In 2012, Bai Han, who was lying on the hospital bed, smiled and said: If director Ang Lee sees me, let me play a dying person.
Haiqing tightly held Bai Han's hand and said to her: Sister, you don't give up, I believe you can definitely stand up, and then we will go to film together.
In the face of severe illness, Bai Han used an optimistic and positive attitude to let Haiqing believe her words, and after leaving the ward, he contacted director Ang Lee through multiple channels, but he did not expect that Haiqing, who was trying to do things for his friends, finally fell short.
Just a few days later, Bai Han left forever at the age of 57. At the time of her death, there was one thing that could not be relieved, that is, her son Han Qing, who entrusted her son to Haiqing on her deathbed.
Bai Han's son, Han Qing, was 31 years old at the time. And Han Qing, who was a young man, would take care of himself, and he had also starred in many film and television works, but why did Bai Han still make such a decision? How did Haiqing make Bai Han trust?
Now that 10 years have passed, I finally understand Bai Han's good intentions.
The deep friendship between Bai Han and Hai Qing is based on the TV series "The Belle Epoque of daughter-in-law", in which the two play the role of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
For the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it has always been a major problem in the world, and in this drama, it is the same, Bai Han in the play is an "evil mother-in-law", and Haiqing, as a daughter-in-law, is also uncomfortable and difficult.
Although the relationship in the play is how uncomfortable, outside the play, Bai Han and HaiQing are a pair of yearless girlfriends, not under the camera, the two are good sisters who talk about nothing, as long as they shout, the two people instantly transform from sisters to mother-in-law.
Looking at the different and difficult mother-in-law, how many people are complaining when watching this TV series, Bai Han used that superb acting skill to conquer the audience.
Fortunately, before the end of the TV series, Haiqing also impressed his mother-in-law with his own efforts and sincerity. After the broadcast of this drama, it also set off a wave of chasing dramas, and the wonderful performances of Bai Han and Haiqing also won one award after another.
Perhaps the cooperation is very enjoyable, Bai Han also agreed with Haiqing, but also to find opportunities to cooperate, hoping that the next work, can cooperate to play mother and daughter.
Although the two play well, there is a gap in age, Bai Han Haiqing is 22 years old, which should have been the generation of his mother and aunt, but Bai Han and Bai Han became sisters.
When there is no drama, the two will meet together, talk about the street, eat, and even talk about life, talk about ideals, chat and talk about land, and exchange various things in the show business circle.
Perhaps because he was older, Bai Han was very fond of Haiqing, and he could think of Haiqing whenever there was any good thing, but Bai Han's kindness to Haiqing was even envious of his own son Han Qing.
It just didn't make people think that Bai Han suffered from a tumor and finally died due to ineffective treatment.
However, on the occasion of his death, Haiqing entrusted his son to Haiqing and directly said: After he left the world, he would donate the body to remove it and make a little contribution.
Despite facing death, Bai Han still had someone else in mind.
If you use one word to describe Bai Han's life, it must be bitter.
Bai Han, who looks bright and beautiful, has experienced many ups and downs and heartaches behind him.
Bai Han was born in Xicheng District, Beijing in 1955, the son of a teacher at the China Public Security University and a court recorder to his mother.
Because she is the only daughter in the family, Bai Han can be described as a collection of thousands of pets, enjoying a carefree life. But happiness is always short-lived, and with the advent of the special era, the Bai Han family ushered in persecution.
My father was assigned to work in the countryside, and even my mother was tortured, and the family's major changes have greatly affected the family, especially my mother, who is suffering from mental illness and delirium.
Despite her young age at that time, Bai Han had already supported the family, because her father was sent to the countryside, and her mother was delirious, and she could only stand up.
It is only the mental illness of his mother that also makes Bai Han suffer many ups and downs. Whenever she went to school, her classmates would laugh at her mother as a mentally ill, and Bai Han, who was ridiculed, could only endure bitterly.
When she came home from school, she couldn't see her mother, so she knew that her mother might have run out blindly, and she had to look everywhere.
This special situation is not once or twice, so the neighbors know that they will help take care of it when they have time, but Bai Han will also be ridiculed by his peers.
Whenever his heart was very wronged, Bai Han could only hide in the bed, or silently shed tears in the corner. Originally a happy and carefree family, but because of this special era, the family was torn apart.
She pinned all her hopes on the old radio, and whenever she was upset, Bai Han would open it and listen to it, and because of this, she fell in love with literature and art, and she also fell in love with performance.
In 1970, the 14-year-old Bai Han was doing things as always, but unexpectedly his back was patted on the back, and after she looked back, she looked at her mother who was full of tears, and Bai Han was very happy in her heart: Mom, you recovered?
For the young daughter, the guilty mother, said to her: These years, it has really hurt you.
The recovery of her mother made Bai Han very excited and happy, and her mother's normality also made her full of confidence, even walking to school was very confident, and she exuded a confident appearance.
