<h1>As the saying goes, "It's easy to plant flowers, but it's hard to raise flowers." "The same is true of the flower of love, which needs your heart to care for and nourish." Only with the fountain of understanding, respect and trust poured out, the flower of love will open up with great enthusiasm.
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Love requires certain skills, can not interfere with each other everywhere, but also can not be ignored, so that people will have a feeling of being bound and contained.
(1) Don't always make the other person make a commitment
If you often ask, "Do you love me?" Or say in a commanding tone, "Tell me you love me." "It is bound to cause the other party to resent. Love comes and goes indefinitely, weak and strong, not subject to the will of each person. The promise of constant love is actually unrealistic. And don't promise that you'll love each other for the rest of your life. Love comes and goes like the wind, without any false emotional promises and guarantees. It is better to ask the other person to be honest about how you feel about you, because love needs to be honest more.
(2) Don't let feelings become cages
Distance produces beauty. In daily life, there should be room for each other. It's not like we don't need each other, it's just about letting each other be free. Don't focus too much on "us", whether lovers or couples, are still two different individuals. The most beautiful state is to let the other person fly and let the other person breathe freely.
(3) Do not become an accessory
If you are completely dependent on the other person, it is equivalent to giving up the self, and the attraction of love disappears. Because it was the "real you" that the other person loved in the first place. Now, you have become an accessory to the other party, as if glued to the other party, but give the other party a feeling of being bound, will this slimy love still be attractive? You have to be yourself, don't become the other person's other half. Self-control is true security. Only you know your own goals. Relying too much on others will only increase your feelings of helplessness. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, make mistakes, and try again from scratch. Only you should be responsible for your own life, knowing your strengths and weaknesses will help you, and you will have a rational self-concept. You can be moderately dependent on the other person, deliberately creating a feeling that you need the other person, making the other person feel valued, rather than having to rely on the other person completely.
(4) Forgive the other party's faults
Forgive the other person's faults, because you will also be at fault. Love to the depths, may produce a feeling of "hate iron is not steel", as if the other party's slight fault is a flaw in feelings. There is no such thing as perfection, and so are feelings.
(5) Know how to keep the mystery
The love between men and women is the most wonderful thing in the world, and it is necessary to get along faithfully and frankly, but also to keep some secrets. In this way, you can grasp the curiosity of the other party and retain a little sense of anticipation.
(6) Blind accommodation is not the way to go
Love is the emotional exchange between men and women, and only mutual understanding and mutual consideration can be successfully completed. In order to obtain each other's good feelings, some people in the first love are harsh on each other, and they are obedient to each other, and they dare not say half a word, thinking that this can cultivate feelings. As everyone knows, blind accommodation is equal to connivance, and over time, the other party will be like a spoiled child, torturing you more and more, and showing no sympathy for your accommodation. In this way, the boat you love is in danger of running aground.
(7) Rationally handle love
In the first love, do not easily agree to the other party's unreasonable requests. Women should pay more attention to this. Some girls, because of their deep affection for each other, are deeply afraid that rejecting each other will destroy each other's feelings. In fact, this does not have to be afraid, if it is to rely on this kind of behavior to maintain the love, it is not love, but carnal desire, even if it is lost, it is not a pity, but should be glad that they escaped the clutches of the devil in time. If they agree, they will give the other party a reason to abandon you. He may think, you are really a casual person.