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Seeing the news of Guo Keyu's new drama, she is very emotional, she has gone from being a female number one to now not knowing how many women are numbered, she has been familiar with a divorce variety show from the original popular actress, I don't know if it is lucky or unfortunate?
Although she said that this was something she liked to do, no matter how female she was willing, how could there be no touch in her heart? Especially when there have been such brilliant achievements, it is not that you can put it down.
If she had been able to keep making her favorite movies and not giving up her career in her prime, maybe her achievements would be better than before.
But she chose to get married and have children when she was red, and retired for ten years, if it were not for "Goodbye Lover", no one would know who Guo Keyu was.
In this decade, presumably she also has a lot of grievances, but also some regrets and regrets, otherwise she would not be in the show, when she mentioned her career, she would not be able to help crying, although she said that she did not regret it, she still could not deceive herself in her heart.
After all, it was also a personal choice, just like she said, she still likes this kind of day of doing housework, raising flowers, reading books, and is also grateful to Zhang He for protecting her well.
But looking back now, I will also ask myself: "If I had chosen another path, what would it have been like?" "Unfortunately, there is no if in life, you can only go forward."
Guo Keyu's experience reminds women: at any time, do not easily give up their careers, this is very important!
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Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life" is also the same example, she was originally a high-talented student who graduated with Tang Jing, but she chose to marry after graduation, chose to believe in the person who would raise her for a lifetime, and Tang Jing chose to fight on her own.
Luo Zijun has never suffered from society, from the beginning, she is a noble wife who is well-bred, everything in the family has a nanny to do, the children are also taken by the way, her most important thing is shopping, beauty, and sisters afternoon tea.
She was also worried that Chen Junsheng would not love her one day, so she would always follow him, and make a big fuss if she was a little windy, afraid that her position would not be guaranteed.
But this is not a long-term solution, if a man will leave you, then sooner or later he will leave, even if you exhaust all kinds of methods, it is useless.
Chen Junsheng is the same, he chose a woman who is not as good as Luo Zijun, which makes Luo Zijun very puzzled, why would he abandon me and choose her?
After the rebirth of Luo Zijun, let us see the real look, it turns out that she can also bow her head for life, she can also rely on her true ability, win a career, which is much more popular than the past noble wife.
It was also at that time that Luo Zijun understood that at any time, he must have his own career, and if he was like Tang Jing and started working hard early, he could now become a figure like Tang Jing.
But it is better to understand late than not to understand, at least in the future, she knows to rely on herself, even if there is another man, she will no longer believe in the other party's "I raise you", she will not be a canary.
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Women always have to understand that men and marriage are never your safe haven, only yourself, and when you give up everything for men, you have to think about the consequences you may bear.
Instead of this, it is better not to give up your career from the beginning, even if you earn less, it is better than the days of palms up, and slowly you will find that your choice is correct.
Women with careers are the most beautiful, this is also your value, no matter what you go out to do, you will also be very confident to tell others that you are supporting yourself and do not rely on anyone.
When a man says, "I raise you," it may be true, but when he doesn't want to raise you, it's also true, isn't it a sad thing that you give the choice to the other person?
The correct way is that you can be moved by his "I raise you" and let you understand his sincerity, but you still have to be alert, not easily confused by his sweet words, and it will be better to stay awake at all times.
I hope you can understand from the beginning the importance of career to women, this is not to say that you want to be a strong woman, but you have to have your own value, you have to have your own circle, if one day he leaves you, you have nothing to fear!