Confucius said in the Analects of Ji: "The three friends of the beneficiary and the three friends of the loser." Friendly straight, friendly forgiveness, friendly smell, beneficial. Friendly and gentle, friendly and gentle, friendly and gentle, damaged. ”
Confucius said that the three kinds of damaged friends, the common explanation (there are different interpretations) is limited to flattery, superficial flattery and behind the slander, good at rhetoric, which shows that Confucius experienced the loss of friends is still not enough and not enough cruel, if Confucius is replaced by the Jiaqing Emperor Yan Yan to die of hezhen, will certainly give a deeper interpretation of the damaged friend: dead Daoist friends do not die poor Dao, the loss of friends made in this hall is a typical dead Daoist friend who does not die poor, but it is not limited to friends, friendly and soft, friendly and friendly - they are making trouble with me in death!
Of course, the four friends of He yan did not include the iron general Ah Gui, nor did they include the prime minister Liu Luoguo, nor did they include Wang Fukang'an of Jiayong County.
In the main history of the Qing Dynasty, Ah Gui and Fu Kang'an were both political enemies of He Yan, Liu Yong was sophisticated and sleek, never confronted He Yan, and the one who really did not give He Yan face was the foreman military chancellor, Wu Yingdian University scholar, prince Taibao, and the first class of sincere conspiracy heroic Gongzhang Jia Ah Gui: "The situation of He Yan is gradually expanding, and Ah Gui does not pretend to be a little bit. If you do not go straight with the same straight, you will enter the straight day and night, and you will be separated from the standing for dozens of martial arts. He Yan is with the language, rambling, and finally does not move a step. ”
Ah Gui's only regret was that he did not see that He yan was punished by the Ming Dynasty, and Fu Kang'an was broken by Qianlong into the knighthood, but he was killed and brought back to life by the first-class loyal Xiang Gong and Yan: "Fu Kang'an entered the army from Qinghai Road, when the grass was not lush, the horses were barren, the grain was repeatedly exhausted, and the grain distribution envoys were subject to He Yan's finger, and they wanted to kill themselves. ”
When Fu Kang'an was the governor of Liangguang, he used the army to build a house for himself with a boat to transport gold silk Nanmu, and was grabbed by the brothers He yan and Lin, and the result was that Nan Mu was confiscated, his subordinates were arrested, and Fu Kang An himself was scolded to the point of bloodshed, and almost lost his top and wore hua ling.
The Ah Gui and Fu Kang'an we know as He yan's enemies rather than friends, and the one who can barely be counted as a friend of He yan is Ji Yun Ji Xiaolan, who is "good at eating and writing books in a stuttering bed"—it is not an exaggeration to say that he is "iron teeth and copper teeth": people who stutter look like they are gritting their teeth and chewing fava beans.
Ji Xiaolan had never been a university scholar in his lifetime, let alone a military aircraft department, so he could neither be called a "Ji University Scholar" nor a "Ji Zhongtang" - from the first month of the tenth year of Jiaqing to the death of an assistant university scholar, Ji Yun only became a superfluous assistant university scholar, and at that time, the grass on the head of the hezhen tomb was already as tall as one person.
Ji Xiaolan has always been a subordinate of He yan, the relationship between the two is relatively good, the TV series played "Ji Xiaolan to rub rice with the Yan family", it is also recorded in history: Ji Yun, who did not receive the invitation, wore a bucket and carried a fish basket to the door, and Ji Yun had to add a pair of chopsticks to him - Ji Yun This is a disguised "negative Jing please".
The reason why Ji Xiaolan apologized to He yan was related to Cao Xibao's impeachment of Liu Quan, a domestic slave of He Yan, and even the Qianlong Emperor saw that Ji Xiaolan was the mastermind behind the scenes: "Or is it ji Yun who went to test the real injury because of the case of Haisheng beating his wife Wu Yashi last year, and with hatred in his heart, he ordered Cao Xibao to participate in the game, thinking that it was a plan for revenge?" ”
Qianlong's poetry is not the same, but simple logical reasoning will still be: "If it does not come out of this, then where did Cao Xibao's play come from?" ”
The reason why Qianlong doubted Ji Xiaolan was also because He Yan reminded him: "I have never heard of Cao Yushi's name and surname, so how can he witness it?" Cao Xibao, as an official, will not be handed over to the slaves, and his carriages and horses and clothes can still meet all the roads, to the spacious houses, the perfect utensils, how can he know without being there? ”
Ji Xiaolan is both a friend of Cao Xibao and a friend of He yan, and He yan has no contact with Cao Xibao, and when it comes to going, Ji Xiaolan still sells his friend and Yan.
