"I think, from the lover and the couple to finding him like my child, that's it, we live under the same roof, we barely talk anymore, I know I can't stay anymore." 」
This was Li Lie's heartfelt words when he left Luo Dayou.
All a woman wants is a shoulder to lean on, and if he can't give it, then what's the point of the existence of this home?
For Li Lie, in the years she was with Luo Dayou, she gave almost everything. After the two divorced, she went from being penniless to the current strong woman, and there were endless heartaches and tears along the way.
She never asked him for anything, he was full of joy for himself, and he didn't care.
So in life, are the points between couples so clear? Especially in terms of substances?
As early as when Luo Dayou and Li Lie were 20 years old, they met. It's just that the relationship between lovers has never developed.
They met again 10 years later, both of whom had been injured.
Li Lie was Luo Dayou's third woman, and Li Lie at that time also had a failed marriage.
They meet in a vast sea of people, and under the impetus of emotion, the two people turn from friends to lovers.
However, their career differences are still quite large, Luo Dayou ushered in the peak of his career, and Li Lie's career was in a trough state.
Deep down she needs a relationship, and she also needs to be loved.
Although Li Lie's development is not as good as Luo Dayou's, she is also capable of supporting herself. Worked with friends in a factory, the clothing business has been doing for a long time.
They are the best in their respective fields, and during the time of love, they rarely see each other, but the relationship is still maintained.
As a woman, she has suffered a lot for her career, and Luo Dayou has also advised her many times:
"My current career is enough to feed us, you don't have to be so tired, isn't it good to stay by my side?"
"I have already started this road, I can't give up, take advantage of my youth and let me fight again."
In desperation, they still understood each other's hearts and thoughts.
In Luo Dayou's eyes, it is natural for men to earn money to support their families, while women are responsible for taking care of housework at home.
The mind says so, but is that really the case?
After 6 years, Li Lie's career failed, so she returned to Luo Dayou's side, just to find a way to rely on herself.
They began to live together, and finally ended their long-distance relationship, and they were happy inside each other.
Li Lie lived in Luo Dayou's garden house with nothing.
Perhaps they also yearn for a simple and beautiful married life, especially after Li Lie experienced the first failed relationship, she longed for this feeling even more.
Fantasies are very beautiful, how many couples, hope that each other can be as beautiful as they just met, but there is always no going back...
After living together, almost all of them luo Dayou ran around the world to earn money to support their families.
And Li Lie is at home, idle waiting for her boyfriend to come home, maybe there is still some difference between before marriage and after marriage, although it is the same when they live together.
In this life, Li Lie has always felt that he is not looking for someone to take care of her, but he has to accommodate him everywhere.
In addition, you have to take care of his diet and living, maybe this is the life that people who make more money should enjoy.
At first, their relationship was still very good, but as time went on, Li Lie discovered another side of Luo Dayou.
As a talented Luo Dayou, he has his own preferences, like obsessed with aquariums, the family place is also large, he raised a lot of fish, which makes Li Lie a headache.
Because I have to take care of him not only, but also these fish...
She found that her boyfriend's interest was temporary, and he didn't deal with it, and the rest was left to herself.
In addition, Luo Dayou also listens to music when he is resting. Perhaps, this is a unique "hobby" of musical talents, and from time to time, the sound will be turned to the maximum.
This made Li Lie's sleep worse, and only when Luo Dayou was away, her sleep would get better.
Such a cohabitation life made Li Lie's heart think that this man was not the life she wanted. She had been entangled for a long time, and she had had enough of this life, and she had planned to have a showdown with Luo Dayou.
But it was such a coincidence that Luo Dayou's father died, and she saw that he was so uncomfortable, so she buried these words in her heart.
A woman's soft heart is sometimes destined to add a lot of pressure to this feeling.
When Luo Dayou was sad, he decided to give Li Lie a home, because he did not want to see his relatives around him leave again.
And Li Lie also agreed, they were like two happy children, went to get the license, looked at the marriage certificate and smiled silly.
This 12-year relationship finally has a result.
Luo Dayou did not feel how humiliating his wife was that she did not make money. Because in his subconscious, he could afford to raise her.
So in all these years together, only Luo Dayou bought her a gift, and at other times she never asked him for it.
This feeling may have meant that it was unequal from the moment Li Lie lived in Luo Dayou's home.
From marriage to divorce, but in a year's time, they went to the point of divorce.
When Li Lie moved out of that home, he walked into Luo Dayou's home, penniless.
After the divorce, she didn't have a house, so she borrowed money from a friend and reluctantly found a home for herself.
Before the age of 30, she was always living for others, but the marriage failed twice, which made her wake up. The rest of your life is to live for yourself, and when you love yourself, others can love you well.
After leaving Luo Dayou, Li Lie could not say that he had done a good job in his career, but at least it was much better than the life of ordinary people.
Such a life is also satisfied, and how much a person earns and how much to spend is also quite fragrant.
At the wrong time, it may be a pity to meet the right person. And this regret will always teach you some truth at some point, right?
Once, one of them would not take, and one would live as he pleased.
Until now, Li Lie has become a strong woman, and she does not want to look for it again in this life, because a person lives very freely, except for being lonely at night, everything else must be more comfortable.
Later, Luo Dayou chose a girlfriend outside the circle, got married and had a daughter, and also made Luo Dayou change a lot.
When they look back at the past experience, they will laugh and say to each other: "How can we be so stupid?" ”
One is two wide, and each is safe, which is the greatest happiness.
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