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Stills from Chen Daoming's "Flowing Golden Years"
In January 2021, the 38-episode urban emotional drama "Flowing Golden Years" ended perfectly on CCTV's eight sets. Chen Daoming, a famous performance artist, plays the male protagonist "Ye Jinyan" in the play, and his amazing acting skills are impressive.
Chen Daoming has a good reputation in the showbiz circle. What is less known is that Chen Daoming is a great filial piety in life, and his little filial piety is warm and tear-inducing...
Chen Daoming was born in Tianjin in 1955, his father Chen Leiguang was a high-achieving student at Yenching University, and before liberation, he worked as an interpreter for the Tianjin American Relief Administration. After the founding of New China, Chen Leiguang was arranged to teach English at Tianjin Medical University.
Chen Daoming's mother was the director of the neighborhood committee before retiring. Chen Daoming has 7 older brothers and sisters, and he is the youngest in the family.
Chen Daoming as a student (left)
After graduating from Tianjin No. 12 Middle School, Chen Daoming, who liked calligraphy and painting since childhood, applied for the dance art class of Tianjin Renyi. The teacher in charge of the main examination saw that he was handsome and suggested that he apply for the actor class. As a result, Chen Daoming became an actor in Tianjin Renyi at the age of 17.
Because of his young age, he ran the dragon set in the regiment for 7 years.
At that time, the director of Tianjin Renyi was called Fang Shen, who also served as the director of Tianjin Film Studio, and he was Du Xian's uncle. Fang Shen's wife, Ding Xiaoping, is also an actor in Tianjin Renyi.
In his later years, Fang Shen
Once Du Xian came to Tianjin Renyi to visit his uncle and aunt, and fell in love with Chen Daoming at first sight.
In 1979, Chen Daoming left Tianjin Renyi and was admitted to the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama. After graduating from university, he was assigned to the Chinese Television Drama Production Center as an actor.
At this time, Du Xian also graduated from the Beijing Broadcasting Institute and worked as an announcer on CCTV. In 1982, the two started a family in Beijing.
In 1985, Du Xian's due date arrived, and Chen Daoming accompanied his wife back to Tianjin to give birth. The couple's daughter is named Chen Ge.
Young Du Xian
Chen Daoming was born in a large family, his parents' house is very narrow, and the family will have the best lighting conditions in the house for Chen Daoming's family of three. The mother-in-law carefully took care of Du Xian's confinement, and Du Xian's mood after childbirth was always very stable.
Chen Daoming and his wife were very busy at work, so they entrusted their daughter to the care of their parents. Every month, Chen Leiguang and his wife will send their granddaughter to Beijing to reunite Chen Ge with her parents.
At that time, Chen Daoming and Du Xian lived in the tube building of the unit, only about 10 square meters, and the toilets and kitchens were all public, and the conditions were very difficult. Therefore, Chen Leiguang and his wife could not live in their son's house and always returned to Tianjin on the same day. On Sunday afternoon they rushed to Beijing to take their granddaughter back.
From the 80s to the early 1990s, Chen Daoming began to become popular nationwide for starring in film and television dramas such as "Siege of the City", "The Last Emperor", and "Beiyang Marine Division".
Stills from Chen Daoming's "Siege of the City"
At that time, filming film and television dramas was his own job, there was no remuneration, and Chen Daoming's economic conditions were no different from those of ordinary wage earners. His parents took care of his daughter for Chen Daoming until he was 6 years old, and then he took Chen Ge back to Beijing to attend primary school.
During this period, Chen Daoming paid for his daughter's living expenses, and Chen Leiguang and his wife always returned to their sons, daughters-in-law and granddaughter in various ways, which made Chen Daoming particularly guilty.
In 1997, Chen Leiguang unfortunately died of illness at the age of 65. When his father left, Chen Daoming knew his mother's inner pain and sadness and prepared to take her to Beijing.
He called a meeting of his brothers and sisters: "Over the years, I have not fulfilled my filial piety around my father, leaving irreparable regrets. Now I take my mother to Beijing, and I bear all her expenses alone. In the future, if you miss your mother, just go to Beijing to see. ”
Mr. and Mrs. Chen Daoming with their daughter
The tube building could not be lived, Chen Daoming gave the house to his mother to live, and his family of three temporarily lived in his mother-in-law's house.
In order to give his mother a home in Beijing, Chen Daoming worked hard to make money by filming. In 1997, Chen Daoming bought two three-bedroom apartments on the same floor in the North Third Ring Road, one for his own living and one for his mother to live. In this way, brothers and sisters come to reunite, and they all have guest rooms.
