Parents at home, do not let the mother's expectations become endless waiting "hundred good filial piety first"

author：Jia has to work hard 2021-11-01 17:37:43

Parents are at home, don't let your mother's expectations turn into endless waiting"

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Injured children don't like to give

Most people think, "Why give the other person benefits first?" I'm not a moralist, I can't do it. "Just take the initiative to give, then if you can't get it back, you won't suffer losses." The reason is that they have taken it for granted since they were young to let their parents do everything for them. For everything that parents do, there is not even a word of "thank you".

However, if unconditional love is not fully poured out, then the child will keep crying out in our hearts, "You have to love me a little more, take care of me more, pay more attention to me." Even if you grow up to be an adult, you will always cry out in your heart, and then constantly seek, "I still want more, more." "Of course you should have done this for me, but you didn't..."

These people themselves seek more from others, always feel that others have not done enough for themselves, always think that they do not have the spare power to give others, so that before they even realize it, they usurp the love of others, the energy of others, the time of others, the care of others. However, even so, you still feel inadequate, and instead of thanking someone for what they did for you, you will be dissatisfied with what others have not done for you. In this way, instead of "conveying your thanks" and "telling the other party about his strengths and praising", you will feel "I hate doing this" and "I can't do it". The end result is that there is no "win-win" in relationships, and you are unknowingly taking it from the other person in one direction. Therefore, for the other party, it will feel burdensome to get along with you. The other person will think, "Whatever he does for him, he is not satisfied." If I had been robbed more, I wouldn't have been able to stand it," so I would keep my distance from you and close my heart.

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