Writing this article, I feel like I will be beaten.
Because it involves some unseemly corners of human nature, such as instinct, such as jealousy, such as denigration, and even group violence.
Many times, we are just living in illusions, or in self-deceptive self-satisfaction.
Therefore, for the things that are commonplace or conventional to the public, in fact, few people will dare to risk the world's great disobedience and unveil their bottom cards in a daze.
After all, the bottom card, like bottom pants, is a person's last decency.
But if anyone insists on doing this outrage, he should be called a fighter with a critical realist spirit.
As long as it is a mother's, it is called a beautiful woman, are you sure you are not looking for a smoke?
Why?
You see today, it is a girl, all called "beauty", which is actually a strange thing. When this phenomenon became popular, there is no evidence. But it is far from the era when everyone called "comrade", "lady", and "miss".
"Far" here refers to the far away of the meaning level. The term "beauty" has been abused, and many scholars have called the danger a zero in the serious era and the rise of the fast food era. It seems to make sense.
You see, "comrade" is the most colorful title of the times, because it is a continuation of the revolutionary era, full of "like-minded" heart-to-heart feelings. The "lady" and "miss" are relative to the "miss" and "mrs" of the English-speaking world, which is the need for internationalization after the reform and opening up. Nowadays, even the bloated and sloppy aunt is directly called "beautiful" by the guy, and the embarrassment and ulterior motives in it are actually funny and angry.
I remember watching a video before, a fat and rude middle-aged woman in the checkout, the guy in the back urged: "Beauty, can you move sharper?" The eldest aunt turned back fiercely and covered her face with a split head: "Who is the beautiful woman you call?" Do you think I'm ugly and deliberately brush me off? Do you have eyes? ”
You see, sober people still exist. But the public still persevered and continued to call out beautiful women all over the street. When you encounter a sober-minded mushroom, aren't you looking for a smoke?
The fact is that the secret jealousy under the phenomenon of "beauty" has thus been made public.
So, here's the problem. Why is the public still tireless about the word "beauty"?
First, most users consider it to be psychedelic, the cheapest compliment to women. You think, not many people will refuse other people's compliments, especially in the country where the horse ass culture is more refined.
Second, a slap does not make a sound, there must be demand, there will be a steady supply. That is to say, mushroom coolers still love others to call themselves beautiful, very useful, so more people will try this sugar-coated cannonball.
Third, and more deeply, why do women like to be called beautiful? There is no way, there are too many stories about beautiful women in human civilization, and the richness is staggering.
As far as China is concerned, you see "Princes of Beacon Theatre", "Muji Sichen", "Huan Fei Yan Thin", "Sinking Fish and Falling Geese", "Closed Moon Shy Flowers", "Hanging Curtains and Listening to Politics", etc., many words with high exposure rate are related to beautiful women.
Beauty means power, money, privilege, superiority, etc., that is, having special dominance. It is precisely because of this "special" that women have a yearning in their bones. Therefore, the plastic surgery business is now rampant, and it is more or less to explore this secret female psychology.
Fourth, from the perspective of human nature, almost everyone has the stinger of jealousy hidden in their hearts, but people with low cognitive levels release it to bite people. People with a high level of cognition know how to rationally analyze and restrain it, lock it up deadly, or even kill it.
The title of beauty, in the case of women receiving everything according to the order, is actually conniving at the popularization and cheapness of the word "beauty" by the public. That is, when the real beauty appears, everyone can't think of a better word to call her. You see, beauty, in this way, was popularized, pulled off the altar.
After all, the development of civilization, rule of law, and morality has not allowed you to use violent methods to attack people and things that are truly superior to ordinary people's beauty.
So, now the real beauties are saying that they win with temperament.
Beauty is original sin? Your prejudice and jealousy should go to hell!
Before there was a friend, 211 undergraduate university graduates, good looks, super figure, and work in the retouching, everywhere is a landscape. The school is excellent in character and learning, but the graduation job search has encountered many setbacks.
Male interviewers are afraid to be enthusiastic about her, or their eyes flicker; female interviewers are displeased or overly enthusiastic. Even if the boss interviews himself, he will adjust the type of work to a public relations position such as secretary. Wait a minute. In the end, they were not hired. She couldn't figure it out.
I said, you try to make yourself ugly, make yourself miserable a little bit. In the end she was really hired.
See you again a few years later, she is already in the middle of the group company, but it seems that the promotion is far away. Ask me for my opinion, I said you only have one way, because you are born a civilian, then you can only find a husband who can protect you.
How sad!
The prejudice against beautiful women stems from the criticism of history, and the criticism of history stems from the dual male power perspective of male society, and also from the role of mediocre women as accomplices.
Regarding the accomplice characters, today, we will give just one example: the beautiful legend of Sicily.
Not a stranger, right? The reason why this film has won so many awards is also to explore the ugliness of human nature, to explore how beauty is gradually destroyed by mediocrity, by the public, by jealousy, by collective violence.
When Marlena was in court, the defense lawyer defended her, she was not guilty, it was all because: "She is so beautiful!" ”
Beauty is original sin.
Marlena's beauty, which attracts the attention of all men, also leads to all women hating her, because no one likes their men to always stare at other women, and they do not have the ability to analyze their own men's problems, so they can only push Marlena to the culprit of all responsibilities.
In Laura Murvie's analytical discourse, it is revealed that the female figure only acts as a visual motivation for constituting wonders and inducing desire to see. Women are only objects of double sight, double desire projection and viewing, so Marlena becomes an object of obscenity in the eyes of men, and in the eyes of women, she becomes an adulteress who seduces debauchery.
Therefore, under this thinking mechanism, as long as these women can find an opportunity to denigrate and abuse Marlena, there will be the possibility of mass violence.
You see, when the war was won, the women who were jealous of Marlena's beauty dragged Marlena out, tore her clothes, lost her hair, and beat her. However, Marlena had never done a single thing to infringe on them from beginning to end!
Beauty is not original sin, prejudice and jealousy are the instinctive forces that breed dark hatred!
We always evaluate beautiful people and excellent people when they encounter the disaster of innocence: the tree is a big trick.
And "the tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping", how abominable this wind is.
Therefore, there is a comment that is really well written, he said: The men and women in the film are like the wind that can't see the tree, and the tree sways in the wind, not because it is too ostentatious, but because of the jealousy of the wind!
Remembering the song "The World Is Difficult to Tolerate" sung in "Dream of the Red Chamber", there is a sentence: But I don't know that people who are too tall are more jealous, and they are the same as the world.
Unprovoked jealousy, ancient and modern, I don't know how many talents have been killed. Shen Kuo, who even wrote such a work as "Mengxi Pen Talk", could not tolerate his friend Su Shi being reused by the emperor of the dynasty, and a generation of literary heroes did not lose in the game with Wang Anshi to change the law, but because of his friend's jealousy and slander, he was burdened by the prison of words, and finally the bamboo stick and mango shoes were worn through the forest, and a smoke and rain were allowed to live.