Ms. Chen and her husband Mr. Chen came to mediate the scene about her son's marriage, and Mr. Chen hoped that his wife would not interfere too much in it and let her son and daughter-in-law be together. Ms. Chen said that her husband is too stubborn, which has brought a lot of pressure to the family, and she appeals that her husband should not be so stubborn, the daughter-in-law cannot be at home, and the contradiction between husband and wife is now concentrated on the marriage of the son.
As soon as they came on the scene, the couple made it clear that they were both coming for their son's marriage, but they had their own opinions on the daughter-in-law's whereabouts and could not negotiate. This can't help but be surprising, because it is reasonable to say that in this era of free marriage, whether it is the marriage of the son or the daughter-in-law's stay, it should be the matter of the son's two children's own consideration, how can it become the core of the contradiction between the old couple?
Ms. Chen said that there are historical reasons for all this, and at first she and her husband went to business and did not care about his marriage. When she mentioned her son's marriage, Ms. Chen was a little annoyed. I think that the couple was busy taking care of the business all day, and they did not have the heart to pay attention to their son's love and marriage problems.
By the time the business was on track, the couple worked hard for three apartments and a storefront with hundreds of thousands of dollars, and the son was already a 33-year-old unmarried otaku. Ms. Chen, who had returned to her senses, was anxious, and she began to sleep and eat, looking around for someone to zhang Luo's son's marriage. Soon, the good news came, the husband and sister-in-law introduced a girl, but the other party asked for a kiss on the day of the blind date, the son did not agree, Ms. Chen still forced the son to agree. Mr. Chen found that his son was reluctant and asked to stop, but Ms. Chen firmly disagreed. It sounded like Lao Chen at that time was very rational and did not get carried away by the happy event of his son's engagement. But unfortunately, his rationality did not last long, because his wife tightly grasped her son's weakness and said things, so Lao Chen, who had originally held an opposing opinion, turned his head and joined the camp of persuading his son. The son reluctantly agreed to be together, and soon the daughter-in-law became pregnant and married on the National Day.
Before there were parents with one heart, and then there were children coming, the son's marriage was put on the agenda in such a hurry, and the old Chen couple thought that this was the happy ending for everyone. As everyone knows, marriage is only the beginning of another drama, but the son's marriage is a series of twists and turns.
After marriage, the daughter-in-law relied on her son for everything, did not love to be clean, did not lose maggots in food, and even once gained 220 pounds. The son did not like his wife even more, and the two were completely separated. Mr. Chen said that the relationship between his son and daughter-in-law is not good, because the help of parents is not enough. I have to say that Lao Chen is not only a little pedantic in concept, but also a little blindly confident in his thinking, and he insists that as long as their husband and wife continue to help match their sons, the two small families will be able to establish a stable and stable small family after running-in.
Mr. Chen saw that his wife quarreled with his daughter-in-law every day, and he was too upset, so he advised his daughter-in-law to take money for divorce. It is hard to imagine that, for such a hasty reason, the old Chen couple once again made the decision for their son, breaking this marriage from the beginning to the end, every link is jaw-dropping. In Ms. Chen's view, it is precisely because of the consistent high-pressure policy of her husband Lao Chen that her son Xiao Chen has lost his initiative and is accustomed to obeying such a situation, and he has no chance to change after he becomes an adult.
Over the years, Xiao Chen has never left his parents, and he also works in the shop opened by his parents, and he has never even received a penny of salary. In every aspect of life, he is like a blank piece of paper, not to mention his own mastery of the marriage. Xiao Chen said that he did not agree with this marriage, but he could not resist his parents and did not understand why it had reached such a level. At first, because he could not say that he could not talk about his parents, Xiao Chen followed the advice and got married. Later, because he could not see his parents arguing over his marriage, in order to calm the family dispute, he obeyed the arrangement and divorced.
Two years later, Lao Chen began to make a mysterious move, which directly made their family comeback. Mr. Chen secretly took his daughter-in-law back for his granddaughter to have a mother. But the family became a mess, a little thing, Xiao Chen and his daughter-in-law mingled together. After the daughter-in-law returned, the son and daughter-in-law were always noisy, Ms. Chen could not see it and ran away from home, and Xiao Chen was also addicted to alcohol because of his marriage. Ms. Chen is distressed, in her opinion, because her husband stubbornly took back her daughter-in-law again and again, resulting in the family has not been peaceful, she and her husband have quarreled continuously, the contradictions have deepened, and her son is even more because of marital pain, drinking all day long, living in a foggy nightmare.
Observers pointed out that Xiao Chen's marital tragedy had its own reasons and could not blame her parents. Old Chen should understand that a marriage that is forced for the sake of children will not be happy, and Old Chen must learn to let go, but the process can be gradual. I hope that through a period of correct guidance, they will let their son Xiao Chen gradually try to control his life.
In the end, Ms. Chen's attitude is very cooperative, for the sake of her son, for the sake of the family, she is willing to make adjustments and changes. Lao Chen hopes that his wife can cooperate with him to pick up his daughter-in-law to return, and the family will try to get along again, and he even has a comprehensive plan for this family and for the future of the two generations. Xiao Chen also said that in the future life, try to drink less, but also let the children have a warm home, everyone go forward together, live a better life.