Xiao Jun's daughter is reviewing the college entrance examination
Cover news reporter Liao Xiu Xie Kai intern Li Xueting
On July 7, due to the impact of the new crown pneumonia epidemic, the college entrance examination was postponed in January compared with previous years. The long epidemic has left different marks on the families of the Wuhan college entrance examination. For Chen Yu (pseudonym), the wife of doctor Xiao Jun, it was a difficult road to accompany the exam.
On February 21, Wuhan Red Cross Hospital issued an obituary saying that Xiao Jun, a general surgeon at the hospital, was unfortunately infected with new crown pneumonia on the front line of the fight against the epidemic and died in Wuhan Jinyintan Hospital on February 8. On April 2, Xiao Jun was assessed as one of the first martyrs to die in the frontline of the prevention and control of the new crown pneumonia epidemic.
Before his death, Dr. Xiao was most worried about his daughter Lili (pseudonym), who was about to take the college entrance examination. During the treatment, he kept telling his daughter to study with peace of mind.
On July 6, the cover news reporter talked to Xiao Jun's wife Chen Yu, 150 days after her husband left, she accompanied her third-year high school daughter to spend this anxious and long preparation years together, and she and her daughter formed a tacit understanding - try not to mention her father. Here's her statement.
Xiao Jun, a doctor who died in wuhan during the new crown epidemic
Leaving the baby exam dad
Today is the last day to accompany my daughter to prepare for the college entrance examination, my husband has been gone for 150 days, and every time I think about it, my heart is still faintly painful.
At three o'clock in the afternoon, I accompanied my daughter to see the examination room. My daughter and her father are closer, we originally planned that on the day of the college entrance examination, he would pick up and drop off my daughter, and I would make food at home and accompany her to face important moments in life.
But when this happened, I was the only one who accompanied my child to the exam. I would always accompany her, take her to the exam room, then go home to get the lunch that my mother-in-law made for her, and then go to school to wait for her to finish the exam.
I often can't believe that my husband has really left us. He is a general surgeon at Wuhan Red Cross Hospital. After the outbreak of the new crown, he basically worked in the hospital and never returned home.
On January 18th, my husband felt weak, and the next day he began to have a fever, but he did not arouse alarm, thinking it was a cold. He had a lot of patients every day, and on the 20th he told me that he didn't have a fever, and that night he went home for a meal, caring about his daughter's review, encouraging her to keep a normal heart, and Daddy cheered you on.
On the 21st, he went to work a 24-hour shift, day shift and night shift. Because I was particularly busy, I neglected my physical health. On the 22nd, he was already suspected of new crown pneumonia at that time, their hospital ward was being renovated, there was no bed, he went home and isolated for a few days. On the 26th, the condition worsened, I said I still send you to the hospital, he said that the disease is highly contagious, afraid of infecting me and my daughter, I walked four kilometers to the hospital by myself.
On January 27, he was transferred to Wuhan Jinyintan Hospital for treatment. During that time, I would go to him every day to bring him some food and ask about his condition, but every time I went, I didn't stay for two minutes, and he let me go, saying that you wouldn't be infected. At that time, my daughter was preparing for the exam at home and wanted to see her father, but he didn't let her go, saying that he didn't want his daughter to worry, which would affect her review.
"Can't my dad be cured?"
The husband left too suddenly. On the evening of the 29th of February (February 7th), he was still chatting with me, saying what he had eaten today, and saying that there were lawyers here, and there were patients in the district hospital, and he would gradually recover. Unexpectedly, on the day of the Lantern Festival, he suddenly fell into a coma. On the night when she suddenly became critically ill, my daughter was still chatting with her father, saying that dad is at ease with treatment, and when the epidemic is over, we will eat delicious food.
The last time I saw him was to transfer him to Jinyintan Hospital. At that time, seeing that his mental state was OK, and when they were separated, they simply said goodbye, and he comforted me and said that he would wait for him to return. Unexpectedly, this time we met, it was a farewell.
On the evening of January 30th, I was notified by the intensive care unit to sign for rescue, I knew that the situation was not good, and as soon as I arrived at Jinyintan Hospital, I could not bear it and fainted. Later, I heard others tell me that when my daughter stood next to me and cried hard, she cried loudly to the south building of the gold and silver pond, and my father cheered.
