffering, but fortunately, two people who brought her warmth have appeared in her life.
One is Han Xiaolei, who respects her like a guest and treats her like her first love.
One is Haiqing, who is very affectionate and righteous, and who is dedicated to her son.
Although the big instrument was late, he finally got his own award in his later years.
There are no regrets in this life.