"Laughing and crying, Fang Zhen is difficult to be a person", this is written by Princess Lechang, sitting on a table with two husbands, the scene looks very awkward, the princess said that the mood can be understood. When the State of Chen was destroyed, Xu Deyan and Princess Lechang were separated due to war, and the princess became Yang Su's concubine. Because of the generosity of Yang Su, the duke of Yueguo, the husband and wife met again, which is a good story.
In daily life, there are still many such embarrassing situations, and more test people's resilience. Especially when facing one's own enemies, one's own life is at stake. During the Three Kingdoms period, Cao Cao killed Yang Xiu, and one day met Yang Xiu's father and asked why he was so thin. I didn't expect the other party to respond to a classic sentence, what exactly did I say?
During the Three Kingdoms period, there were mainly three warlords in the world, and the north was administered by Cao Cao. He has a large number of capable people under him, who are indeed very capable of their own, some of whom are talented, and some of whom are highly skilled in martial arts. In short, each has its own talents, and with the help of these people's efforts, Cao Cao has finally achieved a great cause.
At this time, the problem he had to face, in addition to competing with Liu Bei and Sun Quan for territory, there was also the problem of heirs. Among the many sons, Cao Cao admired the two men. One is the eldest son Cao Pi, and the other is Cao Zhi. Both people have their own advantages, and they have their own people under their hands.
Cao Zhi had a strategist, Yang Xiu, who had always wanted to put him on the throne. This family is the famous Hongnong Yang clan, whose ancestors are all high-ranking officials. It was also his "capital" that entered the career, his father was named Yang Biao, his talent was very good, during the reign of the Han Ling Emperor, he was already ranked as the Ninth Qing, and in 189 he was ranked as one of the three dukes, although the middle official field had ups and downs, but he had a lot of influence in the imperial court.
When Cao Cao "blackmailed the Son of Heaven to order the princes" and took Emperor Xian of Han to Xu Du, Yang Biao was unwilling. The two take on a vendetta, and Cao wants to get rid of him, deliberately making accusations against him. There were too many people to protect him, because they were afraid of offending all the clans in the world, so they could only release him.
Yang Xiu was born in such a family, his career was smooth, thanks to the family environment, he received a good education from an early age, and was quite famous at that time. After entering the career, he was worried that the master book of Cao Cao, the prime minister, was once very much used. This talent has studied well, but his political ability is not strong, and he does not understand the struggle in the official field, so he has come to a "dead end."
For the sake of his own rule, Cao Cao promoted many hanmen nobles. Some of these people are very capable, so they are reused.
It is inevitable to touch the interests of some children of the family and cause them to be dissatisfied. There are many people who know how to protect themselves and get along with those people safely, but Yang Xiu does not understand this, and there is a contradiction with Cao Cao. The real reason for the killing was excessive participation in the struggle to seize the wife.
At first, Cao Cao hesitated about who to appoint as his heir. At the beginning, he wanted to make Cao Zhi the crown prince, and he was very talented. Yang Xiu happened to be the think tank of Cao Zhi's faction, and he had a lot of ideas in the middle, and he almost succeeded at one point. However, politics is cruel, not a wind and snow, and after all kinds of considerations, Cao Pi was finally chosen as the heir.
If he encountered such a thing, Yang Xiu should hide away, but he did not know how to restrain at all, and continued to maintain close contact with Cao Zhi. The flashpoint of the conflict occurred in 219, when Cao Cao and Liu Bei were vying for the land of Hanzhong. At the beginning, the battle situation was very unfavorable to him, which made Cao very anxious and inadvertently said "chicken ribs". Yang Xiu was in the barracks, heard chicken ribs, and ordered people to prepare their luggage. Tell others that Cao Cao is going to retire, so he finds the disaster of killing himself.
After his son was killed, Yang Xiu's father, Yang Biao, was very sad in his heart, but Cao Cao had great power in his hands, so he dared to be angry and did not dare to speak. In order to appease the old man, Cao Cao and his wife also wrote to him to explain. At this point, Yang Biao had no choice but to accept the result and put his resentment in his heart. Cao Cao has also been uneasy, and usually intends to test.
The white-haired people send the black-haired people, Yang Biao is such a son, and the mood can be imagined how hurtful it is. Soon people lost weight, and one day Cao Cao saw Yang Biao and asked Yang Gong why he was so emaciated? People directly said a sentence, "Shame on the foresight of the sun, and cherish the love of the old cow lick."
In this sentence, Jin Ilju was a minister during the han wudi period, who was dissatisfied with the child's misconduct and killed him in a fit of rage. This man was originally a Xiongnu prince, who lost the battle and was captured to the Han Dynasty to raise horses. Once Emperor Wu of Han went to ShanglinYuan to see the horses, and everyone else rushed forward to watch, only Jin Il-ri did not squint.
This made Emperor Wu of Han, very interested in this young man, promote him to the rank of horse supervisor. After that, under the promotion of Emperor Wu of Han, his official position was continuously improved and he became a major minister of the imperial court. The chancellor also had an opinion on this, but the emperor never cared about other people's opinions and continued to reuse this person, simply believing in his loyalty.
One of the most criticized points of Kim Il-seok is that the story of his killing of his son has always been discussed by posterity. He had two sons, and because of his fatherly relationship, Emperor Wu of Han was very fond of him. The younger son was young and ignorant, and sometimes for Emperor Wu of Han, it was inevitable that there were some unruly rules. This made Kim Il-seo very angry and reprimanded him many times.
When the children grow up, they continue to do some wrong things, which makes Kim Il-seo even more angry. In a fit of rage, he directly killed his eldest son, so as not to bring misfortune. As for the second half of what he said, he cherished the love of the old cow licking calves and emphasized his love for his son, just like the old cow licking the calf.
His son was not distressed to be killed, but he was powerless to offend Cao Cao. You can only use these words to euphemistically express your heartache for your child's feelings. After Cao Cao heard this, he felt ashamed and ashamed in his heart, and let an old father lose his son. This phrase was later widely circulated, and the old calf became a classic word.
Yang Biao was definitely dissatisfied with Cao Cao's killing of his son, considering the situation at that time, what could he say? After all, Cao's power is so great, this kind of thing is very common in the political arena. In the political arena, he has made so many "mistakes" that he has ended up in this fate, and he can only be said to have made up his own mind. This is political cruelty, so he can only use Kim Il-seok to comfort himself and express his sadness.
Yang Biao used this sentence to intimidate people, it seems that there is a complaint against Cao Cao, and he should also reflect on the failure of his own education. If we analyze it carefully, the real cause of Yang Xiu's death is that he himself is too arrogant and arrogant, and does not know how to restrain. This also reminds us that parents for their children's education, in addition to teaching them knowledge, but also pay attention to their human and sophisticated education, in order to make them go farther and farther in the workplace.
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