In her, we see the tenacity of life, and the persistence and beauty that middle-aged women still strive for.
Many people's first impression of Guo Keyu is "gentle", both in and out of the play.
Chatting with her, her gentle words, her eloquent speech, her indifference to material things and the transparency of life, always make people can't help but whisper.
But she doesn't think she's a completely gentle person.
Also, one cares more about "passion for expression" than "perfection", and prefers "inspiration from a stroke of genius" to "rules".
The divorce variety show "Goodbye Lover" made Guo Keyu, who had been silent for more than ten years, popular overnight, and once again ushered in a highlight moment in middle age.
Since she re-entered the audience's field of vision, many people have been attracted by her temperament, and it is even more unforgettable.
Guo Keyu has coldness and enthusiasm, it seems that two diametrically opposed temperaments are natural in her.
When people reach middle age, they still have a faint sense of alienation, and they have a literary temperament that is so strong that they can't be dissolved.
Simple and clean, not philistine or utilitarian, always like a little girl in the fog.
If you want to ask what kind of middle-aged woman is unforgettable, perhaps, look at Guo Keyu, and you will have the answer.
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Cultivate the "core" and not be coerced by emotions
Whenever Guo Keyu appears on various occasions or activities, the wrinkles of the years are clearly visible on his face.
But when a woman reaches middle age, she no longer relies solely on her appearance, but on her inner temperament.
A woman's beauty should be the beauty of talent, the beauty of aura, the beauty of connotation and temperament.
In my eyes, Guo Keyu is a woman who belongs to this type.
Even though her face has traces of age, she is still very beautiful.
Guo Keyu doesn't often wear makeup in the show, and they are often a little disgraced in the desert.
But she is very real, she does not hide herself in front of the camera, showing the most real appearance.
Guo Keyu belongs to the kind of middle-aged woman who is unforgettable, her beauty makes people very comfortable, and you will be attracted to her unconsciously.
Guo Keyu is a very emotionally stable and introverted woman, she is calm and quiet.
Many people say that Guo Keyu is gentle, precisely because she has a stable core and is not coerced by emotions, so she is so gentle.
The combination of partnering allows Guo Keyu and Zhang He to "not tear up, quarrel or be intense", tacitly playing an emotionally stable couple.
When he saw the other two pairs of guests arguing, Zhang He couldn't help but sigh: "You two really have love." ”
Guo Keyu is delicate and sensitive in his heart, but he is emotionally stable and has a clear attitude from beginning to end.
Feelings and marriages, past are gone, and without them, there is no more.
She is accustomed to inward exploration, is sure that life can be self-consistent, and never builds on outsiders to judge her own values.
There are many, many grievances in marriage, and she cries every time she mentions her ten-year marriage.
looked at Zhang He during "The Ultimate Thirty-six Questions", she was also crying miserably, she was crying for herself.
But she is really strong, she has taken on a lot by herself, digested a lot of negative energy, and formatted a lot of things.
People with a stable core will never be infected or provoked by bad emotions from the outside world.
Don't say negative things, don't do negative things, and don't care about negative people.
Let yourself be emotionally stable, and surround yourself with an emotionally stable surrounding environment.
When a woman reaches middle age, she learns to cultivate the "core" and not be coerced by emotions.
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"Treasure" woman, does not stop learning
The source of a woman's self-worth is continuous learning.
A woman who can make a person never forget, in addition to inner qualities, is more importantly talented.
Guo Keyu is very talented!
Everyone's first impression of her is that she is very literary, but she is not the kind of pretentious literary woman, but belongs to the very cold kind.
If you don't get in touch with her, you will feel that she is left behind and independent, and if you get in touch with her, you will unconsciously sigh "how can there be such a gentle woman".
Guo Keyu is not only talented in acting, but also won the actress with "Red Cherry" at the age of 17.
She became famous at a young age, and if she had continued her acting career, she might be different now.
In addition to acting, her voice is like heaven.
Her voice was ethereal, like a nightingale.
Not only can I sing, but I can also compose lyrics and music.
The theme song of "Goodbye Lover" and "Until the Right Person" came were all written by her.
"Love flickered like a mist outside the city, I no longer add bricks and tiles, but there are no words, and my ears have been recited, so I have to look at your lips, and see the raisins as if she was a shriveled grievance, and we are all breastfeeding our dreams in our arms, and with a piece of sleeping hard candy in our mouths, we set off for love. ”
What beautiful lyrics that write about the complexity and confusion of feelings.
Not only that, but she also plays the harmonica.
She is literary and artistic, she has the temperament of not eating fireworks in the world, carrying a collection of poems with her, listening to her read poems is like narrating life.
She loves life and collects wildflowers to make bookmarks for everyone.
Although he has been in the shadow for ten years, Guo Keyu has never stopped growing himself, just waiting for the moment when the flowers bloom.
Even Teacher Shen Yifei unconsciously praised: "The versatile Teacher Guo." ”
Guo Keyu is a treasure, the deeper you dig, the more you will be attracted to her.
When a person reaches middle age, what can support a woman's independent ability must be the ability to continue learning and the talent that will never be extinguished.
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"Salvage" yourself, sober and independent
In middle age, when the marriage fails and life is bad, learn to "salvage" yourself.
In life, there are always one or two things that will make us suddenly wake up, and a serious illness that makes Guo Keyu wake up.
Halfway through life, it's time to learn to respect yourself.
She began to think about what the essence of life should be, she thought of ending the marriage of the form, and hurriedly struggled to start "salvaging herself".
Among the many propositions of a middle-aged woman's life, she put aside her reserve and confrontation, and tried her best to trek step by step, reconciling with the past, reconciling with herself, and reconciling with the world.
Even after many years of retirement, she still has the ability to make money.
The confidence of single mothers is given by economic strength.
The transparency of a middle-aged woman is not an easy bow to reality, let alone a pretending to be reserved and resistant. But after seeing the truth of reality, know how to adapt and reconcile, and find a breakthrough to make yourself stronger.
So, even if she doesn't want to show her private life in front of the screen, there is no other way, because this is her chance to shake hands with real life.
For emotion, she accepted the lost marriage calmly.
A smart woman, even in a failed relationship, knows how to absorb nutrients that help her grow, and if she understands each other's difficulties more, she will let go of her resentment.
So that when you face new feelings in the future, you can travel lightly.
At present, Guo Keyu has "salvaged himself" and successfully landed ashore, a woman with experience and stories, interesting souls, and knows how to work hard, and deserves a better life.
In her, we see the tenacity of life, and the persistence and beauty that middle-aged women still strive for.
When people reach middle age, if they want to be a Guo Keyu-style woman, cultivate their hearts well, and be a woman with a rich soul.
I hope that all middle-aged women who are still struggling in troubled waters will wake up as soon as possible to "salvage themselves" and live as they like.
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Author: Wan Muzi, CCDM China Career Planner, BSC Senior Career Planner, American Shubo School Career Planner, more than 9 years of enterprise project management, registered international psychological counselor, more than 5 years of corporate training lecturer, platform contract author, second child mother.