When Bai Han went to school, her mother chose to return to the room and ended her life. When Bai Han returned from school, she was anxious to see her mother, wanted to share things with her mother at school, and when she saw that her mother had left, she was sad, she did not know why her mother did this.
Originally, I thought that my mother would understand her difficulties for so many years, but she chose to end her life in this way, and the long-lost maternal love once again dissipated the sea of people.
The departure of his mother made Bai Han understand the importance of his relatives.
There are unpredictable storms in the sky, even if they are close to each other, they can't escape the separation of life and death, and what can be changed can only be doubled to cherish.
Soon after, my father returned from the countryside, but at that time, my father was no longer the one who was full of smiles, but a emaciated and haggard tiredness, and his labor in the countryside had caused great damage to his father's body.
Perhaps because of excessive grief, or perhaps it was suppressed for too long, the father also fell ill, which made Bai Han rush his father to the hospital, and the departure of his mother hit Bai Han very hard, so he begged the doctor in the hospital to save his father.
As an only child of Bai Han, after her mother left, there was only one relative left in her father, she hoped that her father could accompany her, but the reality was always cruel, after examination in the hospital, the diagnosis was given as esophageal cancer.
If she wants to be treated, it will cost a huge amount of treatment, but for the ordinary family's Bai Han, where can she afford it, she has to give up and take her father home to take care of her.
At that time, Bai Han, who was only a teenager, had endured so many ups and downs and grief.
Without treatment, his father's life has also entered the countdown, looking at his father who is tormented by illness, Bai Han's heart is very uncomfortable, but he has no choice but to do everything he can to take care of his father.
Not long after, my father also died of illness. The successive deaths of her parents plunged Bai Han into great grief, and the once beautiful family was suddenly left with only her.
Her parents are not alive, and in the future life, Bai Han can only rely on herself, fortunately, she is very sensible and lives independently very early. It's just that life is not so easy, so that Bai Han, who lives alone, has also suffered many tribulations.
Because she has a dream of acting in her heart, Bai Han has been looking for opportunities, but in order to make a living, she does everything. Until he met the Peking Opera "Red Lantern", he needed to take a picture of a small actor, and Bai Han seized the opportunity to successfully participate in the performance.
Because of that flexible performance, she was also specially recruited into the power supply bureau, with a job Ofhan, she did a car worker to repair the meter, and if there was a performance activity, she had to perform on the stage.
Although she has a decent and stable job, this is not what she dreamed of for Bai Han, she is not willing to accept the status quo and hopes to be able to embark on a higher and broader stage.
In order to be able to seek opportunities, she strives to improve her talent performance while looking for opportunities for enrollment in the literary troupe.
Whenever the opportunity came, Bai Han would go to take the exam and finally be admitted to the National Theatre of China. However, in the process of this examination, Bai Han took the exam more than 20 times before he was admitted.
Failed so many times, it is difficult for anyone to insist, but Bai Han, who has experienced so many ups and downs, has ushered in a harvest with that insistence that is different from ordinary people.
To be able to enter the National Theatre of China, Bai Han used a self-created program for the exam, and she told her own experience, and many people could not imagine that a teenage girl had to endure so much pain and hardship.
When Bai Han's program was finished, Bai Han was already in tears, and even five or six of the seven or eight examiners on the scene could not help but shed tears, which also allowed Bai Han to successfully enter the Chinese Drama Theatre and become a professional actor.
At that time, Bai Han finally realized his dream, bloomed his talents on the stage, starred in several dramas, and also had a certain reputation in the drama industry.
In 1981, after being introduced, Bai Han met a person who worked in a unit, and the two met each other well.
As a result, the 26-year-old Bai Han also ushered in the first marriage in his life. In fact, for the family, Bai Han has always been very eager in her heart, after all, the feeling of home has only been felt when she was a child, and for so many years, she has always longed for a happy family.
Shortly after the marriage, Bai Han also gave birth to a son, Han Qing. The arrival of the son, coupled with the husband, seems very warm, which makes Bai Han very satisfied with the status quo.
It's just that happiness is too short-lived, because the husband slowly loses his thoughtfulness, often comes home late, and even vents the pressure of work on Bai Han.
Slowly, the sweet and happy family became a chicken feather. Even if her husband changes her appearance, Bai Han chooses to tolerate it, and the warm family that has been absent for a long time has given her a taste of happiness and relatives, which she cherishes.
In order to alleviate the contradiction between husband and wife, Bai Han had to choose to go out to shoot a drama and rely on avoidance to alleviate it, but people did not think that whenever Bai Han returned home, her husband could not avoid arguing with him, even his son was scared to cry several times, and even when Bai Han returned, his son Han Qing called her aunt.
Looking at the lovely son, Bai Han's heart is full of mixed feelings, and he has maintained a marriage for several years, and finally there has been no change, and Bai Han also understands in his heart that if he continues to endure, don't say happy, the feelings will only get worse and worse, and life will not be satisfactory.
In the end, Bai Han made the decision to divorce her husband and live with her young son.
