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I was free to love and marry my ex-wife, who followed me through a few years of hardships, and after I had money, I felt that my ex-wife was not worthy of me, so I had the idea of divorce and gave practical action. Of course, when I divorced my ex-wife, I gave my ex-wife two houses and some savings (almost half of my entire possessions), and my ex-wife accepted the divorce. It's just that I regret the custody of my son, because my son insisted on living with his ex-wife, so I didn't succeed in winning custody of my son. The son's attitude on this matter: a man who does not even want a wife cannot be trusted.
In fact, after my career was successful, there were many girls who took the initiative to approach me, so that after the news of my divorce from my ex-wife was reported, many girls expressed their willingness to associate with me. In this case, I had a brief moment of joy, but more often than not, I still showed the thought of my son. Recently, I would take time to visit my ex-wife's house with my son, who didn't seem to welcome my arrival at all. I also know that if I start a new family, my new wife will inevitably help me have children, but I now seem to regret divorcing my ex-wife.
During this time, because of my son's disgust for me, I thought a lot, maybe only by remarrying my ex-wife, my conscience would not hurt. I thought that as long as I made a request for remarriage to my ex-wife, the outcome of our remarriage would be a foregone conclusion. Unexpectedly, the ex-wife's attitude was: we can temporarily maintain the state of divorce and not leaving home, and see your future performance, I will decide whether to remarry you. Suddenly, I felt that I had made myself passive in this relationship. However, the current divorce without leaving home may also be the best outcome, at least much better than my ex-wife not giving me a chance to correct my mistakes at all.
Muzi Li emotional analysis:
Obviously, after you married your ex-wife, she didn't have any restraint on you in the name of your legal wife, and she didn't complain too much about you in the days of suffering with you, but she also had her own marriage expectations: she hopes that when you make some big decisions, you will be able to take into account her and children's feelings. Unfortunately, after you have money, you have no conscience and insist on divorcing her with her appearance. Obviously, when making the decision to divorce, you have left the trust, loyalty, companionship, and trials in the marriage behind.
Is it true that your ex-wife will leave you to find a way to die, in fact, she accepted the reality of your divorce, but when the property was divided, she took the part that belonged to her. In fact, in this era, having money is a hero, which means that when you are coveted by some young and beautiful women, your ex-wife has also been flattered by some young and handsome men. The reason why your ex-wife didn't put a green hat on you was because she managed her desires well and was absolutely loyal to her marriage.
Regarding emotional experiences, I have always believed in the principle that if you waste the true heart of a person who loves you very much, there will always be a cynical person who breaks into your world one day in the future, and from then on, you will no longer be at ease, and the other party's attitude towards you will be twice as bad as your attitude towards your ex. After all, the Heavenly Dao is good for reincarnation, and who has the heavens spared?
Although many times we will say that talking about money hurts feelings, talking about feelings hurts money, but I still think that money is a good thing, when you are poor, money can test human nature; when you are rich, money can test sincerity. So don't live up to the man who was willing to marry you when you were poor and who was willing to share your sufferings with you. Because in this world, there are many people who can do the icing on the cake, but there are very few people who can do it in the snow.
A person's appearance and the height of a person's life starting line are actually given by their parents. Since some people from poor families can make themselves successful in their careers through their own efforts, then a person can also make himself a beautiful person through the channel of plastic surgery. The reason why your ex-wife has not made herself beautiful through plastic surgery all these years, or feels that your feelings are not so superficial. But, at the time of your divorce, your ex-wife suddenly discovered that you were really ridiculous and ordinary.
When you're actually divorced and your son doesn't want to live with you, you suddenly discover that money isn't omnipotent, at least it doesn't put an end to the fact that you hurt your son. In the face of your son's indifference, disgust, and rejection of you, you began to have a new reflection on life, and began to reminisce about the experience with your ex-wife, which made you now have the idea of remarriage. At this time, you still self-righteously feel that your remarriage request is something that your ex-wife is unattainable, in fact, your ex-wife's cold treatment has hit you hard.
What I can tell you is that it is not your ex-wife who cannot do without you, but that you cannot do without your ex-wife and your son. Because, when a person is so poor that he only has money left, but he can't feel the warmth of home, and he can't feel the aroma of food every New Year's Festival, this person is actually quite a failure.
Your ex-wife's attitude toward remarriage is very clear: you can divorce and not leave home, in fact, you are taking care of your son's emotions. In the meantime, if you dare to mess with the flowers, then your ex-wife will let you get out of the egg at any time. Remember: Your ex-wife would never tolerate you rolling around in her life.
It needs to be admitted that appearance and money do occupy a more important position in marriage, but the position of inheritance, responsibility and obligation in marriage cannot be ignored. To put it bluntly, without your ex-wife' help, do you think you would be able to live a more glamorous life right now? Therefore, being a person should still have a little conscience.
Reminder to you: If you don't really want to grow old with your ex-wife, don't provoke her this time.
Muzi Li life insights:
In the field of feelings, the person who is loved often presents with no fear, and feels that even if he does something against the principle in his marriage, he will be forgiven, and feel that he has eaten the person who loves him in this life. However, after the other party really pulled away from himself, he found that it was himself who regretted it. After all, it is not easy for us to meet a person who has a heart to heart with in our lifetime, so after we meet, please cherish it.
Regarding appearance, it is just a skin bag, will grow with age, the face will no longer be competitive, is it difficult to when the lover's face is not there, we should immediately give ourselves a bright appearance of the lover? You know, two people together for a lifetime also need responsibilities and obligations. If people have countless lovers in this life, but none of them are sincere to themselves, is it also quite sad?