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Text: Sports and Entertainment Record
Editor|Sports and Entertainment Wind Cloud Record
At the pinnacle of his career, give up his career for love.
In the mood for love at the age of 24, despite the opposition of his parents, he married a second-married man who was 21 years older than him.
In ten years, he gave birth to two children.
I thought that from a world of two to a family of four, such a bland happiness would last a lifetime.
Unexpectedly, she was willing to be a housewife, but she ended up being abandoned.
It's sad, it's a pity.
Whenever this relationship is mentioned, there are always people who say that she is confused and sincerely pays the wrong person.
Unexpectedly, seven years later, Wu Jiani, who was single with two babies and struggling to make a living, was very grateful for his original choice.
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Pure.
Pretty.
Wu Jiani used to be the flower of the Northern Dance School, but unfortunately he didn't meet a good time, and there were too many Liu Yifei, Jia Jingwen, and Jiang Qinqin in those years........
Among the many beauties with outstanding appearance and dusty temperament, she can only stand aside when she was praised by neighbors and classmates since she was a child.
Match Ningning, Zhang Jingchu, Zhu Yin, Tao Hong, Li Xiaoran, Liu Shishi, these big coffees.
Although it is not stunning, it is fresh and refined, smart and natural.
's good performance has allowed her to accumulate a lot of audience popularity, and she has gained a foothold in the entertainment industry, and there will naturally be no shortage of scripts delivered to her hands.
If this development continues, Wu Jiani's career will only get better and better.
But just when she was about to usher in the climax of her career, the appearance of Ma Yingdi disrupted all her rhythms.
In 2006, a "God List" brought the two together.
One is the main character, and the other is a dragon actor.
One plays the role of the king who is bewitched by beauty, and the other plays the pipa spirit who bewitches the king of the ring.
Some people say that the two fell in love because of the play, but Wu Jiani denied this statement in an interview.
After all, when they were in the crew, the two did not play against each other much, and they didn't say more than five sentences from the start of filming to the finale
The gap in career and the 21-year difference in age are the gap between the two.
Until the night of the finale, Ma Yingdi suddenly made a phone call and chatted for a long time not far from her.
Although the conversation was all homely, this phone call also eliminated the strangeness between the two.
After the filming ended, the two never contacted each other again.
But when fate comes, it can't be stopped.
After going their separate ways, Ma Yingdi, who came to Shanghai because of cooperation, sent her a series of invitations.
Invite her to dinner, invite her to visit the class.......
It was during that time that he saw the real Wu Jiani.
She seems to have a kind of cheerfulness and optimism that doesn't matter when the sky falls, and even the people who get along with her don't consciously relax.
Wu Jiani also discovered that the Ma actor he knew was not comprehensive.
In addition to the unsmiling side, there is also a mature, considerate, and romantic side.
Just from reading between the lines of Wu Jiani's blog, it can be analyzed that she has the habit of collecting watches, and the gift is just right.
"The watch represents time, and when you look back in the future, you will find that every moment of our time together is meaningful"
One is sunny and optimistic, the other is mature and considerate.
The contact back and forth made the two hearts ignore the gap in age and identity and come together.
But before they could talk about marriage, they tasted all the hardships.
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Just knew that his daughter was in love and met an object of mutual affection, and the old couple laughed from ear to ear.
knew that the other party was Ma Yingdi, and after the joy faded, he was full of worries.
On the one hand, the Wu family's parents felt that the two were not a good match.
Before I met my daughter, I had a marriage and a daughter, but unfortunately this marriage did not last long.
Perhaps, he was too busy in his career and ignored his wife's feelings.
Perhaps, firewood, rice, oil and salt have exhausted the only remaining relationship between the two.
In three years, the happy marriage ended with a "divorce", and Ma Yingdi lived alone with his daughter.
After him?
talked about a few relationships, but none of them ended well, and even their reputation was damaged.
Tian Li, who didn't mind that Ma Yingdi had a child and treated the child as her own, said a plausible word.
"Irritable and violent"
During his relationship with other girlfriends, he had a conflict with the staff because of drunk driving, which caused a hot search.
The circulation of emojis on the Internet made him unable to speak clearly, and since then he has been labeled as a "domestic violence man".
Complicated feelings, living with my daughter......
Not to mention anything else, these two points alone are enough to persuade the old couple to quit.
After all, as long as they are parents, they don't want to look at their daughters who are like flowers and jade, and marry others to be stepmothers.
On the other hand, I can't bear to let my daughter marry far away.