Bai Han, who became a single mother, not only had to support his family in filming, but also took care of his young son. Although the life is very difficult, but with a son around, there is a feeling of relatives, so that Bai Han has endless motivation.
In order to make a living, Bai Han also got involved in the film and television circle and became a film and television actor.
With "Urban Love Words", Bai Han was nominated for the Best Actress of the Golden Rooster Award for The Film, and The fame of Bai Han, whose fame slowly went up, the film contract was also overwhelmed, and the acting career was on the right track.
At the same time, love also quietly came, actor Han Xiaolei entered the life of Bai Han, he is 15 years older than Bai Han, is a director, screenwriter, actor in the show business circle, or an associate professor at the Beijing Film Academy.
The two met at work, had common topics, and both experienced a failed marriage, so the two felt a little sorry for each other.
Especially when he learned that Bai Han was alone with his young son Han Qing, he had a feeling of pity. Slowly, Bai Han and Han Xiaolei's feelings heated up and became lovers.
After a period of falling in love, Han Xiaolei also obtained the consent of Bai Han's son, and the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand in 1996 and became a couple.
When recalling falling in love with Han Xiaolei, Bai Han said bluntly: I think that was my first love.
In the face of Bai Han, who has a bumpy experience, Han Xiaolei is very considerate and gentle, not only pampering Bai Han, but also treating his stepson as his own.
As long as the two are at home, Han Xiaolei will take care of all the housework and prepare a hearty meal for his wife Bai Han, which also makes Bai Han really feel like a relative and home.
After marrying Han Xiaolei, Bai Han also truly experienced the feeling of childhood, which was the taste of happiness and warmth.
It just makes people not expect that the marriage between Bai Han and Han Xiaolei lasted only 7 years, and Han Xiaolei died of illness.
Han Xiaolei's departure once again plunged Bai Han into great grief, she was very painful, and she did not know why she always experienced life and death.
Especially the husband Han Xiaolei, in this marriage, Han Xiaolei gave Bai Han not only love, but also the warm family, but also became the spiritual pillar of Bai Han.
Whenever he thought of the scene with his husband, Bai Han couldn't help but cry like rain. Although she was sad, her son was still around, and she could only pick up her spirits and cheer up.
In order to alleviate his grief, Bai Han could only devote his whole body and mind to his acting career, and in the cooperation with Haiqing in "The Beautiful Age of daughter-in-law", Bai Han and Haiqing established a deep friendship.
And Bai Han, with this TV series, won the Best Actress Award of the Shanghai TV Festival Magnolia Award, and After entering middle age, Bai Han once again stood at the peak of the show business circle.
And through long-term shooting, she and Haiqing have become good sisters who talk about everything, although Bai Han's age can be Haiqing's mother, but the two do not have a little barrier to each other, and Bai Han is also very good to Haiqing, and the two have become a good girlfriend.
On the other hand, although his son Han Qing is married, the couple still lacks some life experience and common sense, compared to Haiqing, Han Qing is still a little worse.
Therefore, when Bai Han was dying, he would entrust his 31-year-old son Han Qing to Haiqing, that is, he left for himself, and Haiqing could also help his son very well.
In fact, when Bai Han was sick and hospitalized, he was accompanied not only by his son Han Qing, but also by his daughter-in-law's careful care, and even Haiqing also went, not only taking care of her personally, but also running up and down for her.
Bai Han, who knew that his time was short, looked at Haiqing after he was busy for himself, and also with a little pleading tone, said to her: Haiqing, if I leave, please take care of Han Qing, although he is married and has a family, but you are not mature and sensible.
In the face of Bai Han's words, Haiqing also said bluntly: I will have one more brother, you can rest assured.
In 2012, Bai Han left the world forever, in accordance with Bai Han's last wishes, Han Qing buried his mother and father Han Xiaolei together, in order to commemorate his mother, Han Qing also changed his stage name: Han Qing.
Bai Han's death also made Haiqing very sad and sad, and Haiqing, who has always attached great feelings, had no choice but to obey Bai Han's departure, she could only obey the things entrusted by Bai Han before his death, and do her best to take care of Han Qing.
In the years when he and Bai Han had known each other, Haiqing had already regarded Han Qing as a younger brother, and whenever Han Qing encountered difficulties or needed any help, Haiqing would immediately stand up to help him.
Even in the resources of the showbiz circle, Haiqing will also introduce to Han Qing, with the help of Haiqing, Han Qing's acting career has also gone very smoothly, and he has starred in many classic film and television dramas.
Now 10 years later, looking at Haiqing and Han Qing, brothers and sisters who are not related by blood, we have found that Bai Han entrusted her son to Haiqing, not to let her raise, but after she left, Han Qing will experience the pain of separation, less relatives, and she does not want her son to repeat her mistakes.
During the period without relatives, how hard and sad life is, Bai Han does not want his son to experience it again, in order to be able to solve this problem, Bai Han entrusted his son to Haiqing, just to leave for himself, to find a relative for his son.
No matter what the point, the most important thing in a person's life is family affection, which is a priceless thing.