In 2007, 24-year-old Wu Jiani chose to marry Ma Jingtao, who was 21 years older than herself.
After overcoming many obstacles, the two were preparing to hold a wedding at the beach that Wu Jiani liked, when Wu Jiani suddenly became pregnant.
Yi Huai was also pregnant with a twin, and Ma Jingtao, who accompanied his wife after the obstetric examination, was happy and broken, and rushed to find names for the two children.
Ma Jingtao's favorite is master Hongyi's famous saying, "Huazhi is full of spring, and the moon is full of heaven." ”
So he named the two children in his belly Ma Shitian and Ma Shixin.
Because Wu Jiani was pregnant and pregnant with more dangerous twins, both of them decided to suspend the wedding first.
Ma Jingtao often said to his wife guiltily, "Jiani, I still owe you a wedding." ”
Wu Jiani smiled happily and said, "Then wait until the birth is over." ”
But unexpected things came, and when they went to the obstetric examination in June of pregnancy, the doctor suddenly told them that they were still pregnant with only one.
Ma Jingtao half-jokingly and half-comfortingly said to Wu Jiani: "It's okay, Shixin will work harder next year." ”
When she was pregnant until 3 weeks before the due date, Wu Jiani suddenly broke the amniotic fluid, and the child was only 7 months old at this time, and the situation was very dangerous.
Ma Jingtao, who hurriedly sent his wife to the hospital, was frightened, afraid that his wife and children would have something to lose.
Fortunately, although the birth was 3 weeks premature, Wu Jiani and her son and mother came out of the operating room safely.
Ma Jingtao, whose heart fell back into his stomach, finally let go of his heart, and he looked at his weak wife, and his heart was touched.
After giving birth, Wu Jiani could not get out of bed because of a wound, and needed to use a urinal.
The doctor told them to avoid infection, they must pay attention to the disinfection and hygiene of the urinal basin.
Ma Jingtao, who heard this, remembered it in his heart, and would personally help Wu Jiani wash the urinal every day, disinfect it with disinfectant water, and then use a hair dryer to dry it.
Because the disinfectant water has a certain irritation, Ma Jingtao's hands, which have been washed for more than a month, are dry and cracked.
The nurse advised him to let them do it.
When Ma Jingtao refused, he was worried that the nurse would not wash clean, he did not want his wife to be exposed to a little risk, or he washed it cleanest himself.
This incident was also remembered by Wu Jiani for a long time, and she couldn't help but wet her eyes when she talked about it later.
Wu Jiani said: "Whether a man loves you or not depends not on what he has said to you and how much money he has earned you, but for every little thing he has done for you." ”
Later, by the time Wu Jiani's body recovered and the doctor allowed her to take a bath, almost two months had passed.
Ma Jingtao helped Wu Jiani take a bath in the bathroom for more than two hours, and he later laughed and joked that he had never been so dirty during his time as a soldier.
And it is precisely because in the hospital, Ma Jingtao took meticulous care of Wu Jiani, from her premature hospitalization, almost never returned home.
This made Wu Jiani's parents, who were originally very opposed to their being together, change their attitude.
They even persuaded Ma Jingtao to go back to rest and rest and change their care.
But Ma Jingtao hurriedly waved his hand and said that he was not tired and insisted on staying behind to take care of Wu Jiani personally.
After being discharged from the hospital, Wu Jiani's body slowly recovered, and the wedding that had been temporarily shelved was once again put on the agenda.
By the time the two of them once again looked after the venue and sent out the invitation message, Wu Jiani was pregnant again.
Friends who had been invited twice joked, "This wedding can't be done, get pregnant once." ”
In the face of this unexpected arrival of the child, Wu Jiani was very hesitant, after all, the eldest son had just been born and was not even one year old.
But Ma Jingtao very much hoped that Wu Jiani could keep this child, and he felt that this was Ma Shixin's finding.
In the end, Wu Jiani still left the child.
Ma Jingtao was very happy and did not go out to work for a whole year, and the "Secret History of the Sui Dynasty" that was originally planned to be filmed was postponed to the second half of the year.
Ma Jingtao took good care of Wu Jiani at home full-time, but even so, the coincidence accident happened again.
Wu Jiani was born prematurely this time, and like a child, she was born 3 weeks prematurely, and then gave birth to a son.
Ma Jingtao, who has two sons in middle age, is extremely happy, has been immersed in happiness and excitement, and even sleeps at night is a beautiful dream.
And Wu Jiani also gave up the acting career she had struggled for before for her family, and took care of her two children at home.
She will also call Ma Jingtao to live with the eldest daughter born to her ex-wife, although Wu Jiani is only 8 years away from this stepdaughter, but the two still get along very happily.
It can be said that Ma Jingtao's family is already very happy and happy at this time, but the crisis is often hidden under the calm.
When he learned that Ma Jingtao was married, His ex-wife Tian Li, who had been in love with him for many years, said somewhat meaningfully, "Treat her well." ”
From this, we can also glimpse the signs that Ma Jingtao abandoned Wu Jiani after 10 years.
The old husband and wife were never favored, to support each other all the way through 10 years, just when everyone gradually recognized their feelings, the two divorced without warning.
In 2017, Ma Jingtao posted a long article in which he said thank you and sorry to Both Wu Jiani and his eldest daughter Ma Shiyuan.
The reason for the divorce given by Ma Jingtao is that his younger brother Ma Jingshan is released from prison, and he wants to accompany his brother to start a business again as an older brother.
