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I don't know if you have noticed that as long as Guo Keyu talks about the ten years when she has no job, she can't help but cry every time she talks.
"Goodbye Lover" has almost reached the last issue, and from the first issue, Guo Keyu will cry as long as she talks about the past ten years. She wasn't crying for the lovelessness of that failed marriage, but for herself, and she felt sad and sorry for herself.
"I was also anxious, I felt old, I couldn't keep up with my physical strength, I didn't have such a young face." But it seems that the person who loves you will always be with you, and if you don't love, you don't love. Thank you for protecting me well in the past ten years, because you said something that made me feel very sad, in the yard of the house, a lot of colleagues drank and ate together, and then you will say, Our teacher Guo, she is an artist, I, just go to a play. You protect me very well, and I can watch movies and books at home without worry. ”
The person who loves you will always be with you, the child loves her, the mother also loves her, these two people will not leave her, only Zhang He left, because Zhang He did not love her.
When Guo Keyu said this sentence with tears, he still tried to maintain the dignity between her and Zhang He, and she was still thanking Zhang He. But in fact, in the past ten years, if Guo Keyu has not paid so much for her family, she has not been sick, she can also go out to shoot, she gave up her most beloved career for the sake of her family and children, but what has she gained in this decade?
Although Zhang He has a lot of girlfriend fans, I think Zhang He is not a good husband and father, if Zhang He is a good father, Guo Keyu will not mention to him to accompany his son more, play videos with his son. I always feel that Zhang He does not have a kind of respect and affirmation for Guo Keyu's past ten years of efforts, as if a woman got married and had children when her career was in full swing, and then lost her job because of it, she felt that she sacrificed a lot for the family, but men would feel that "I raised you, and I have raised you for more than ten years." What is your little sacrifice, it is not thanks to me to raise you, it is I who carry the weight for you."
But what I want to say is that if Guo Keyu hadn't given up acting, maybe she would have become a good actor.
It's a pity that she gave so much for the family that the man took her as deserved and even felt that he should be grateful that he had raised her.
Speaking of Guo Keyu from this point of view, there may be people who will contradict me, saying that everything is the result of her own choice, and everyone has to pay for their own choice. That's true, but if that person can understand her more and understand her, she will not feel that she is in the marriage. In that ten years of marriage, she had a lot of grievances and pains, but Zhang He did not understand her, and her grievances and pains, full-time mothers understood, because they had similar experiences and feelings.
"Goodbye Lover" Guo Keyu lost her voice and cried bitterly: her grievances in the past ten years, full-time mothers understand.
Why do I say that Zhang He does not understand Guo Keyu?
There was an issue in which everyone sat in a piece of meat and hemp love words, Guo Keyu wrote "what time is the plane", and then Zhang He's reaction was very strange, he said that only Guo Keyu would write such a strange love story. Guo Keyu explained, "Send you a few flights, is to know what time you arrive, and then arrange the next thing, cooking or something", Zhang He interjected a sentence: You can't cook, it's all done by your aunt.
What does Zhanghe mean? There is an aunt at home, and you don't have to cook food, and you say you have something to arrange. Isn't it boring what time do you send me? You need to arrange something. From this detail, you can see that Zhang He is disrespectful, does not understand, and does not understand Guo Keyu.
Perhaps in Zhang He's view, Guo Keyu at home with a child is the same as enjoying Qingfu, because she has someone to help, the child does not have to bring herself, and she also has an aunt to help her cook. But women who have actually personally brought children know that after the first three years of giving birth, even if you have someone to help, you are very busy. With children, many times you have to do it yourself, how much can others help you? Guo Keyu is a very detail-oriented and emotional person, and her sensibility was initially intended to be shared with Zhang He, but Zhang He did not understand her, and over time she closed the door of her heart.
And when the two of them divorced, I didn't understand why Guo Keyu had to move out with his children.
The house they used to live in is very good, even their children say that the greenery they live in now is not as good as the previous community, since they love their children very much, why not leave a good house for their ex-wife and children? In addition, how did not help when moving, how is it all Guo Keyu alone in Zhang Luo, and the matter of the child's transfer, many things after their divorce are Guo Keyu alone, where is the responsible Zhang He?
Although Guo Keyu has always said that Zhang He is a good man, to be honest, he is not even as good as Wang Qiuyu.
Wang Qiuyu at least knew that he was hurting his child, but what about Zhang He, was he distressed? Wang Qiuyu was not as sharp as Zhang He, and Zhang He was too picky for his ex-wife. The wedding ring has not been bought, or the husband and wife when the bag has not been bought, Zhang He excused himself is that he said that Guo Keyu is a woman with a low material desire. Please, people will not take the initiative to ask, you will not take the initiative to send?
That is to say, Guo Keyu is really too sensible, she shielded a lot of bad things, and she endured too much.
Guo Keyu said that he had a child, she said that from the beginning of the oxytocin began to hurt very painful and then urged a day of herself did not say a word, this time Zhang He interjected, he said that the doctor said to him "your daughter-in-law is really powerful, did not say a word." When Zhang He said it, I didn't see "heartache" and "gratitude" in his eyes.
Guo Keyu said that whether it is good to work or have children, Zhang He has less empathy for her.
How did their ten-year marriage feel to me? Guo Keyu sacrificed himself for the sake of his children and sacrificed his work for the family, and paid a lot, but these efforts were nothing to say in Zhang He's view, he felt that he was raising them, and he felt that Guo Keyu was pampering and superior.
Guo Keyu himself took on a lot and rarely complained about anything, which also gave Zhang He the illusion that he was doing a good job. A man who can even misunderstand his wife saying "what time is the plane, come back early, drink less wine", I don't know what to defend him.
Zhang He is quite critical, can you imagine what he will look like to Guo Keyu in marriage? Around.
I have always felt that Zhang He is not so simple, he is very superficial, what is needed is the kind of little girl who will worship him and know how to be spoiled, but Guo Keyu is not such a woman, Guo Keyu said that she will not cater to men, she is getting along with her in a respectful way, but does Zhang He really respect and understand her?
I especially feel sorry for Guo Keyu, and I am sure that she loves Zhang He more.
When Guo Keyu looked at Zhang He for 4 minutes, she didn't dare to look at Zhang He's eyes, and it wasn't long before she couldn't stop crying. Zhang He categorically said that he did not have the idea of remarriage, and Guo Keyu said that there was, presumably she said that she also had to work alone with her children, which was a little difficult. Guo Keyu must have loved Zhang He, but Zhang He did not understand her, and the communication between the two of them was not on the same level, and over time, they each closed the wall of their hearts.
Guo Keyu said to Zhang He: "If a woman burns out what she has been giving, then she will also go crazy." ”
Zhang He always thinks that someone will open his heart wall, but why can't your heart wall be opened on your own initiative? Why do you need someone to help you turn it on?
In fact, in real life, many stay-at-home mothers will have the same troubles and grievances as Guo Keyu: they sacrifice their careers for their children, they choose to take their children at home, but men turn a blind eye to her hard choices. They will also complain, but men feel that "I raised you to earn money, you have nothing to be wronged." But to be honest, taking care of your children at home is not necessarily easier than yours. Men don't get too arrogant sometimes, your wife takes on a lot for you, you know.
A little more understanding and gratitude to them, they will not be so wronged in marriage.
Many netizens are looking forward to the remarriage of the two of them, I don't want, I hope Guo Keyu work well, be a real self, I am looking forward to a better Guo Keyu. As for Zhang He, go find the kind of little girl who worships you, I don't bless or look good.
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★ Author: Yibao; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.