In 2009, after the TV series "The Beautiful Age of Daughter-in-Law" directed by Liu Jiang was broadcast in China, many viewers were still unsatisfied.
Three years later, the show moved to Tanzania, where Belle Epoque was paired with the local Swahili language and attracted widespread attention.
Only at that time, the mother-in-law "Cao Xinmei" Bai Han, who was loved and hated by people in the play, could no longer see his works being liked by people around the world.
At the age of 57, Bai Han experienced the ups and downs of life, losing his parents, husbands, and being tortured by marriage, it was not easy to become famous, and he did not enjoy happiness but died, which was really heart-wrenching.
Before Bai Han left, he had asked Haiqing to do him a favor, and now that ten years have passed, has Haiqing fulfilled his promise, and how is Bai Han's only son living?
01.
In the spring of 1955, a girl named Bai Han was born in Xicheng District, Beijing.
When he was a child, Bai Han lived a carefree life, and as the only daughter in the family, he was loved by his parents.
Coupled with the decent and stable work of his parents, Bai Han has never suffered.
On weekdays, Bai Han's father had plenty of time to accompany his daughter because he was a teacher at the Public Security University, and at that time, Bai Han liked to watch people on TV singing and dancing, and when he was happy, he also danced like a model.
Bai Han's mother works in the court, and the family of three is happy although the life is plain.
But the world is unpredictable, perhaps the cold word in Bai Han's name, doomed to her future days, full of tribulations.
The family life that everyone envied did not last long, and when Bai Han was 7 years old, for some reason, his father had to leave his teaching position and go to work in the countryside far from home.
Originally, Bai Han thought that his father was only a short job change, and who knew that his mother was also implicated.
Her mother lost her job and had to go to the factory to work as a painter, a change that made Bai Han's parents, who had studied earlier, unacceptable and devastated.
As the days passed, Bai Han's mother had some abnormal behavior, she talked to herself from time to time, and she would beat things at home, and her mental state was getting worse and worse every day.
His father was not at home, and Bai Han could only support the burden of life alone.
Because he had to go to school and was worried about his mother's safety, Bai Han got up very early every day and hurried to prepare the meals that his mother would eat for the day to prevent her from going hungry.
In order to prevent his mother from going out and finding a home, Bai Han had to lock the door of the house outside before going out to school.
However, the mother's state has not improved, and even becomes more and more manic and uncontrollable.
Several times, Bai Han returned home, but found that the house was in a mess, and his mother had long disappeared.
At night, Bai Han was also timid, but for the sake of her mother, she had to force herself, borrow the glimmer of a flashlight, and shout her mother's name everywhere to find her home.
Fortunately, because of her illness, her mobility and memory are not as good as before, and every time Bai Han can bring her mother back not far from home.
Although such a day is too cruel for the young Bai Han, Bai Han is not obsessed with the life of being a little princess in the past, and he has resisted everything in the family alone.
02.
Although Bai Han lost his friends and was ridiculed by his neighbors because of the unbearable situation at home, Bai Han turned a blind eye.
I only firmly believe that one day, the clouds will open and see the sunrise, and when my father returns, life will be better.
When the mother was also awake, both mother and daughter liked to listen to songs, and the only radio in the family became the sustenance of Bai Han and his mother's feelings.
After many years like this, Bai Han was 14 years old, and she had long been accustomed to her mother's unstable situation, repeating the same housework every day.
Only that day, Bai Han was negligent, and after getting up in the morning, Bai Han prepared the meal that his mother loved to eat, and went to school with his school bag locked.
However, the mother suddenly became in a normal mood, she shouted at Bai Han, who was about to go out, as if there were tears in her eyes, and said: "Daughter, my mother is ashamed of you." ”
Bai Han did not think too much, and even felt some relief in his heart, thinking that his mother's illness was not going to get better.
However, the truth is very cruel, that day Bai Han has not finished the day's class, he was called home by the teacher.
After returning home, Bai Han found that his mother was gone, and because her mother could not accept the reality, she could not face herself, face her family, and ended her fresh life.
The departure of his mother made Bai Han unable to be strong anymore, and his life could get better and better, but his mother chose to leave everything behind, and Bai Han also regretted that he did not pay attention to his mother's emotions in time, so that her inner sorrow could not be discharged.
After his mother left, Bai Han was lost for a long time, but fortunately, his father returned home from the countryside and gave Bai Han some comfort.
But my father didn't end his job there and go home, but because he was sick, he was forced to go home.
My father went to the hospital for a check-up, but the result was a breakdown, and my father had esophageal cancer, which had reached a very serious point.
