Don't let your parents' expectations turn into endless waiting

"Don't say that my parents miss you when you are short of money." Because we miss you all the time..."

　　The song "Often Go Home to See" has touched countless people, sung and cried countless people, and the lyrics mention that "the old man does not want his children to go home and make great contributions, and he will have a reunion for a lifetime." "It has resonated with many people, the song is used to sing, and the spirit conveyed by the lyrics is more worthy of deep consideration." Nowadays, this Internet era, this fast-paced era, we repeat the pattern of "going to work 'busy business' + 'playing mobile phones' after work every day, it is rare to rest at home on weekends and do not want to go out, I don't know when, parents want to meet their children have become a luxury.

　　Each of us fell to the ground, babbled to learn languages, went to school and read, and then joined the work and started a family, and unconsciously, our parents were actually getting old. The years are passing, we are growing, and what remains unchanged is the silent support and warm protection of our parents behind us, who pay attention to us and worry about us all the time. Since ancient times, China has advocated "filial piety first". You may say how much money you spend a year to send your parents to a nursing home is filial piety, you may say that every holiday you buy gifts for your parents online to send back is filial piety, you may say that you call your parents every week to call and greet is filial piety... That's right! These are indeed your filial piety, but have you ever thought that in addition to honoring their parents to make them old and dependent, what they need more is a kind of companionship, and they are watching their limited years and waiting for their children to come home more for them to see.

　　There used to be such a "Calculate how long you can spend with your parents in this life?" "The calculation problem is widely circulated on the Internet, this problem makes many people see more of a heartache and heaviness, leaving a kind of reflection, everyone calculates the answer, counting the few times spent with their parents every year, many people cry, or helpless, or sad, or guilty.....

　　Maybe many people are thinking, when I have money, the economic conditions are better, and everything is better, I will spend more time going home to accompany my parents. However, have you ever thought, "Filial piety cannot wait". By the time everything you call it is all right, your parents may have no chance of enjoying your filial piety. The so-called "son wants to be raised but does not wait for his relatives", since ancient times, many people have been endlessly sad because of this. So, please be kind to your parents for a limited time and don't let the time with your parents become a distant memory.

　　Another year of Spring Festival is coming, this year's Spring Festival is different from previous years, maybe you have already arranged to travel with girlfriends, friends, classmates, or partners. But can you leave a little time, even if it's a day, to go home and see your parents, who are waiting for you to come home for a reunion...

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She always wants to leave the good for me,

This time, I want to give her something good.

We learn to be brave in our stumbling,

Take responsibility in stumbling.

Career excellence is achievement,

Making your family happy is a lifelong achievement.

Don't let her hope,

Become an endless wait.

Luxurious architecture,

Nor can it replace the warmth of family affection.

Online this sun that sun,

It's not as good as washing and drying with her.

The warmth of home,

It is a few ordinary hometown dishes in the eyes of others.

Love has no direction,

But you are the navigation.

Always say I'm fat,

On the one hand, I think I eat less

For moms,

Every time you return home safely is her greatest wish.

No matter how big the world is,

Mom is always the focus of the most beautiful.

Mom's daily routine,

It's the hardest exam.

Time you slow down,

Keep her innocence.

Connected to you,

The cord was never broken.

She cares about your warmth and coldness,

Her warmth and coldness I care about with you.

Your day,

But it was her every day.

You learned "I'm fine",

She learned to "be fine" all the time.

Maybe maternal love is innate,

But no one is born a mother.

Mom needs,

It's not just food.

Also need 3 meals a day,

With you by your side.