He Yan and Ji Xiaolan are friends, but Ji Xiaolan said good things to He Yan in person, but behind his back, he instructed Cao Xibao to start from Liu Quan'er to prepare to move He Yan, although it was out of justice and justice, but as a friend, this thing was a bit unauthentic, so Ji Xiaolan was also a friend of He Yan.
In addition to Wenyou (He Yan's literary talent is quite good) Ji Xiaolan, He Yan also has two "teacher friends", that is, Wu Shengqin and Wu Shenglan brothers - they were originally He Yan's teachers, and later became He Yan's students, and the transformation of the teacher-student relationship reminds us of a sentence in the "Biography of the Old Man of Taro": "The shift of time is also a person." ”
Wu Province, who worships students as teachers, obviously has no bottom line of being a person, which is the same as the brother of the master who talks to the master and becomes the master's disciple, all for the sake of profit and does not want to face.
He Yan regarded his former master's disciples as his confidants and sent them to monitor the Prince of Jia (Jiaqing Emperor) Yan Yan, including Cao Xibao's impeachment failure and Zhu Jue's entry into the cabinet, all of which were obstructed by Lan of Qin wu province in Wu Province.
If He yan is a big tiger, then Wu Province Qin Wu Province Lan is two tigers, but the strange place is here: He Yan fell, Wu Province Qin Wu Province Lan did not lie down, the Jiaqing Emperor demoted them to retain, "did not lucky to be listed in the Qing Dynasty, written to the post of editor."
Therefore, some people suspected that Lan of Qinwu Province, Wu Province, had acted as a double-sided spy, and had already lost his sincerity to Ying Yan, so the details of He Yan were clearly checked by Yan Yan.
In addition to Ji Xiaolan, Wu Shengqin, and Wu Shenglan, there was also a heavy minister who was closely related to Hezhen, who was Fu Chang'an, the fourth brother of Fu Kang'an.
Fu Chang'an was not in the same group as his brother, but he had a special affection for Hezhen, and as a result, he almost suffered: "The ministers agreed to use the law of the party to sit and behead, and the order was changed to prison, and the death of Hezhen made the superintendent Fu Chang'an and Yan die on their knees." ”
He did this to give Fu Chang'an a way to live and pave the way for Fu Chang'an to make a comeback, and as a result, Fu Chang'an not only betrayed He yan, but also betrayed The kindness of Fu Yan, and after the restoration of the commission, it was not easy to do, and he stabbed a lot of Lou Zi, if he had changed to someone else, he would have pulled out and clicked: "The rotation was sent to Yuling to provide tea to worship Tang'a, and he moved to wailang." For six years, please return to Beijing, seize the post, and send Shengjing to wear armor. The Spinning Horse Riding School has been moved repeatedly, and then he is the general manager of the paddock, one is the chief soldier of Malan Town, and then the governor of Gubeikou. Repeatedly sat down to warn who. Twenty-one years later, he was given the Yellow Banner as the vice-governor of Manchuria. Twenty-two years, died. ”
Originally, the second-in-command of the Hezhen case, not only did not die, but was entrusted with a heavy responsibility, which could not but make people suspect: In addition to The person who betrayed Hezhen, in addition to The Lan of Qinwu Province, Wu Province, there was also the Fu Chang'an whose six relatives did not recognize him.
The author has always believed that if a person does not honor his parents, does not love his brothers, does not cherish his wife, and does not love his children, it is absolutely impossible to make friends, Ma Chao in the Three Kingdoms period has no friends, but also because people at that time were deeply disgusted by his behavior of harming his father and brothers: "If someone does not love his relatives, can he love people?" ”
Ben Pei, Shan Rou, Ben Yu, these three kinds of explanations for the loss of friends are more than one, and some people think that they are selfish, sleek, and clever in words that can speak the Tao, but no matter how to explain, these four friends of He Yan have lived well after the death of He Yan, Ji Xiaolan and Yan, Qianlong knows, Wu Province Qin, Wu Province Lan, Fu Chang'an have betrayed He Yan, then only the Jiaqing Emperor Yan knows.
He Yan is not a good bird, and it is also deserved to be pit by friends, but we will have many friends in shopping malls, officialdom, workplaces, and liquor stores, and how to distinguish between friends and friends who forgive friends and friends who are friendly and gentle friends?
These four friends of Hezhen in the main history, the author summed up their characteristics: mouth honey belly sword, upside down master and apprentice, six relatives do not recognize. As for whether Ji Xiaolan should be included among the four friends of Hezhen, then it is up to the readers to discern it.
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