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Lü Duan was a native of Shandong, and his father Lü Qi was the Prime Minister of the Later Jin Dynasty, and he was said to be a second-generation official. Entering the system of the Great Song Dynasty, there is a term for his various information to be collected together: Lü Duanqing junjun is introverted and reserved, and belongs to the "three highs" type male gods with high appearance, high IQ and high emotional intelligence. The so-called still water deep flow people are like Lü Duan, no matter how important the occasion can slightly the corner of the mouth, do not say a word, not angry or happy.
Success is the size of the individual's ability to control emotions, and whoever manages emotions in place can succeed, such as Lu Duan.
Lü Duan participated in the work to work in a county as a civil affairs assistant, he deeply understands that IQ is his own business, emotional intelligence needs to interact, need to take the initiative, need to deepen the cultivation.
Lü Duan invited colleagues around him to eat, to enhance understanding and deepen feelings, during the banquet, Lü Duan in addition to listening is to pay the bill, occasionally participate in a topic can also be quoted, said that the colleagues are satisfied.
Colleagues like this knowledge reserve is rich but not conspicuous, there is a light but not dazzling Xiao Lu colleague, the year-end assessment of excellence almost all passed. Xiao Lu always humbly said that he was far worse than his colleagues, and in the future, he must learn from really excellent but unknown colleagues, let him see honors, go up when he sees difficulties, and as always, always carry out friendship to the end.
Lü Duan belonged to the Buddhist teenagers who later prevailed, and he knew that Buddhism was actually the way to enter the world, and he went around in a circle, or the cliché of emotional management.
Lü Duan said that he achieved the unity of knowledge and action, from Xiao Lu to Lao Lu.
Near the age of Hua Jia, Old Lü was promoted to assistant to the prime minister, the space for ascension was not very large and the speed was slow, and the tall, burly middle-aged and blessed Old Lu was still happy to know his destiny.
When people are confused in the rivers and lakes, Lao Lu was entrusted by his fellow villagers to open a convenient door for a businessman who sold state-embargoed materials, and was reported to be punished as he deserved.
The real reason is that Song Taizong has always admired Lü Duan's modesty and steadiness, and once sent him to the side of his eldest son Zhao Yuanzuo, asking him to accompany Zhao Yuanzuo to learn state management and enter the role of successor as soon as possible. However, because Zhao Yuanzuo liked Uncle Tingmei and was not accustomed to his father's trap of his uncle, he actually went crazy and became a piece of waste wood after his uncle was forced to die.
Song Taizong was very angry, and he spent so much effort to raise accomplices for academic and theoretical enemies. However, this time, Song Taizong did not move his anger towards the people around the prince, or did not move his anger toward Lü Duan. He quickly adjusted his mood and revised the inheritance law, making his second son Zhao Yuanxi the crown prince, and once again asked Lü Duan to move his office to the prince's mansion to continue to assist the new prince in the process of entering the administration of the country as soon as possible.
This time, tomorrow and the unexpected competition, unexpectedly preemptive, Zhao Yuanxi suddenly died violently. This time, it was Song Taizong's turn to go crazy, and it was strange that he put aside the abolition of the two sons. Emperor Taizong of Song turned the Prince's Mansion upside down and poisoned Zhao Yuan's haired woman Zhang Shi (張氏), who was poisoned, and planted the Nine Tribes.
Lü Duan also accepted the most severe investigation, although the result Lü Duan had nothing to do with it, and he behaved sincerely and gently throughout the investigation process, which made Song Taizong, who listened to the special report, be convinced that Lü Duan had never failed to live up to his trust in the whole process. But the pain of losing his son made Song Taizong not want to see anyone related to the prince.
Song Taizong sent Lü Duan to Shangzhou, Shaanxi Province, on the grounds that Lü Duan was involved in the resale of state-controlled substances. And passed on the will, Lü Fatzi went to Shangzhou to take up a horse, so that he could lose weight and sober his head again. The entourage cried bitterly for the old Lu Buping, advising him to admit his order and obey the leader's arrangement for passive weight loss. Old Lu An bu when the car smiled: people are floating in the rivers and lakes, relying on this body, walking up.
