How long does a love have a shelf life? Probably no one can say.
But in love, I have never seen the new person laughing, and I have never heard the old person cry.
No matter how much they once loved each other, they could not escape the destruction of time and new love.
As Karen Mok sang in the song "He Doesn't Love Me":
I saw his heart
It's all about his and her movies
He doesn't love me though
He still won my heart
The best years, in exchange for the best results, but not the best results.
Some people have sunk because of this, and some people have turned around rationally like mo wenwei sang in the song.
In fact, it is not only modern women who make this wise choice, but also women in ancient times.
Willow leaves and eyebrows are not drawn for a long time, and the makeup and tears are wet and red.
Nagato has no grooming, so why should pearls comfort loneliness.
Princess Mei, the author of this poem "Thanksgiving Pearls", was a woman who was favored by Emperor Xuanzong of Tang before Yang Guifei.
This poem is also a masterpiece of her rejection of Tang Xuanzong after falling out of favor.
In her story, there is a hidden truth of love that you must not know.
Princess Mei, in her heart, has never forgotten her real name Jiang Caiping.
At the age of 15, Jiang Caiping, smiling and smiling, was selected by Colliers for her beauty and talent and brought into the palace.
At the age of nine, he recited the Book of Poetry, and at the age of fourteen, he wrote poems and wrote poems, comparing himself to Xie Daoyun, a talented daughter of the Jin Dynasty.
Musical instruments, calligraphy and painting, singing and dancing, chess playing, all proficient.
She likes to wear plain clothes, does not love luxury, and walks on the snow style, and the palace is stunning.
One day, she waved "Amazing Dance".
It's like a dragon. Ling Bo micro-steps, Luo Socks dust.
After the dance, Xuanzong asked her what reward she wanted, and she smiled lightly, only willing to fold a plum branch of Ling Han.
Emperor Xuanzong laughed and called her "Mei Jing" and named her Princess Mei.
Ordered people to plant plum blossoms all around her residence, just to win a smile from the beauties.
On another cold winter day, the plums in the palace opened into a forest, and Tang Xuanzong deliberately stepped on the snow with her to admire the plums.
She took a few steps, smiled lightly, and took a bite out of her mouth:
A branch of shadow pigment, alone against severe frost and cold.
Morning and evening incense, incense drifting for ten miles.
When Emperor Xuanzong heard this, he was full of praise, and after that, his grace was gushing endlessly.
It can be said that before there was no Yang Guifei, Princess Mei was also "a collection of three thousand pets in one".
However, Princess Mei, who is immersed in her own world, has a fatal weakness, that is, the mistake that all women who are trapped in love will make:
When we are young, we always think that as long as we are sincere, we can occupy a person's heart forever.
In fact, this is a big mistake.
Just like Zhuo Wenjun, when he received Sima Xiangru's thirteen-character concubine letter, his hands trembled;
Just like Zhen Huan, when she knew that she was only a stand-in for Empress Chunyuan, she wept desperately at that moment;
Just like Princess May, everything she will face next...
The truth is that some men forget the vows they made and ignore their lovers after years of love or marriage.
As emperor, Tang Xuanzong was even more so.
In the fourth year of Tianbao, Tang Xuanzong officially appointed the younger and more beautiful Yang Yuhuan as a noble concubine.
Looking back at a smile, the six palaces are colorless.
Chenghuan waiters have no leisure time, and spring is from the spring to the night of the night.
Yang Guifei transformed herself into the most favored woman around the emperor.
In the palace where human feelings are like paper, Princess Mei's life can be imagined.
Princess Mei, who was deprived of her favor by Yang Yuhuan, wandered in front of the Cold Palace every day, watching the candles of the Huaqing Palace flickering, and smelling the bamboo sleeplessly.
Once, tang Xuanzong took advantage of Yang Guifei's absence and suddenly remembered Concubine Mei and invited her to the Cuihua West Pavilion to reminisce.
Unexpectedly, this matter was known to Yang Guifei, and she directly broke into Xingshi to ask for guilt.
Princess Mei faced the flying Yang Guifei and could only quietly leave with tears in her eyes.
