The red dust is chaotic, and the human ethics are disordered - the guilt of Yulin shopping mall provokes public anger and causes conflicts
The breakdown of a marital relationship often triggers a series of chain reactions, hurting innocent people, leading to intensified family conflicts and constant disputes between relatives and friends. Recently, a case of guilt and anger in a shopping mall in Yulin, Shaanxi Province, once again showed the contradictions and ethical and moral crises of this social problem in front of the public. Let's break down the cause and process of this incident.
The course of the incident
On the afternoon of May 15, in a large shopping mall in Yulin City, there was a sudden commotion. It turned out to be a family of three, and his wife, Ms. Chen, her husband, Mr. Zhao, and a young woman had a heated argument and physical altercation in the mall.
The video from the scene shows that Ms. Chen's face was full of grief and indignation, shouting angrily, "Look, this is your little three!" Look at what she looks like!" At the same time, he grabbed the young woman's hair fiercely. Mr. Zhao was guarding the woman and tried to pull Ms. Chen's hand.
Ms. Chen choked up and complained: "We have had two children after 18 years, but you went out to find the mistress and gave her all the money!"
At this moment, Ms. Chen's younger brother also rushed to the scene, and seeing his sister's tragic appearance of betrayal, he angrily rushed forward, slapped Mr. Zhao in the face, and asked him, "Is my sister bad to you?" Why are you doing this to my sister!"
Then more relatives and friends also joined the conflict, surrounded Mr. Zhao, verbally and penually, and the scene got out of control for a while. In the end, the police arrived and brought the people involved at the scene back to the police station for investigation and processing.
Public opinion was in an uproar
The incident quickly sparked heated discussions online, with polarized comments.
Some netizens expressed condemnation and sympathy, believing that Mr. Zhao's actions were undoubtedly a betrayal and injury to his wife and children, that cheating was wrong, and that he transferred all the family's savings to his lover, from which it can be seen that he sincerely intended to abandon his wife and children and seek a third party. Some netizens called for severe punishment of such ruthless and unrighteous cheaters and third parties to protect the legitimate rights and interests of victims.
Some netizens also questioned whether Ms. Chen's younger brother's behavior was illegal, although it was for the purpose of protecting his sister, he would eventually be held legally responsible for beating others. Some netizens bluntly said that it was unhygienic, and no matter how much they hated, they should use a rational way to resolve the contradictions, rather than using force to hurt others.
The leakage of family conflicts highlights the crisis of marriage
It is undeniable that this incident reflects some deep-seated contradictions and problems in marriage and family relations in the current society.
First of all, Mr. Zhao is a husband, and his cheating affair is already immoral and undisciplined, and he is even more ashamed of his wife's infatuation. What he did not only desecrated the sanctity of marriage, but also harmed his children, which was outrageous.
Secondly, judging from Mr. Zhao's practice of helping his lover, it is obvious that he has long been tired and rebellious of married life and family, and is eager to get rid of the shackles of marriage and seek a new life style. It can be seen that he has long lost his sense of family responsibility and moral bottom line in his heart.
In addition, although Ms. Chen's younger brother injured others for the purpose of protecting his sister, from a legal point of view, he had indeed violated the relevant laws and regulations. This reflects that there are still certain deficiencies and deficiencies in laws and regulations in the current society in terms of safeguarding marriage and family, protecting women's rights and interests, etc., and the cost of rights protection is high, making it difficult to move an inch.