Originally thought that this issue of "Goodbye Lover", is the finale, did not expect to wait for a period to know the result, but think about the result is not important, the important thing is this journey, like the guests in these eighteen days of harvest.
Many people are not optimistic about Guo Keyu's attitude in the love 36 questions, thinking that she is not sincere, obviously the other party is seriously answering the question, and she is just a hippie smile, do not know what she wants to do.
Some people even said that they hated her very much, because she couldn't let go of her ex, which would lead to this ending, and would not be willing to reunite with Zhang He, but who knows her grievances and pain in the past ten years, she chose not to say, but it does not mean that these do not exist.
What is shown in the show is only a one-sided life, even processed, and those experiences are unforgettable, those loneliness in the middle of the night, those moments of clenching teeth, experienced, disappointed, and do not want to continue.
"Goodbye Lover" Guo Keyu: People who really put it down from the bottom of their hearts will have such a performance.
First, it seems to be an improper joke
Many people will feel that Guo Keyu's attitude is sincere, obviously such a serious occasion, why use a laughing attitude? Even Zhang He said that he was angry and did not know how to converge.
I think that Guo Keyu is just using this smile to cover herself, maybe she has experienced countless moments in the past, she is too afraid of the embarrassment between the two people, so try to use a way to resolve.
This seemingly improper joke of hers actually shows that in her heart, she has really let go, whether it is Zhang He as a person or the marriage with him, it is already a thing of the past.
If you still care, you will be like Zhang He, as long as you recall the past, you will hold on to a point, and even start to complain, complaining to your ex-wife, complaining about life, and sometimes feeling very uninteresting.
As the guest teacher said, Guo Keyu has been moving forward, she is rediscovering her own world, while Zhang He is walking backwards and has been living in the past.
The real letting go is actually like Guo Keyu, who makes some jokes without seriousness, wants to answer some questions, does not want to answer the choice to skip, does not want to live in the past, and those questions about the past do not have much meaning.
Second, do not want to say bad things about the other party
Whether it was before or now, Guo Keyu has always been decent, she has always been gentle and gentle, even if the other party hurts her, she will not directly hit the other party, but silently bear all this.
In her relationship with Zhang He, many people only saw Zhang He's goodness, but forgot that she was not easy, if she had not experienced unforgettable hurt, she would not be so determined.
Love disappears little by little, and disappointment is also accumulated little by little, just like her desire to share in the past, after being rejected by the other party countless times, she does not want to say it again, preferring to hide it in her heart.
Even so, after the breakup, she was reluctant to say half a bad word about Zhang He, and even defended him everywhere, counting his thoughtful and caring moments, and counting the characteristics of him attracting himself.
I believe that those are her heart words, but more importantly, she has let go from the bottom of her heart, so she does not want to have resentment towards him anymore, it is better to get along with him in a friendly way, so that she can also raise children well, and she does not want to think about the rest.
Third, sincerely give each other blessings
People say that don't resent each other after a breakup, laugh and give each other blessings, but having said that, very few people can really do it, after all, those hurts are there, how can they get around?
But if she really lets go from the bottom of her heart, she will no longer think about the past graces and grievances, she will only think about the good in the past, and at the same time, as a friend, she will give some advice to the other party and give him sincere blessings.
Just like Guo Keyu was able to open his heart and chat with Zhang He once in the 36 questions, many people said that it was really good to see them communicate so well once, at least not so tired in their hearts.
Guo Keyu also sincerely put forward some suggestions, hoping that he could open his heart more in the future, rather than opening a little, and then waiting for others to explore, many may not have been explored by others, they have already given up.
In the end, you are still the father of the child, we are still friends, then, with the most sincere heart, give you the best wishes, I hope you are all right.
Think about it, Guo Keyu and Zhang He are not remarried is also very good, remarriage is equivalent to entering a dead cycle again, it is likely to walk around, the ending is still the same.
And now, if you want to fall in love, you can fall in love, and if you want to be yourself, you can be yourself, and there is nothing wrong with it, the key is that both people are no longer bound by the past.
Everyone's life is not easy, and do and cherish it, especially in the relationship, love well when you can love each other, don't resent each other when you are separated, remember the way you love each other, that is enough.