Xuanzong suddenly felt that his face was dull, and he felt that he and Concubine Mei were secretly in love.
In a fit of rage, Emperor Xuanzong drove Yang Guifei home, but quickly took her back and repaired the old ones.
Since then, Tang Xuanzong has never looked for Concubine Mei again, and Princess Mei's heart has gradually gone from sadness and despair to gradually letting go.
Once gracious love, the sea oath mountain alliance is nothing more than a joke of fate.
In fact, she did not think about saving.
She once wrote a poem "Lou Dongfu" with deep affection, hoping to awaken the old feelings of the past, but she did not wait for Xuanzong's change of heart.
Jade Jian dust life, Phoenix incense death.
The clever comb of the lazy cicada sideburns, the light edge of the idle clothes.
Bitter and lonely in the Hui Palace, but suspicious of the Lan Palace.
The plum blossoms that fall from the letter are not seen across nagato.
The situation is that the flower is disgusted, and the willow eyes are worried.
Warm breeze, spring birds chirping.
Upstairs at dusk, listening to the wind and looking back;
The blue clouds are twilight, and they stare at the moon.
The hot springs are not available, reminiscing about the old tour of Cuicui;
Nagato is deeply closed, and the letter of the green bird is repaired.
The memory of the past is too liquid clear waves, the water is floating,
Sheng song appreciates yan, accompanies Chenxi.
Play the wonderful song of the dancing bird and ride on the fairy boat of the painted crane.
The monarch is tight and deep.
The oath of the mountains and the sea is always there, like the sun and the moon without end.
He was jealous of the mediocre and jealous.
Rob me of my love and rebuke me for being in the palace.
Thinking of the old and happy, thinking of dreams is hazy.
Spend the flowers and the moon and the sunset, shy and lazy to the spring wind.
If you want to play like this, you can't work in the world.
The mournful groan is not exhausted, and the bell has been ringing.
The air sighed and covered his arms, and hesitated to walk to the east of the building.
She began to wake up from reality.
Later, in order to express his inner apologies, Tang Xuanzong ordered someone to send a pearl to Concubine Mei.
Princess Mei looked at her haggard self in the mirror, smiled miserably, picked up a pen and paper, and wrote a poem "Thank You for Pearls":
At this time, Princess Mei had seen through the emperor's ruthlessness and had become a stubborn woman.
How can a precious pearl comfort a wounded and broken heart?
Instead of loving pale, let yourself go.
The past is not necessary to mention the right and wrong of the past.
Seeing this, the poet Jun remembered the stubborn Ruyi in "The Legend of Ruyi".
The former young man Lang gradually drifted away and no longer had the pure love of that year, so Ruyi broke off this feeling.
When the two met in the cloister, she stubbornly did not look at him.
You have failed me, and I no longer love you, this is my stubbornness.
"It turns out that young people have a deep affection, and they can also go to each other and look at each other. The feelings of ancient and modern times are originally connected. Cool and thin people, how to grow old. ”
Some people also say that in fact, Jiang Caiping is a fictional character who does not exist in history.
However, whether she is real or fictional, her story is still talked about by many people.
The reason is that there is no other reason, because Princess Mei has a rare sense of sanity and sobriety after the loss of love.
She once received thousands of favors from Xuanzong, but after falling out of favor, she rationally cut off this feeling and never looked back.
Women, we must understand that if you want to be happier in love, you must live a little more rationally.
The best way to protect yourself is to pay only seven points, and the remaining three points of sanity are reserved for yourself.
No matter when it comes, you believe that your ability is your own dependence.
Love is okay, don't love, don't have to please the person whose heart is no longer in you.
When love is gone, the only thing we have to do is to let go of the past and learn to love ourselves.
As Zhang Xiaoxian said:
If you were ever so worthy of love, I would always miss you, thank you for accompanying me on a journey.
If you don't deserve it, I'll shake you off as if I never knew you, and you're the stupidest mistake I've ever made in my youth and ignorance.
When one day, you no longer look at the other party's dynamics, no longer recall the past, mention the past, not sad or happy, is really put down.
No matter how painful it is, time will eventually heal everything.
May you be able to understand, may you be happy.
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