A few days ago, the roaring Emperor Ma Jingtao posted on Weibo that he and his wife Wu Jiani were divorced, causing an uproar. Just when netizens speculated about the real reason for the divorce, Wu Jiani posted a blog today in response to the rumor that "there are no external factors".
It seems that the previous rumors of domestic violence seem to be broken, and from the daily interaction between the two, it does not look like a relationship between them, but sweet like smearing honey. Coupled with the addition of two sons, it is simply a model family.
The show is also the flying of the show, praising each other for how good they are and how suitable they are for each other.
But it is not difficult to find that even if the two have been trying to adapt to each other and cater to each other, they can still feel from the words of the interview that the age gap is always a hurdle that cannot be crossed.
Ma Jingtao said it is difficult for him to imagine that such a young girl will be so determined when encountering problems, and he also admires her growing from a little girl to a mother so quickly, and the sons get along with her like brothers and sisters. These words seem to be praise, but in fact they are also the foreshadowing of contradictions.
Perhaps these modes of getting along and the feeling of love will be very fresh when they are just experienced, but over time will lead to many contradictions and entanglements, even if the two people and the three views are very compatible with each other, try to run in, do not quarrel and do not domestic violence, but the discomfort left in the heart for a long time will make both sides miserable and unbearable.
Ma Jingtao, an old man with a successful career, may be very attractive to a young girl who is in his youth, because the old man will be more mature and stable than the boys of the same age, and he will experience more things and feelings than the boys of the same age, so naturally he can especially grasp the psychology of the little girl, and the ways and methods of dealing with problems when encountering problems are far beyond those of his peers.
After all, old and young love can not escape the laws of nature, the problem of physiological needs is definitely the top priority of the relationship between men and women, although people who advocate Plato love have repeatedly denied it, but scientific research has shown that the harmony of sexual life almost determines whether love can be long-lasting, Ma Jingtao wu Jiani is exactly 21 years old, men's physiological boom is 20 to 25 years old, and women are over 30 years old. Even if Ma Jingtao is strong, he can't beat the years
In today's society, women in their early 30s are also very competitive, and their girlfriends' boyfriends or husbands may be young men with a table of talents, compared with Ma Jingtao, even if Wu Jiani repeatedly looks at Ma Jingtao and loves Ma Jingtao, it is inevitable that there will be some loss in her heart.
Ordinary people are still unable to escape divorce due to old husbands and young wives, and it is even more difficult for the entertainment industry to stick to marriage. Such examples in the entertainment industry are naturally everywhere.
Zhang Xinyi is 11 years younger than her boyfriend Yang Shupeng, and finally broke up due to personality problems and gathering less and more.
Gao Xiaosong divorced his wife, 19 years younger than himself, in 2014, supposedly because of huge disagreements over lifestyles and plans for the future.
Wu Qihua, because he did not handle the relationship between husband and wife, issued a statement in 2014 to divorce his wife, who was 21 years younger.
After zheng zhongji and Asa were secretly married for six years, they divorced because Asa couldn't stand Zheng Zhongji's heart, and the difference between the two was ten years.
The pain brought by old husbands and young wives to both parties with the passage of time is really great, and there are still many people in life who are tortured, but they dare not break up due to pressure from all sides.
Since it is so difficult for old husbands and young wives, then couples really want to think well before getting married, and don't let tragedies happen frequently.