"I tell you, women are sometimes very selfish, married and have children, they do not need love to nourish, children will naturally become their lifeblood, do not put their husbands on the lips, does not mean that there is any problem in marriage." 」
After her husband borrowed money, his business failed, and his Buddhist monks left home, Chen Xiuwen still firmly believed that her marriage was indestructible.
She is the sharp and decisive prosecutor Ding Rou in "The First Imperial Court", and also the virtuous wife Xie Xiuqiao in "Goodbye Sunny Days", as the TVB boss Hua Dan and ATV sister in the early years, Chen Xiuwen brought countless good roles to the audience.
However, unlike these courageous and assertive characters she plays, Chen Xiuwen's bones are engraved with conservatism and tradition, and she devotes herself to maintaining her broken home, so she does not hesitate to go into debt and break off relations with her sister.
Chen Xiuwen locked herself in a cage called "marriage" and was trapped in a desperate situation, unable to escape for half her life.
In 1962, as the eldest daughter, Chen Xiuwen was born in a family of scholars, and her parents were intellectuals. Under the influence of the ear, Chen Xiuwen was introverted and conservative.
At the age of 16, Chen Xiuwen walked out of the middle school door and did a "big thing" - secretly participating in the artist examination of Hong Kong's "Li" TV station without her parents, and successfully entered the artist training class.
Her parents wanted Chen Xiuwen to enter the university, but after learning about this matter, she strongly opposed it, and Chen Xiuwen did not dare to be tough and came up with an idea. She followed her parents back to school to continue her studies, and then went to the training class immediately after school.
Seeing that her daughter persisted so hard, and it was not good to be a parent and stop her, Chen Xiuwen was able to get her wish.
"I believe that there is a fate between people, some people I hate them when I first meet, but when I meet other people, it is like there is an electric current flowing through the whole body." 」
A year later, Chen Xiuwen, who interned on the set of "New Chameleon", met her life's disaster, and she fell in love with the lead actor Lin Guoxiong in the film, and after several twists and turns, the two became friends.
Under the mediation of Mai Dangxiong, a person with a heart, Chen Xiuwen ushered in the love film "Sunshine in the Rain" starring Lin Guoxiong, the drama was fake and true, and they entered a period of hot love.
In the next few years, the cooperation of several consecutive dramas such as "To the Paste" and "Home Spring and Autumn" made the feelings of the two heat up. In 1983, hidden from the media, 21-year-old Chen Xiuwen couldn't wait to step into the palace of marriage with Lin Guoxiong.
"I know that a mountain is still higher than a mountain, and my husband is certainly not the most handsome and dashing man in the world, but from the time I was patted to the wedding, I never thought that I might meet a better man than him." Really, never thought about it. ”
After the marriage, the life was not satisfactory, Lin Guoxiong began to clamor for renunciation, Chen Xiuwen tried to persuade him, and finally dispelled her husband's idea. Thinking of taking good care of her husband, she slowly faded out of show business.
Such a life lasted for 4 years, son Lin Shangzhi was born, the small family suddenly faced huge economic pressure, Lin Guoxiong's career has always been tepid, and Chen Xiuwen, who has just finished giving birth, had to try to make a comeback to film.
In 1990, Lin Guoxiong resolutely quit the entertainment industry and decided to engage in business, his direction is the real estate business. However, with the direction but no start-up funds, he found Chen Xiuwen to discuss the matter.
In order to support her husband, Chen Xiuwen did not hesitate, negotiated a good price, she immediately signed a contract with TVB, starring in "Self-Combing Girl" and other dramas.
When filming, the intimate scenes that every actor will encounter become a barrier that Chen Xiuwen can't walk, and she can't let go of strangers who are not her husbands.
In "No. 1 Imperial Court", many scenes of Chen Xiuwen and Ouyang Zhenhua need to be completed in bed, and she specifically asks for "two quilts" to be covered, separating each other's bodies with blankets to prevent skin contact, and the kissing scene is even more embarrassing to her.
In her acting career, she was lucky enough that these flaws did not affect the drama fire, and Chen Xiuwen became the hot TVB boss Hua Dan.
On the other hand, Lin Guoxiong's career is repeatedly defeated, and the huge financial deficit forces him to come to Chen Xiuwen to solve it, chen Xiuwen is full of "husband and wife", and has to think of ways to help her husband fill in the loopholes.
Just as the contract with TVB expired, ATV sent a large amount of money to invite Chen Xiuwen to "file", and Chen Xiuwen handed over the signing money to her husband and threw herself into the "Goodbye Sunny Day" that Ya saw as her tailor-made. A hit, Chen Xiuwen firmly sat on the throne of "ATV First Sister".