My daughter has been with them since she was a child, and the longest time she was separated from them was when she went to school in Beijing.
Finally graduated, has a stable job, and is marrying to Taiwan?
No matter how open-minded the parents are, they can't accept the strange eyes of outsiders, let alone hand over their daughters to such people.
I never expected it!
Wu Jiani, who was fascinated by love, didn't understand his parents' worries at all, and sang against them.
"We really love each other, the man is older, it doesn't matter if he is divorced, such a man is more mature and will hurt people"
Ma Yingdi, who couldn't bear his girlfriend being caught in the middle, visited him several times and showed his determination.
The daughter lives in Taiwan.
After marriage, he settled in Shanghai.
In this way, it will not affect the life of the young couple, avoid the embarrassment of being a stepmother, and there is no problem of marrying far away.
The sincere attitude and the resoluteness of the daughter made the old couple slowly let go of the mustard in their hearts and agreed to the marriage.
In everyone's surprise, the two got engaged in June 2006 and got their license in February 2007.
In just three years after marriage, Wu Jiani gave up her career for love, became a housewife at home, and gave birth to her eldest son Ma Shitian and second son Ma Shixin.
Perhaps, some people say that it is not worth giving up their original life for love, but Wu Jiani doesn't think so.
The whole person is immersed in the joy of being a mother for the first time and the happiness given by her husband.
When she was pregnant, her husband would cook for her when he had time, and even when he took a bath, he would lay out a non-slip mat for her in advance, put water in advance, and even squeeze toothpaste in the morning.
Even so, he still felt that he had not done enough, far from making up for the hard work of his wife's pregnancy for ten months.
After the child was born, Ma Yingdi took care of the trivial tasks of changing diapers, breastfeeding, and taking the child to early education classes.
These things are done for years.
It can be said that from marriage to pregnancy and childbirth, Ma Yingdi gave her enough security.
Compared with Wu Jiani's happiness, Ma Yingdi only felt that the pressure was doubled, and he had to work hard in order to give his children a good growth environment.
While taking on film and television dramas, he also wrote scripts and prepared for filming.
While completing a collection of essays, he established a film and television company in the names of his two sons.
During the New Year's holidays, he would take his wife and children back to his mother-in-law's house for a small gathering, and his life was busy, but he only felt extremely fulfilling.
While his career was steadily rising, he did not forget the regrets in his wife's heart, and carefully prepared a romantic wedding for Wu Jiani.
thought that after seven years of itching, their love would be indestructible.
Unexpectedly, when the dust settled, the news of their divorce came out.
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As for the reason?
Some people say that Ma Jingshan encountered difficulties when starting a business, and Ma Yingdi, who was an elder brother, couldn't stand it, and wanted to take out the family's savings to help his younger brother, but Wu Jiani refused.
The expenses of the two children are getting bigger and bigger day by day, the husband's filming is getting less and less year by year, and he needs to take care of the children and can't go out to work, so the family can't easily move this little money.
In the end, the two came to the step of divorce because of disagreements.
Some people say that it is Wu Jiani's inferiority complex that is causing trouble.
In the ten years of being a stay-at-home mother, she has become less and less confident and anxious about everything she relies on her husband.......
Some people also speculate that it was Ma Yingdi who was unfaithful to his marriage, so he did not keep his wife and children who really loved him.
Wu Jiani looked at these gossips and was not angry.
"Isn't it true that a man who is resilient and responsible, but is said to be like this, won't your conscience hurt?"
After that, Ma Yingdi also posted a long article, if it is suitable, it will be together, and if it is not suitable, it will be separated, and it has nothing to do with character and morality.
For the upbringing of children, the two have always been consistent.
Although the child lives with Wu Jiani, the fatherly love that should be there, and Ma Yingdi will not be absent at every important moment.
Now, seven years later?
The single mother at the beginning finally got rid of the label of a full-time mother, returned to the entertainment industry, and found her self-confidence in the work.
The glorious era, the twilight white head, fell in love at first sight, Bei Shangguang did not believe in tears, our marriage .........
Although she is not a heroine and is not popular, Wu Jiani is very satisfied with her current life.
Although it is a pity that she missed the best years of her career development when she got married, she felt that everything was worth it when she watched the baby grow into a teenager taller than her.
After all, relying on others is unreliable, and you can give yourself the sense of security you want, and the real destiny is in your own hands.
There is no shortage of filming, beautiful and confident.
Now shining on the big screen, she has finally become her backer.
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