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"Goodbye Lover", marriage documentary observation reality show. Three couples facing a crisis of affection embark on an 18-day trip. Where do they go from different emotional stages?
Zhu Yaqiong Wang Qiuyu, Guo Keyu and Zhang He, Tong Chenjie and kk, I am familiar with the last pair. I think that although Tong Chenjie chose to "divorce" three times, she actually did not have the determination to really divorce.
It's not that you're not brave enough, or not yet to the point where you have to get a divorce. If kk is not an alcoholic, he is still fine in normal condition. But how can we quit this bad habit?
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In "Goodbye Lover", Tong Chenjie and Guo Keyu Zhu Yaqiong chatted. Inadvertently mentioning the mention of her ex-husband, Tong Chenjie said: kk is warmer than her ex-husband, how warm is it? "If it were me and my ex-husband, I wouldn't have touched him. I freeze to death and I won't touch him. You pulled him to this show too, and then try it again? You will find that kk is much better than him, a hundred times better. ”
Tong Chenjie and kk are about to divorce, or do you think he is better than her ex-husband? A hundred times better? This ex-husband is still the former international Footballer Xie Hui, who is familiar to everyone. This is called no harm without comparison, but such a result is unexpected.
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Of course, Tong Chenjie is not stepping on her ex-husband in order to praise the current one. This is her more real idea, probably for two reasons.
First, Tong Chenjie was very hurt in the last marriage and has not yet come out of the emotional shadow. In addition to being grumpy, he still complains and is dissatisfied with her ex-husband.
Second, Tong Chenjie still has certain thoughts about the current kk, hoping that he will really change one day. After all, alcoholism is not too heinous (except for domestic violence). If you quit, this still has nothing to do with character.
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Since she was so unhappy, why was Tong Chenjie still reluctant to give up? Hate tickles his teeth and thinks he's fine.
Quite simply, he's not the perfect couple. However, he is not too bad. After all, where in the world is there an ideal partner?
Liang Shiqiu said:
The real ideal partner is not easy to get, the good friend in the living room is not necessarily a good partner for travel, the ideal partner must have many conditions, not too dirty, such as Uncle Ji night "the head is often not washed on January 15th, not too itchy can not be mu", nor can there be cleanliness, everything must be used with fire wine, can not be like clay sculpture wood carving, such as dead fish do not open their mouths, can not chatter all day, all night snoring. You can't slip your head, you can't be stupid, you have to talk and laugh, there is movement and stillness, you can accompany you to see the clouds without a sound, listen to the night rain, and roll on the grass like a live fish when moving! Where to find such a partner?
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These conditions are completely impossible to meet. In other words, the ideal partner cannot exist. In other words, it is impossible to find. If that's the case, why bother?
As Tong Chenjie analyzed: "My previous marriage was more of a kind, 'formalism'. She and Xie Hui are known as the Chinese version of "Beckham and Victoria". That's a perfect example of stylistic combination, but it's far from it.
kk is not good enough, but Tong Chenjie is still satisfied: "kk is not a person with a particularly strong formalism, he is very careful and insightful, he will bring me a lot of warmth." ”
Gold has no feet, no one is perfect. She was interested in exactly what he had. As for the shortcomings, if you can ignore them, ignore them. Unless, of course, can't stand it.
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Perhaps, everyone in the world feels that Tong Chenjie should divorce in situ. However, she still wants to give kk a chance.
The so-called ideal partner is that he is like you hope: "There is an inner intertwined feeling, and the two of us are very close to each other." You will feel that this person is very intimate, and you will always want to hold him in your arms. ”
How much a woman should like each other, which will not mind such intimate actions.
To sum up: the real ideal partner can have many shortcomings, but the person you still love!
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