After my mother came to Beijing, she was never separated from Chen Daoming again.
Worried about the difficulty of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Chen Daoming said to Du Xian: "My mother raised 8 children and suffered a lot, I hope you can also respect her and treat her kindly." People love to nag when they are old, and if she says something that is not good, don't you pay attention to it. ”
Du Xian replied: "Everyone has parents, everyone wants to be old, the old man's nagging is the love for the younger generation, I don't care." Besides, my tutor didn't allow me to snub the elderly. ”
Du Xian
Du Xian's father, Du Qinghua, was a professor at Tsinghua University, and his mother was also an intellectual, and Du Xian received a good tutor from an early age.
As long as she is at home, she will call her mother-in-law to come to dinner every day, and do not let her mother-in-law brush the pots and wash the dishes. The mother-in-law was sometimes upset and complained a little, and Du Xian always smiled and warmed her heart.
Chen Daoming was very touched by his wife's treatment of his mother in this way. He sincerely said to Du Xian, "You treat my mother so intimately, even I can't do it." ”
Du Xian is good to his mother-in-law, and Chen Daoming is better to his parents-in-law. In fact, a wise wife will be kind to her in-laws, because to treat her in-laws well is to be kind to her parents.
Chen Daoming
Chen Daoming's older brother and sister came to Beijing to see his mother, and the old man always said that Du Xian was good, so Chen Daoming's family respected Du Xian very much. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are together almost every day, but they have never had a red face.
The North Third Ring Road is the main artery of Beijing, with traffic coming and going day and night, bustling and noisy. In addition, the beijing-Tibet expressway has been newly opened near the community, and the noise is very strong. As she grew older, Chen Daoming's mother was so noisy that she couldn't sleep and suffered from insomnia.
Due to lack of sleep, the old lady has a bad appearance, her mood is more irritable, and even her nervous breakdown occurs.
In order to get his mother out of noise pollution, in 2004, Chen Daoming bought a villa near the airport highway. The environment here is quiet and elegant, the greening rate is very high, the mother finally no longer insomnia, the whole person's state has returned to the past.
Chen Daoming and his mother
In 2012, her mother developed diabetes and high blood pressure, and Chen Daoming often took her to the hospital. The old man understood his son's hardships and asked to return to Tianjin to live.
Chen Daoming's older brothers and sisters are all old, some with grandchildren, some looking after grandchildren, and not much energy to take care of their mothers. Chen Daoming said to his mother: "I am young and energetic, my time is relatively free, and my economic conditions are better than those of my brothers and sisters. ”
Chen Daoming often helped his mother measure blood sugar and blood pressure, bought medicine for her, and regularly took her to the hospital for physical examination.
Under the nourishment of his filial piety, his mother's hypertension and diabetes are within the controllable range.
Chen Daoming and his calligraphy
In 2015, Chen Daoming was 60 years old, and his mother was nearly 90 years old. Time left himself less and less time with his mother, and from then on, Chen Daoming only took one play a year, and most of the time he spent at home with his mother.
In order to help his mother prevent Alzheimer's disease, Chen Daoming taught her mother to practice brush writing, teaching her to play the piano and accordion. He also bought back checkers and played chess at home with his mother.
Therefore, although the old lady is old, she is deaf and blind, thinks clearly, speaks clearly, and looks much younger than her actual age.
Du Xian with his daughter, son-in-law and grandson
In 2017, Chen Daoming's daughter Chen Ge got married and gave birth to a son and a daughter. Chen Daoming was promoted to grandfather and was very happy.
My mother said to Chen Daoming: "You are also more than 60 years old, with the third generation, don't spend too much thought on me in the future, take more care of the younger generation." ”
Chen Daoming emotionally told his mother: "As long as you are alive, even if I am 80 years old, I will be a filial piety." I am getting older day by day, but my feelings for you will not fade. In my mind, daughters and third generations are important, and so are old mothers. ”
The old lady has seen some people around her, and when they are older, their feelings for their parents are much lighter, and they mainly focus on the younger generations. Therefore, many eighty- and ninety-year-olds are very disappointed.
Chen Daoming's filial piety confession made his mother burst into tears.
Every spring festival, Chen Daoming invites his brothers, sisters and family to Beijing, and dozens of people accompany their mothers for the New Year. The five generations were in the same room, which made the old lady particularly pleased, and she smiled and closed her mouth.
In 2021, Chen Daoming will be 66 years old and his mother will be over 90 years old. Chen Daoming rarely takes over plays, does not participate in social activities, usually accompanies his mother at home, and prepares to accompany the elderly to welcome the centenarian birthday!
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