In life, we often see such a phenomenon: the father will not say it well, always reprimand the son with a straight face, but the son has something, the father will work hard at all costs.
When the son became an adult, he did not talk to his father for many years, and after his father died, the saddest cry was also the son...
This is the Chinese paternity.
Some people say that there is no real empathy in this world, but such a scene can always give people a kind of empathy heartache and bone-chilling.
Many times, there is always a transparent glass between the father and the child. It's close at hand, but it's hard to get close. Obviously, we have love in each other's hearts, but they have not expressed it! Until he leaves your life completely and completely, leaving this world, you will regret it, you will be annoyed, you will regret it...
A media worker, a young talent, who works in Beijing at the age of 36, buys a house, gets married, and has a baby. The child needed to be picked up and dropped off every day, so he took his father from his hometown in Shandong to Beijing.
When my father came to Beijing, just two months later, he was unwell, and found that it was liver cancer, and at the end of his life, he said: "Doctor, you must not tell my father about his condition, because with his personality, if he knew, he would definitely refuse all treatment and go back to his hometown in Shandong!" The doctor promised him.
When his father asked the doctor what was wrong, the doctor told him that he had to do further tests. Then he said, "If it's a serious illness, it's an incurable disease, you must let me go home, because I live in Beijing now, I help my son to see his children, and my child buys a house and has a loan of 2 million yuan, and I can't drag him down."
After some time, the father's condition became more and more serious, and his son went to the doctor again, and he said, "Doctor, can you get my father discharged?" At the end of my life, I want to spend time with him at home! ”
But when his father saw the doctor, he said: "Although you did not say anything about my illness, I already know that it is not a good result, I beg you for one thing, please make sure that I die in your hospital!"
The doctor asked why? He said: "My child's loan to buy that house is not paid off, I died there, dirty that place, and then scared my grandson!" So, I beg you, let me die in the hospital. ”
Suddenly, one day, the old man was bleeding profusely in his digestive tract, saying goodbye to his death, and the hospital called to inform his son that after his son came, his father had left. He asked to stay with his father for the last while, and finally to accompany him.
He held his father's hand, his head hanging low. After a while he asked the doctor if his father had anything to say at the time. The doctor told him what his father had said and thought when he wouldn't let him tell him about his illness, and when he asked him to be discharged from the hospital. The doctor repeated his father's words to him.
After he listened, he roared very dullly: "Daddy, how do you want me to live in the future?" Why are you doing this? ”
We can see that their father and son have love in their hearts, which is family affection, Chinese-style father-son love. Obviously, both the father and the son have love in their hearts, but they do not express it, so that they regret life and death!
Father's love is as selfless as mother's love, and it does not ask for anything in return! Although it is unknown, it is invisible. Only those who are attentive can understand it.
My father was also a typical Chinese father, and now he is an old man that I love and hate.
In my mother's words, when stubborn, ten cows can't be pulled back! Cute times, let you just see him want to laugh, from the bottom of your heart to laugh; carefree laugh; happy laugh!
When he was young, he was a soldier, made many meritorious contributions, participated in the Sino-Vietnamese self-defense counterattack, experienced too many tests of life and death, and watched too many lives and deaths.
Carrying my picture, he ran to the battlefield and fought with the enemy in the rain of bullets and bullets, he was so brave and fearless! Because in his heart, there is the country he loves, there are his beloved compatriots and comrades-in-arms, there is the family he loves, and there is his daughter who has not yet met and only has photos!
Later, when the war was over, he also changed careers, and I also had my father's love from then on! Open a small stove for me alone; let me sit on his shoulder; accompany me to kick shuttlecocks and hopscotch; teach me to catch birds in the snow, teach me to read and read! My father's love and companionship enriched my childhood! Be rich inside!
Slowly as time passed, I grew older, but he grew older. His love is no longer so direct, but somewhat wordless, serious and profound!
But it doesn't matter, I can appreciate his love! I will also give him warm companionship and selfless care as he loves me.
Although he is old now and has no power to lift me over his head and sit on my shoulder, he will still give me the best! I also have a wish to pet him like a child!
You slowly grow up with me, I slowly accompany you to grow old!
Some people say that Chinese fatherly love is deep, great, and at the same time bitter, incomprehensible, and melancholy. I would like to say that father's love is actually very simple.
It's like white wine, spicy and warm, and makes people drunk in it!
It's like coffee, bitter and mellow, and it's easy to get excited!
It is like tea, plain and kind, making people natural and fresh!
It is like a campfire, giving people warmth but intimidating, and it is easy to excite themselves!
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@Yan and Yu have something to say: I am a person who likes to record life with words, I would like to use this document to the fathers of the world, Happy Father's Day!
Dear ones, what do you understand fatherly love? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!
May you and your family be safe and sound!
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