People will meet many people in their lives, some have become the bondage of a lifetime, some have become passers-by who have forgotten in the blink of an eye, and the only thing that is constantly cut in many relationships is the relationship between love and affection.
Miyazawa Riki was burdened by the mother-daughter relationship all her life, became a money-making tool for her mother at an early age, was forced to step into the entertainment industry, and became an actor; the unfreedom of love after adulthood made her give up herself, and she was gradually assimilated by the atmosphere of the entertainment industry, and then suffered from depression, and even quit the entertainment industry for a time.
Riki Miyazawa was doomed from birth to a Dutch father who was sent home shortly after she was born.
However, Miyazawa's mother, Mitsuko, is a materialistic woman who "loves money as much as her life", and before marriage, she earned a living by accompanying wine and playing small roles in TV dramas, and after marriage, she relied on her husband to provide for her.
The Dutch husband has been sent back to China, so how can Photon take care of his cumbersome daughter? So Miyazawa Lived a life under the fence at a very young age.
Riki Miyazawa lived at her aunt's house until she was 11 years old. The days of sending people to the fence made Miyazawa Very weak, she did not dare to disobey the orders of her aunt's family, even if her heart did not agree with her aunt's advice, she was afraid that after resisting, her aunt would throw her out of the door, and then she would really become a homeless orphan.
Compared with Miyazawa's weak personality, her appearance can be said to inherit all the advantages of her parents, and she has a stunning face when she was a child. However, such a appearance was the beginning of a nightmare for Riki Miyazawa.
Photon remembers that she has an 11-year-old daughter after three failed marriages, and she uses the excuse of visiting her sister to see her cowardly daughter, but this does not affect Photon's use of her daughter to make money.
In the eyes of Photon, the 11-year-old Miyazawa Rieke was born very peugeot, and the beautiful face should go to the entertainment industry to "earn money", so Miyazawa Rie was forced to become her mother's "cash cow", and she was forced to embark on her own unwilling life path.
Some people say that Miyazawa's mother has achieved her acting career, while others say that her mother is too controlling and ruined Miyazawa's life.
"Parents love their children, but they have far-reaching plans", parents always want to pave the way for their children, but they do not know that a limited road will harm their children's lives. So should parents "control" their children's lives?
The answer is that the child's life should be properly "controlled".
First of all, everyone is an independent individual, and even if our lives are given by our parents, it still does not change the fact that we are a person with an independent personality. Everyone has their own ideas, as a parent how to change the subjective will of their children?
Secondly, every child comes to this world like a blank piece of paper, every child from a young child to an adult who can dominate his own life, which takes decades to lay the groundwork, in the process of growing up, it is inevitable that experienced people need guidance, parents are the best candidates.
Finally, the growth of children is inseparable from the "control" of parents, but this "control" is not the control of others, parents can become the child's life mentor, but must not arbitrarily plan the child's life. After all, everyone is a first-time person, and their parents' plans are not all right, but Miyazawa's mother does not think so.
Riki Miyazawa debuted as a cover magazine model at the age of 11 with her pure appearance, became known as the role of "Reiko Shiratori" at the age of 14, becoming a "beautiful girl star" in the eyes of the public, and becoming a popular actor at the age of 15.
But Mitsuko's ambitions go far beyond that, and she wants her daughter to become Japan's most famous actress, providing herself with a steady stream of money. Photon, who was born as a drinking girl, has a huge "conspiracy" in her mind, and she hopes that her daughter can get more exposure by betraying her "appearance".
She took Riki Miyazawa to Find Takeshi Kitano, a director of extraordinary status in The Japanese showbiz at the time. Photon said cryptically, "If the seniors feel that the night is too lonely, Li Hui can chat with you." "
You should know that Kitano Takeshi was already in his forties at that time, and from the perspective of his age, he could be the father of Riki Miyazawa. Fortunately, Kitano tookshi rejected Photon's "deal" on the spot.
This failure did not hit Photon, but made her more and more frustrated, and soon she immediately thought of another idea that made Miyazawa Reiki burst into flames. In 1991, Photon tricked the simple Miyazawa Riki into going to the United States, and it turned out that Photon contacted the well-known photography master Norinobu Shinoyama.
Under the coaxing of her mother, Miyazawa Riki filmed a large-scale photo "sante fe", which made Miyazawa's image subvert overnight, from a jade girl in the eyes of the public to a lustful woman. Mitsuko also made a lot of money because of this portrait by Riki Miyazawa.
If the unfreedom at work makes Miyazawa extremely depressed, then the unfreedom in love is the last straw that crushes her. The story of Miyazawa's love affair with sumo wrestler Takahanada is regrettable, but the lover who instinctively accompanies him for a lifetime becomes a love tragedy under the hindrance of Mitsuko.
At that time, Riki Miyazawa and Takahanata jointly announced the news that they were going to get married, and the cross-border love between the showbiz and sports circles was blessed by many people. However, Miyazawa's mother forced Miyazawa to cancel the wedding with her death.
It turns out that Takahanata's family is a very typical Japanese family, and after marriage, women cannot show their faces at will, so Miyazawa Rie is bound to give up her career for the sake of the family, but if she does not act, how can she support Photon's luxurious life? Of course, Photon, who only has money in his eyes, cannot give up the "cash cow" of Riki Miyazawa.
Under the threat of her mother, Miyazawa Riki unilaterally announced the dissolution of the marriage contract two months after announcing the marriage, the love tragedy made Miyazawa Riki twisted in her heart, she longed to rebel against her mother but did not work, the mother-daughter relationship dragged down the first half of her life, and her life was tragic comparable to Mei Yanfang.
It wasn't until Mitsuko's death that Riki Miyazawa gradually came out of the shadow of the "poisonous mother" and tried to live the life she wanted to live.
Emerson once said, "As long as a man is thoughtful, he is free." "The freedom that man pursues is not only freedom of thought but also freedom of spirit, and if a person cannot even satisfy himself with spiritual freedom, his life is bound to be miserable."
Blindly compromising with others will only encourage the arrogance of others, making themselves weak and deceitful, only the courage to resist, loyal to their own ideas, in order to have an independent personality.