Monogamy is a marriage system that many countries promote, but this system may not be suitable for every family. American comedian Will Smith has frankly admitted that the marriage relationship between himself and his wife is open, not traditional monogamous.
Will Smith met his current wife, Jada Pinkett, in 1990 when she auditioned for Wild's hit "The Fresh Prince of Bel Air." She didn't pass the audition, but they were still friends.
In 1995, after Will divorced his first wife, Shirley Zambino, he began dating Jada.
In 1997, Will and Jada married, and after marriage, the two had a son and a daughter: Jaden Christopher Ciri (born in 1998) and Willo Camille Regan (born in 2000), and his son Jaden starred with his father in "When Happiness Comes Knocking", the father and son in the movie are actually father and son in reality; and the daughter Willow has also starred with his father in the movie "I Am Legend".
It seems to be a happy family, but the family has a difficult scripture, the will family's scripture is: the wife does not support monogamy, has a little boyfriend outside, and later, Will also figured it out, it is better to play each other, and their satisfaction does not affect the feelings!
In July last year, Jada (50) confessed face-to-face to Will Smith (53) on her live show that she had cheated on 27-year-old singer August Alsina, and the two met through the introduction of their son.
Later, although this extramarital affair ended, August Alsina talked about the relationship in her song "Entanglements". And that's not all, Jada also invited Will to the show and talked openly about each other's feelings.
Will thought to himself: Since this green hat is already on, it is better to straighten it out and wear it so demurely!
Will's response was also humorous, quoting classic lines from the movie he starred in, "We ride together, we die together, Bad marriage for life." (We are born and die together, we are a lifelong couple.) He hinted that he would not divorce, and although his wife had been unfaithful to him, they would both die together.
Will also helped her wife "exonerate" herself, saying that she came from a special family, that some of her closest relatives maintained an unconventional marital relationship, and that she had not believed in traditional "monogamous" marriages since she was a child.
He also said: "What is the best mode of getting along between husband and wife?" For most of us, monogamy is what we choose, but monogamy is not necessarily the only perfect one. ”
Will Smith even made it clear that his wife was not the only party in the marriage who cheated, he also cheated, but the couple gave each other a high degree of trust and freedom, and unconditionally supported each other, and called the relationship between the two "the highest state of love".
Will further revealed in an interview that he once visited a sex expert because of the midlife crisis, and asked him what he would want most if he could have anything in the world. Will replied, "I want a harem of women!" ”
In the harem must be What Li Berry and ballet star Misty Copeland. Will even talked about how to gather beautiful women and organize this group of beautiful women to go sightseeing...
Sex experts told him it was normal to think of other women after marriage and made him realize that the idea was not a sin. Thinking about the beautiful Holly Berry doesn't make him a bad person.
Will Smith added: "I used to think about making Jada happy, but she told me you can't make a person happy. So we decided to each find our own inner joy instead of standing in front of each other and begging and asking the other to meet our own needs. ”
It seems that they have reached what they call the "highest state of love", what do you think about such a marital relationship?
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Ref：
https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/inside-smith-jada-pinkett-smiths-25324034
https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/jada-pinkett-smith-says-shes-25319796
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