During the treatment, my daughter will check the new crown pneumonia information on the Internet every day, and after checking, she will show me, she said that her father's disease can definitely be cured, there are so many cures, is my father not cured?
She will receive her father's WeChat every day, and without saying much, she will study with peace of mind. I asked my daughter to send him less WeChat, saying that it was inconvenient for the injection to return, so that he could be at ease with treatment.
But until his death, his daughter never saw him.
"I don't want Dad to be a martyr, I want Dad to come back"
When my husband left, he only had a mobile phone, a family key, a hospital key, a medical insurance card, and 15 yuan.
He left us suddenly like this, which was so hard to accept, and it was a particularly serious blow to our mothers and daughters. In February and March, my daughter was in a bad mood, sad to see his shoes, clothes, and bag, and crying with his cell phone.
When we ate together, we tried not to mention her father, and if we did, we would definitely not be able to eat.
On April 2, 14 frontline victims of covid-19 prevention and control in Hubei were assessed as the first batch of martyrs, including my husband. When my daughter saw the news, she cried at home, and she said I don't want my father to be a martyr, I want my father to come back. At that time, I advised her that now her father can't come back, and the state's evaluation of martyrs to give you father is the highest honor, and you must be proud of your father.
On Father's Day, the daughter saw others sending dads in the circle of friends, and then thought that her father was gone, and she cried at home again. I said, you have to review well, the college entrance examination is about to take, you can't cry, Dad most hopes that you study hard and get the ideal results, that is, to complete Dad's wish.
In fact, my daughter is stronger than me, she comforts me more, she sometimes looks at me in a bad mood, and she will say, Mom, what is wrong with you? Then comfort me. But I try not to show it in front of her, I just hope that she can study with peace of mind, create a good environment for her, I will control my emotions, still show a very happy look in front of her, don't let her see me so sad.
Now, my daughter's mood is slightly better, but every time she is silent, in fact, I know that she is still thinking about her father.
Cover news reporter connected Xiao Jun's wife
"Missing My Father"
My husband is the head of the family, after we got married, life has been very sweet, after dinner, we will go to the East Lake River Beach for a walk, there are good TV dramas, he will pull me to watch together.
In the past, he was responsible for the big and small things in the family, water and electricity bills, gas bills. After he left, now everything has to be faced by myself, and I feel that there is no dependence.
He had a particularly good relationship with his daughter and was a responsible dad. He has been a doctor for 29 years and finds the profession particularly hard and doesn't have any holidays. Therefore, he hoped that his daughter would become a teacher in the future and have winter and summer vacations.
Although the departure of the father makes the daughter very sad, she has been reviewing according to the plan. She was a self-disciplined child. On her desk, small "Daily Plan" labels were densely packed with things to do in a day.
Every morning at 6:30, I called her to get up for class and go to bed at night until 12:30. They were also at home on weekends and didn't go anywhere else to play.
The child's personality has become silent in the past few months, his words have become less, and there is no smile on his face. Usually at dinner, I will chat with her, she said that her goal is Central China Normal University, and she wants to study teacher training majors. I always told her that as long as you try your best, it doesn't matter if you take the test or not. I knew that she might want to fulfill her father's wishes.
Dr. Shaw's departure has had some effect on her grades. Previously she was in the top ten in her class, and her grades dropped significantly in february and May for diagnostic exams. The teachers of all subjects in the school are very kind to their daughters, the class teacher often calls to care and comfort her, the political teacher chats with her qq, and the history teacher tells her to make her stronger.
This year, in addition to the important node of my daughter's college entrance examination, it is also the 20th anniversary of my marriage with Dr. Xiao. In the past, when Dr. Xiao was there, our family planned to travel to Yunnan after the college entrance examination. But now that he's gone, there's just the two of us left, and I don't know anything, and when he was there before, it was all arranged by him. The child also said she didn't want to go out, she said that now that Dad is gone, where are the two of us going? It's not fun to go anywhere.
A few days ago, I saw an article called "Remembering My Father" in my daughter's computer, which was very long. But she didn't let me see it, and she said that when the college entrance examination was over, she would let me see it again.
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