In the face of the huge medical expenses of the hospital, Bai Han had no way, even food and clothing became a problem, and Bai Han could only tearfully bring his father home.
The cancer eventually spread quickly in her father's body, and soon after her mother left, her father went with her.
A family of three, under the change of the world, fragmented, eternally separated, Bai Han has not yet reached adulthood, he lost his parents, it is really painful.
03.
But after losing her parents, Bai Han did not give up the hope of life, she longed for the opportunity, hoping that one day she could stand out and live better for her parents.
In 1971, when Bai Han was 16 years old, when the propaganda team of the Beijing Power Supply Bureau was short of people and more talents were needed to come in to saturate the team, Bai Han saw the opportunity and went directly to register for the exam.
The program "Red Lantern" made Bai Han stand out in the crowd and successfully got a place in the publicity team of the Power Supply Bureau.
It's just that the power supply bureau went in, not just singing and dancing every day, and in the spare time, it was still necessary to work.
At first, Bai Han was assigned to the position of a lathe worker, this position was not a shift, And Bai Han stood and worked for three years.
Three years later, in view of Bai Han's good performance, the factory gave Bai Han the opportunity to do watch repair, this position compared to before, it can be said that much easier, obscure Bai Han, just did four years of watch repair.
At that time in the factory, Bai Han made a lot of friends, coupled with his own talent, Bai Han was recognized by many people.
Seeing more things, Bai Han also set himself a more ambitious goal, to go to a bigger place, to follow a different dream.
Even Bai Han decided to be an actor in the future and act for the audience to see.
So on weekdays, Bai Han was very concerned about which unit to recruit, and once he accidentally learned that the military band was important, Bai Han immediately signed up.
After the exam, Bai Han felt that his odds were very high, and it should be said that he was stable, but on the day the results were announced, Bai Han's fame did not appear.
It wasn't until later that Bai Han didn't know that because of some reasons at home, he couldn't get the approval of the orchestra.
Although an attempt failed, Bai Han did not give up, where to recruit people, she ran to where to take the exam, before and after took the exam more than twenty times.
04.
In 1978, an opportunity finally fell to Bo Han, when the Experimental Drama Theatre enrolled students and had no other conditions.
This is a great opportunity for BoHan.
Bai Han, who had accumulated some acting experience, successfully took the exam and returned with the program, impressing the judges and teachers in the examination room.
In the show that Bai Han performed, she played a poor person, and the judges and teachers finally agreed to recruit Bai Han as a tragic actor into the drama theater.
At that time, Bai Han was already 23 years old, but her life seemed to have just begun.
When rehearsing the play in the drama theater, Bai Han got almost all the tragic characters, because Bai Han's life experience made her understand the role very thoroughly, and the kind of truth and helplessness made people heartbreak.
With a decent job and stable living conditions, Bai Han, who has been independent since childhood, longs for a complete home.
In 1980, Bai Han met his first husband, a man who did not work in the same unit as Bai Han and was an outsider.
The two met and fell in love, it was very natural, and Bai Han also identified this man, worthy of his lifelong trust.
After Bai Han got married, everyone around her sighed that she had finally survived, and the days of suffering had passed, and she would only be happier in the future.
Having a job, becoming a family, and living a stable life, it is indeed not easy for Bai Han, and she is also grateful.
So after a year of marriage, Bai Han gave birth to a son Han Qing, but after her husband became a father, he changed his usual meek and elegant image and began to become grumpy and unreasonable.
For the child Han Qing, the husband not only did not care, did not take care of, and even began to stay at night, drunk, leaving his son and wife hanging aside.
In order to maintain the family, Bai Han often kindly advised her husband to go home early and not to drink casually, but her husband felt that Bai Han was nosy and beat people many times.
Bai Han thought of his son, who was not very old, and chose to endure silently and barely live his life.
However, the husband's temperament is becoming more and more annoying, and he has a strong desire to control, and he obstructs what Bai Han does.
At that time, the family's expenses were large, the husband's salary was not much, and the family's life was very tense.
At the beginning, Bai Han did not realize that such a growth environment would bring great harm to children.
It wasn't until his friends' persuasion that Bai Han understood that being a single mother herself would be better than her son being tortured by such an environment.
In addition, in order to develop a better career, Bai Han eventually divorced her husband.
Getting rid of the drag oil bottle of life and career, Bai Han was relieved in his heart, but in real life, he was unable to do so, his parents died early, and his son had no one to help bring it.
At a certain age, Bai Han sent his son to boarding school, so that he could shoot while filming, and he was more at ease.
However, when the child was a child, he was very dependent on his mother, and once Han Qing was sick at school, he had been clamoring for his mother, and the teacher had no way, so he called and informed Bai Han.