Starting from the reality of his work, the internet celebrity Kou Zhun also guessed Song Taizong's thoughts about Lü Duan, and he blew the wind in front of Song Taizong: Lü Duan is a good scholar and a good person, and he is no longer given a suitable position, but he is really old. Song Taizong said that you don't say that I really forgot about this person, he is very learned, and he often invites colleagues to dinner at the grass-roots level, never mentions the unpleasantness that happened in the palace in the past, and it is time to change the environment.
Lü Duan was transferred back to the capital and became the minister of civil affairs and the prime minister Kou Zhun was a colleague. Lü Duan went to work every day to wait for him in front of Kou Zhun's house, and Kou Zhun dressed, ate, drank tea and brushed the headlines in the door, not in a hurry. Lü Duan waited quietly outside the gate, even if the heat was unbearable, even if the snow was flying.
That day was really too long to wait, Lu Duan asked the staff to inquire whether Kou Zhun was ready to come out? The staff told him that the prime minister was smoking incense. The line in Lü Duan's heart is Lao Kou, are you delaying the terminal stage of cancer? But there was a slight smile on his face: Ask him if the horse is feeding? I'm not in a hurry at all.
Urgent also does not use who let the family is an Internet celebrity, Song Taizong's eyes of the flower teenager, think not to be red is a little difficult.
Lü Duan once again showed his super management ability to emotions, never let go of the impulsive wild horse in his heart, let it rampage and cause trouble, he loved it so much as Taishan, etc., the small window of the soul also flashed the small head of the wild horse's close relative grass mud horse, and just popped his head out and was pressed back to the bottom of his heart by the master.
Lü Duan, as a diplomat, went to the sea to goryeo, and there were unpredictable storms in the sky and huge waves in the sea from time to time. The fierce wind gathered dark clouds and blew the mast of the ship on which Lü Duan was riding, and there was a danger that it would be subverted at any time. For a while, seasickness was not seasick, and the whole ship was in a mess. Only Lü Duan sat in the cabin holding a book, no matter how the wind blew and the waves, it was like a leisurely stroll (Xiaobian did not believe that he could hold the book, this must be blowing)."
Lü Duan went to Goryeo to fully demonstrate the diplomacy of major countries seeking common ground while reserving differences, the Belt and Road Initiative and the belt and road joint development and maintenance of peace, and the small place does not care about the large place, which has a measured high-end atmosphere and a high-grade style. After returning to China, he reported to Song Taizong, and Song Taizong commented in the message area: Very agreeable.
The old prime minister was about to retire, and a thousand people in the position that was noticed and lifted by ten thousand people under his own eyes expressed their intentions to himself, but the candidate in Song Taizong's heart was Lü Duan. But based on the art of leadership and causality, Song Taizong wanted Lü Duan to be the one thousand and one people who made demands of him.
However, Song Taizong left and right lü Duan did not have any meaning, and he wrote a poem when he went fishing in the back garden after a work meal: If you want to bait the golden hook deep, you must ask the angler. He then ordered the minion to send this poem to Lü Duan. When translated: Don't be confused, come to my bowl.
Lu Duan smiled slightly, emotionally moved, but adhering to the usual modesty and prudence, he went straight to the subject and replied: I am stupid, I am afraid that I cannot take on such a heavy responsibility. Lü Duan knew how to be a subject, don't play with the emperor, play around may be a joke on the life of his own family.
Song Taizong said that Ai Qing is none other than you, in my heart. Lü Duan said that he was sincerely afraid and grateful. Junchen played several sets of tai chi in the relaxed and pleasant main melody.
Lü Duan became the prime minister, and that position was really high, because there were ten thousand people seriously carrying it. Knowing people and making the best use of their talents is the foundation of leadership, and leaving this foundation to talk about management and attaching importance to talents basically belongs to hooliganism. The next facts proved that Song Taizong chose the right prime minister.
Lü Duan's serious responsibility allowed the True Dragon Heavenly Son to still give himself an incomparably correct choice after he arrived in heaven: How can I look so good? How can someone I'm good at be so capable? What if you're so capable?
References: Compilation of Anecdotes of the Song Dynasty, Ding Chuanjing Zhonghua Bookstore
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