Next, Chen Xiuwen did not lack film contracts, but she still lacked money. Lin Guoxiong's money deficit continued, he began to borrow money from outsiders, every time he could succeed, everyone trusted him, because as soon as he opened his mouth, the reason was very good:
"I'm Chen Xiuwen's husband, do you think I won't be able to pay it back?"
Often walking by the river, which can not wet shoes, with such an unrepentant husband, Chen Xiuwen finally ushered in a catastrophe.
In 1998, Mr. Lin brought home a close friend of a monk, telling Ms. Chen that they wanted to build a Buddhist university in the interior. The two people talked about it in a flash, and Chen Xiuwen understood that they needed more than 10 million (Hong Kong dollars).
The amount is huge, chen Xiuwen is a little hesitant, but she still chooses to believe her husband. Borrowing money from her parents, siblings, and colleagues and friends, she raised more than ten million and gave it to Lin Guoxiong.
Judging from Lin Guoxiong's failures and failures over the years, the results are not unexpected, the so-called monk friends abscond with money, and this business has become a phantom in the water.
Chen Xiuwen took out more than 10 million yuan is not all losses, before that, Lin Guoxiong has borrowed a circle from outsiders, including many high-risk funds such as usury and housing mortgages.
But at such a critical moment, Lin Guoxiong used the excuse of "going out of the house" and disappeared into the center of the storm.
The creditors quickly approached Chen Xiuwen and forced her to pay back the debt. Near the residence, inside and outside the set, and at the door of the company will be blocked at any time, chen Xiuwen's place is full of "debt repayment, heaven and earth" eight words.
Life was turned upside down, but she still had full confidence in her husband, "We all believe in Buddhism, we understand that many people will do this, and he is not going to come back. ”
Seeing that the debt collector disturbed her son's life, Chen Xiuwen took the child to move in a mess, and the disaster was not alone, Chen's mother fell ill with this stimulation, was diagnosed with cancer, and only four months later, she died.
The old man was in front of his eyes, the only one who could not put it down was Chen Xiuwen, but she also knew that this daughter had no cure, she called the bank manager, and secretly handed over the remaining million yuan of the account to the younger daughter Chen Jialing.
Chen Xiuwen fled east and west to hide from debts, and lost her loved ones, her life fell into darkness, Lin Guoxiong was still in a state of evaporation in the world, and there was no one to comfort her and share her pain.
Seeing her sister's guilt, her sister Chen Jialing could not bear it, and she publicly scolded Lin Guoxiong as a "shrunken-headed turtle that released poisonous gas" and used her sister and relatives as a "human meat cash machine". He repeatedly persuaded Chen Xiuwen to divorce and promised to take care of her sister for the rest of her life.
However, Chen Xiuwen did not pay attention, but only lightly responded with a sentence of "Originally born from the same root, and he was too anxious to fry each other", Chen Jialing was extremely disappointed and decided to break off the sister relationship with Chen Xiuwen.
"If I could love someone like you did, black and white and right and wrong, I'd rather never know what love is!"
This sister breakup is still useful, Lin Guoxiong finally appeared, but his response witnessed how ridiculous Chen Xiuwen's persistence was, "I know that Chen Xiuwen can't do without me, in addition to loving me very much, she also listens to me too much... I am willing to atone for divorce. ”
Mastering Chen Xiuwen's incomparably traditional view of marriage, Lin Guoxiong calculated that Chen Xiuwen could not do without him, as he expected, Chen Xiuwen was struggling to support this family, and did not hesitate to humble herself to the dust, "No matter what people outside say, you who are still waiting and resolutely accompany me..."
The farce will eventually end, in 2011, the life of being chased by people all day seriously affected the son Lin Shangzhi, Lin Shangzhi moved to school accommodation, and even suffered from autism, Chen Xiuwen made up her mind and signed a divorce.
After scattering the family wealth, the only son left, and Chen Xiuwen rented a house in Tai Po Village, poor and miserable, and his life was miserable. This 28-year marriage, in exchange for a generation of screen goddesses trapped in the quagmire can not extricate themselves.
"Like I like Blue Mountain coffee, I've been drinking it for a decade or twenty years, because I found that flavor, and after I felt that it suited me, I didn't want to try another flavor."
After so many years, escaping from the marriage catastrophe, Chen Xiuwen, who still has a "drama addiction", does not fall into drama, singing, and public welfare, although there is no way to return to the past as glamorous, but there is no need to worry as before.
My sister reconciled with her, the relationship was reconciled, and everything was moving in a good direction.
Chen Xiuwen's conservatism led her to insist on "willing to win the hearts of a person, and the white head is not separated", even if the marriage has become a shackle, she is not willing to take the initiative to escape, this life has become a joke, sad and lamentable.
"In fact, in the end, you find that the world does not have your perfect man, and you can't find it at all."