Ma Jingtao's brother is not the first time to go to prison, and Ma Jingshan was arrested and sentenced to 15 years for taking risks and robbing because of his debts.
At that time, Ma Jingtao was anxious because of a lawsuit with his agent, ignoring the state of his brother, and he had always felt guilty.
After his brother went to prison, Ma Jingtao has been raising his brother's sons until he is released.
But I did not expect that after being released from prison, Ma Jingshan committed another crime, or the same crime, and was sentenced to 8 years.
At this time, Ma Jingtao finally couldn't help it, he felt that his brother was his nightmare.
Although Ma Jingtao is a well-known big star and has starred in many popular film and television works, his heart has always had the defect of being influenced by his original family.
When participating in variety shows, Ma Jingtao often can't control his behavior and does something unexpected.
For example, in the "Spit Conference", Ma Jingtao suddenly hugged Serenity without greeting and forcibly kissed her.
Serenity was stunned, but she smiled as a courtesy.
Later, when Tranquility was asked who she disliked in the entertainment industry the most, she did not hesitate to say Ma Jingtao's name.
Tranquility said that Ma Jingtao, a person, just started to get along and felt okay, and after getting along for a long time, he felt that he was a bit self-centered, and did not care about the feelings of others.
Such an evaluation is not only said by Serenity alone.
Liu Xuehua, who used to shoot with Ma Jingtao, said that when Ma Jingtao sometimes acted until he forgot himself, he picked up an ashtray and smashed it on his head.
Chen Hong, who filmed "Between Water and Clouds" together, also complained that Ma Jingtao not only likes roaring performances, but when she plays against her, her strength is particularly strong, and her arms are shook blue.
Ma Jingtao's roaring style of acting, just like his person, when he first came into contact, let the audience feel unique and fresh, and after a long time, he began to discover the lack of connotation under the exaggerated performance.
Why is Ma Jingtao's personality so unstable, like it is full of fog that people can't figure out?
This is inseparable from his original family.
Ma Jingtao was the second eldest in the family, his father was a Taiwan policeman, and he was later promoted all the way to the position of chief of the police station.
Ma Jingtao's parents have a total of 4 children, and the family of 6 has frequently moved because of his father's promotion.
Ma Jingtao, who often transfers schools, can't make friends at all in school, and often suddenly goes to an unfamiliar class, making it difficult to integrate into it.
Ma Jingtao himself said in an interview that when he transferred to a school in the first grade, he did not know where the bathroom was.
The teacher waited until the class to appear, and he quickly raised his hand to ask the teacher, but the teacher thought that he was like the mischievous students, so he severely reprimanded him.
Later, Ma Jingtao really couldn't hold back peeing his pants, and his classmates laughed around him after class.
This incident brought a great shadow to Ma Jingtao, and his father's discipline was strict, and he did not dare to tell his parents.
So over time, Ma Jingtao himself did not want to get along with his classmates, and his personality became more and more withdrawn.
Even the relatives who came to the family just hid in the room, which of course was reprimanded by his father, but this aggravated Ma Jingtao's introversion.
When he grew up a little, Ma Jingtao began to try to change himself, and his handsome appearance also attracted a lot of peach blossoms for him.
Ma Jingtao once had several relationships, although they all ended in a breakup.
By chance, Ma Jingtao entered the development of the actor industry, although he became more and more famous later, but this road was actually not suitable for him.
Because of the lack of childhood intimate relationships, Ma Jingtao's personality is very polarized and sensitive.
When filming, he often came out because he was too deep into the scene.
During the filming of "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang", Ma Jingtao played Dolgun, and after filming, he really went to the tomb of Empress Xiaozhuang and called her Yu'er.
In the relationship between Ma Jingtao and Tian Li, Tian Li once exposed that Ma Jingtao likes to beat people with her hands and is prone to emotional loss of control, so she can't stand it.
Later, when Ma Jingtao and Li Tingzhi fell in love, they went out with her and his sister and a group of friends, and as a result, they clashed with the staff because of drunk driving.
Perhaps in order to show himself in front of his girlfriend, Ma Jingtao beat someone with his hands, and then he was locked up for 10 hours because of the xi police.
For the sake of his younger brother Ma Jingshan's divorce from his wife, Ma Jingtao has always been eager and afraid of the affection between his family.
Because there was no friendship when he was a child, Ma Jingtao, who was only left with family affection, had a sense of crisis from an early age.
The attitude of his parents is strict, there are many brothers, and even family affection needs to be fought for, so Ma Jingtao has also developed such a character.
For the sake of his younger brother Ma Jingshan, Ma Jingtao returned to Taiwan three times to help him clean up the aftermath, not only for his younger brother's adopted son to go to college, but also for his younger brother to study at university.
It is a pity that Ma Jingshan has committed another crime, otherwise he may have graduated with his own son.
However, Ma Jingshan, who went to prison again, changed, wrote novels in prison, won awards, and was published.
At the press conference, Ma Jingtao also appeared, and it seems that he is still very pleased with his brother's change, and even decided to make his brother's book into a movie.
Therefore, this may be the reason why Ma Jingtao chose to divorce Wu Jiani for his brother.
On the one hand, he wanted to help his brother to fight together, on the other hand, he also had a vaguely skeptical attitude towards his brother, and did not want to drag Wu Jiani to suffer together.
Edit: Anmu