Ji Xiaolan, the first talent of the Qing Dynasty, his image is a regular in TV dramas. "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan" is still deeply loved by people. Ji Xiaolan in the TV series, gags and worries about the people, the historical Ji Xiaolan, not only a famous Qing official in the Qing Dynasty, but also a good hand at educating children. As a Qing official, he did not leave silver and real estate to his descendants, but he gave his children and grandchildren and also gave the sons and daughters of China a spiritual property that was more precious than silver and real estate, that is, the "Ji Family Training".
Ji Xiaolan, born in 1724, died in 1805 at the age of 82, which can be regarded as a high life expectancy in ancient times. His life experience is rich, he has experienced the ups and downs of his career, and he has seen through the cold and warm of the world.
Ji Xiaolan has 3 daughters and 4 children, and he has his own understanding of his children's education, that is, educating his children, and it is important to practice what he preaches and lead by example.
He educates children, attaches importance to both "reward" and "punishment", and guides children to the right track of growth through the use of rewards and punishments.
The best thing about Ji Xiaolan's education of children is to formulate strict family training, that is, family rules. In this way, whether it is reward or punishment, there are rules to follow, so that children feel very fair and just.
Ji Xiaolan's family training can be summarized as "Four Precepts" and "Four Yi".
The four precepts are:
01, quit Yan qi (Yan qi, that is, the meaning of sleeping lazily)
02, quit laziness
03. Abstain from luxury
04. Abstain from pride
The four yi are:
01, should be read frequently
02. It is advisable to respect the teacher
03, should love the public
04, should be cautious eating (cautious eating, that is, eating things to be cautious)
We see that these "four precepts" and "four yi" involve diet, socialization, learning, and lifestyle, and the "four precepts" and "four yi" complement each other, telling their children and grandchildren what not to do, but also telling their children and grandchildren what things they should do, how to do it, full of operability, and full of fireworks in the world, grounded, worth learning.
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