But during that time, Bai Han was injured because of filming and recuperated at home, but when he learned that his son was sick at school and dragged his tired body, Bai Han still appeared next to his son for the first time.
Although life is a little tired, but fortunately, Bai Han's career has begun to improve.
05.
In 1983, in the film "Inch Grass Heart" directed by director Wu Tianren, Bai Han played the role of Chen Ying, a nurse.
Since then, Bai Han's acting career has officially begun.
In the same year, in "Li Xin and the Red Lady", Bai Han also played a wonderful role, and finally in 1988, Bai Han ushered in the highlight of his life.
After participating in the movie "Big and Small Lady", director Wang Fulin found Bai Han, and director Wang Fulin had directed the TV series "Dream of the Red Chamber" before that, which was a classic.
This time, Wang Fulin wanted to shoot "Anecdotes of Concubine Zhuang", which was a costume drama, and finally Bai Han got a different type of role as before, starring as Empress Xiaozhuangwen of The Queen of Xianhou.
In the play, Princess Zhuang played by Bai Han is both beautiful and feminine, and her appearance of various styles has given the audience a deep impression.
It can be said that with this role, Bai Han became popular.
After that, Bai Han successively took over many film and television works, such as "Women Are Not the Moon", "Women's World", "Love Crisis", "Urban Love Words", "Dragon Fengjiao" and so on.
06.
The career is booming, and Bai Han's love has also arrived.
In 1995, Bai Han met Han Xiaolei at a seminar on actors' works.
Han Xiaolei is a director and a professor at North Film.
Because of Han Xiaolei's different comments on Bai Han, Bai Han remembered this man, and at that time, everyone affirmed Bai Han's acting skills.
But Han Xiaolei did not agree very much, he put forward a different view of Bai Han's lines and form, and thought that she still needed to improve there were still many places.
When Bai Han heard such words, he did not have a black face, but accepted it with an open mind, and also found Han Xiaolei to get contact information, so that he could communicate well in the future.
So in the days that followed, Bai Han had problems that he didn't understand, so he would talk to Han Xiaolei.
Once, Through a friend, Han Xiaolei got two tickets for a drama performance, but who to take to see it was a problem.
After thinking about it, Han Xiaolei thought of Bai Han, so without prior contact, Han Xiaolei went directly to Bai Han's home to find her.
Driving to the small alley, Han Xiaolei just happened to bump into Bai Han's mother and son who had returned home from changing gas.
Only to see Bai Han forcefully carrying the gas canister, step by step to the house, Han Qing followed his mother, seeing such a scene, Han Xiaolei's heart was sour.
Thinking of his failed marriage, the woman in front of him, as if she was like herself, deserved sympathy, so Bai Han and Han Xiaolei, who felt sorry for each other, came together.
In 1996, Bai Han married this man who was 15 years older than herself, and this time, she was really happy.
This man regards Bai Han as a treasure, and Bai Han, also known as Han Xiaolei, is the noble person in her life and her only first love.
After marriage, Han Xiaolei was very fond of Han Qing, even if Han Qing did not obey during the rebellious period, Han Xiaolei was still very patient and never lost his temper.
Han Xiaolei knew that Han Qing liked to eat oranges, and once the unit sent dozens of pounds, Han Xiaolei did not eat any of them, all of them were taken home and given to Han Qing to eat.
On weekdays, when he has free time, Han Xiaolei will accompany Han Qing to see movies, and the two will be together, more like friends.
For this stepfather, Han Qing is very respectful and likes, and even Han Qing's surname was changed after recognizing Han Xiaolei.
For Bai Han, Han Xiaolei is more caring in life, Bai Han does not like to eat heavy taste things, Han Xiaolei changed his taste for his wife.
Usually the housework at home, Han Xiaolei is the same as not falling, when free time, the two go out for a walk, and then go home to cook together, every day is very comfortable.
It was just that this kind of life only lasted for 7 spring, summer, autumn and winter, and Bai Han was separated from Han Xiaolei's yin and yang.
One day in 2003, In order to make lunch, Bai Han went out early to buy vegetables.
And this time, Bai Han forgot to bring the key, bought the food back home, Bai Han knocked on the door, waiting for her husband to open the door, who knew that Bai Han knocked at the door for half a day, but did not see her husband answer.
Bai Han knew that her husband must be in trouble, so she hurried to find someone to pry the door, but the door opened, but her husband died of a heart attack.
At the age of 48, her beloved husband left her, thinking of her parents and lover, Bai Han was extremely painful.
The people he really loved left one by one, unable to withstand the blow, and Bai Han was immersed in grief.
