When a man and woman in love enter marriage, the woman will focus on the family and children, while the man will take on more family responsibilities.
Men who are busy outside will inevitably encounter all kinds of women and face various temptations. Especially after marriage has gone through the "seven-year itch", the life of husband and wife has moved from passion to flatness, yearning for the freshness of the outside. At this time, if you can't control the beast in your heart, it is easy to fall into the quagmire of desire.
When people face temptations and desires, whether they can stick to their bottom line and whether they can restrain their horses in time on the edge of the cliff is really important.
And Mr. Liu, 35, happened to experience all this.
I never thought I would cheat, but there were times when I was anxious, but fortunately, with my wife's unintentional reminder, I woke up and didn't make a big mistake.
After my wife and I got married, in order to make more money, I found a high-paying but far-away job, I was in the company from Monday to Friday, and I went home on weekends to spend time with my wife and children, but I also got along well.
I have met a lot of friends at work, and I usually have nothing to do after work, so I will eat, drink and drink together to pass the lonely time.
At dinner that day, Brother Dong, who had not seen each other for a long time, brought his girlfriend, which was also the first time I saw the legendary goddess that Brother Dong had chased for many years. Looks really peugeot, white and beautiful, convex and upturned, no wonder Brother Dong has been chasing for so long, but also really likes, where to go to where.
At the party, the company temporarily had something to let me go back to deal with it quickly, I said sorry to my friends, I had to go back quickly, when the goddess said that she was sleepy and wanted to go home, Brother Dong asked me to help send her.
Just out of the KTV, the goddess met an old acquaintance at the door, she had a conversation with that person for three or five minutes, and hugged the greasy man before leaving, and after getting on the car, I teased her: "You are not afraid of me telling Brother Dong? ”
The goddess told me that the person had been chasing her before, stalking, and couldn't be too attractive, and said: "It is his blessing that he can marry me, so many people chase me, but I am married to him, he should wake up laughing in his dreams."
This kind of behavior and speech, indeed, is full of charm and confidence.
After getting out of the car, the goddess still needs to walk a section of the road home, she said it was too dark to ask me to send her, on the way said that she was too cold to ask me for a coat to wear, said that she was very scared to carry my arm away... