The "Fu Lei Family Letter" let more people know the name Fu Lei, but in fact, at least 30% or 40% of Fu Lei's life's achievements are attributed to his wife Zhu Meifu. Her obsession with Fu Lei is beyond our imagination, and contemporary society is unlikely to find a second woman like her.
Zhu Meifu is 5 years younger than Fu Lei. On February 20, 1913, she was born in Nanhui County, Shanghai, where Zhu Meifu and Fu Lei were two young children. She was born beautiful, dignified and beautiful, knew that Fu Lei liked music, she learned to play the piano, and her ten fingers could play Beethoven's Symphony of Destiny smoothly. The two held a grand wedding ceremony at a hotel in Shanghai.
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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > obsessively waiting</h1>
But since the ancient talents have a lot of affection, before the two married, Fu Lei went to France to study, fell in love with the enthusiastic Madeleine and forgot that there was a fiancée waiting for him at home, he entrusted his friend Liu Haisu (the teacher of the famous painter Pan Yuliang) to send the letter of repentance to Zhu Meifu, but later, Fu Lei found that Madeleine was interacting with him at the same time as interacting with other men, and he could not stand the stimulation for a while, and he had some guilt about his cousin, and wanted to die to apologize. It was Liu Haisu who arrived in time and told him that the letter had not been delivered, which made Fu Lei painfully change his intention to spend the rest of his life with Zhu Meifu.
However, this incident did not allow him to change the problem of sentimentality in the future. Often, sometimes, the more deeply loved the person, the greater the hurt. But Zhu Meifu is definitely a person who can be hidden. She loved humblely, humble to the bone. For the sake of the beloved man, try to live as the beloved man likes. However, such an infatuated lover was betrayed by Fu Lei, and when she was three months pregnant, Fu Lei fell in love with the Yu opera actor Huang Li, but fortunately, after tangling with Huang Li for a long time, he decided to return to Zhu Meifu, who was pregnant.
Such an injury is somewhat unacceptable to an ordinary person, let alone a pregnant woman who is pregnant? She chose to accept her changed heart husband and give him the opportunity to reform himself.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > for love and forbearance</h1>
What pains Zhu Meifu the most is Fu Lei's love for Chengjia liu, love to the point of moving the idea of divorce, love so much that there is no motivation to translate when you can't see Chengjia liu, and love to the point of madness for her. However, Zhu Meifu is like a living bodhisattva, she did not choose divorce like other women, she chose to have a complete home for her children, but even more because she loved this man too much, she chose to be patient and tolerant, so that Fu Lei could create better and more at ease. She invited her lifelong enemy to the house to accompany her husband, but she silently left the room and cooked a meal for the two of them. It is her generosity, her tolerance, her selfless love for Lei beyond life, and in the end, let Cheng Jialiu choose to quit in this relationship.
Although he has received higher education, the traditional idea that the husband is the big man and the husband is his main heart and his own heaven is deeply rooted. It is also such a woman who explains to us what infatuation is. However, fortunately, later, as Fu Lei grew older, he also reflected on himself, feeling that he had many places in his life and feelings to be sorry for his wife, and later gave his wife the love and care that he had been stingy in the past. When Fu Cong was emotionally confused, he warned his son that "enthusiasm is a beautiful flower, beauty is beautiful, but it cannot last." "Very few lovers in the world can become happy, white-headed and old couples."
It is Zhu Meifu's dedication to love and the forbearance of love that has created Fu Lei's life, and behind every successful man stands a great woman who pays silently.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >you go, I'll go with you</h1>."
Zhu Meifu once said to Fu Lei: "In order not to leave you alone, when you leave, I must also go with you."
Martyrdom for love is definitely big news in contemporary society. However, at that time, Fu Lei and Zhu Meifu experienced so many ups and downs emotionally, and finally warmed up a lot. However, on the night of September 2, 1966, after two days and three nights of uninterrupted raids and humiliation by the Red Guards, the translator Fu Lei chose to commit suicide. Zhu Meifu, on the other hand, accompanied him to write a suicide note before he committed suicide, and after Fu Lei committed suicide, he helped Fu Lei sort out his appearance, and he also followed, in order to prevent the sound of kicking down the stool to wake up the neighbors, they also made a quilt on the ground, and when they died, they were also thinking about others.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > summary</h1>
Compared with contemporary women, there are few selfless women like Zhu Meifu, in the life of feelings, everyone is selfish, selfish enough not to want to share their men with any woman, no matter what the reason, they absolutely cannot tolerate the betrayal of others. However, Based on the understanding of Fu Lei's childhood experience, Zhu Meifu's perception of Fu Lei's temper and hobbies, the most crucial thing is selfless love, allowing him to tolerate people who are grumpy and have cheated twice. It is said that the maturity of a man's mind is relatively late, and Fu Lei's psychological maturity age is after forty years old, and Zhu Meifu is exactly the person who can accompany Fu Lei's growth, and her gentleness, generosity, understanding and tolerance also influence Fu Lei in the companionship of day after day.
Contemporary us can be as gentle and considerate as Zhu Meifu, but we absolutely cannot tolerate cheating. The change of ideas and concepts is one of the reasons why most contemporary women will choose divorce after encountering betrayal.