Many years after Han Xiaolei left, Bai Han's friends also advised her to find another companion, but Bai Han said that it was difficult because she had already seen the sea.
Because she missed her husband, Bai Han stopped filming for a long time, and she began to lecture everywhere, just to have a better life in her heart.
Because of the illness of thoughts, Bai Han ate less and less, did not eat any greasy, and the whole person lost a lot of weight.
In order to relax, Bai Han also went to Japan and South Korea with friends for tourism.
Over there, Bai Han took a cruise ship, and when she saw the sea, she was very happy, because at that moment, Bai Han missed Han Xiaolei.
When she was alone with her children, Bai Han lived a very frugal life, she did not have any ideas about famous brands, and liked how to be comfortable and how to come.
But for friends, Bai Han is very generous and will send bags of other brands.
07.
With the passage of time, Bai Han slowly returned to the screen in order to live, and in 2009, "The Belle Epoque of Daughter-in-Law" was a hit.
This drama allowed Bai Han to win a career heavyweight award, Magnolia Best Actress.
"The Belle Epoque of Daughter-in-Law" made Bai Han a popular actor.
At this point in her career, everyone was happy for her, especially Haiqing, who played a mother and daughter with Bai Han in the play.
During the filming of the TV series, Haiqing and Bai Han had a very good relationship, and outside the scene, the two were more like girlfriends.
But fate was always torturous like that, and soon after, Bai Han suddenly fainted while filming in the crew.
After that time, Bai Han began a long hospital life, and the results of the hospital examination showed that the neuroendocrine tumor of pancreatic cells was found by Bai Han, and the situation was somewhat difficult to deal with.
In order to prevent the spread of the disease, Bai Han received chemotherapy, and at that time, Bai Han's state was very bad, and he would even vomit when drinking water.
Under the torment of illness, Bai Han's beautiful face gradually faded.
Even during the treatment, Bai Han did not want anyone to come to visit, and when someone called, she did not answer.
Fortunately, Bai Han's side, accompanied by his son, Han Qing is very strong, he always encourages his mother: "It will be fine, everything will be fine, there is a son, it will be fine." ”
But as the condition got worse and worse, Haiqing, as a good friend, was really anxious, she ran to the hospital first, saw Bai Han, who was tormented by the disease, and shed sad tears.
But at that time, Bai Han was still thinking about returning to the crew, even if she could play a cancer patient when she went back, she was very happy.
But his body was getting worse and worse every day, and Bai Han also knew that his time might be running out.
So Bai Han came to Haiqing and asked her to do him a favor.
For Bai Han, the son grew up, also had his own family, married a nurse as a wife, and could live his own life, but thinking of his son alone in the future, Bai Han's heart was very uncomfortable.
After all, he left, and his son only had his wife to accompany him.
So before leaving, Bai Han hoped that Haiqing could help take care of his son Han Qing, Haiqing wholeheartedly agreed to Bai Han's request, and Haiqing only told Bai Han to rest assured, to Han Qing, just like his own brother.
08.
On February 19, 2012, Bai Han was ineffective in treatment and left his life at the age of 57.
Bai Han hoped that after he left, he could do something useful for this society, so Han Qing dedicated his mother's body to the medical cause.
Bai Han's cemetery was buried with her husband Han Xiaolei in the Phoenix Mountain Cemetery.
Today, it has been 10 years since Bai Han left, and Haiqing has fulfilled his promise, treating Han Qing as his brother and as his own family.
During the period when Bai Han had just left, Haiqing was afraid that Han Qing would not be able to open his mind, so he often went to enlighten him and talk to him.
After the awards won by Bai Han before his death, Haiqing even tried to let Han Qing collect them, giving him more opportunities to be recognized.
Nowadays, as an actor, Han Qing will teach him some acting methods when he is not busy at work.
Even some filming opportunities, Haiqing will also help Han Qing fight for it, introducing acquaintances to him.
Han Qing was very touched by Haiqing's care.
As for his mother, Han Qing would go to the graveyard of his mother and stepfather every qingming day, send them flowers, and talk with them.
What is even more tearful is that since Bai Han's death, every time Han Qing plays a play, he will send a message to his mother, telling her that I am getting better and better, don't worry.
Although there will never be a reply to the text message, Han Qing still insists on doing so, hoping that his mother will be at ease over there.
Such persistence makes people move and makes people cry.
Looking back, I found that life is so long, when we were young, we had the care of our parents, and as we grew older, the responsibility became heavier and heavier.
Family, society makes people grow, to move forward, you must pay.
I have to say that in the life of Teacher Bai Han, she has achieved the goal of leaving a name for people and leaving a voice for geese.
She is like that, eternally elegant.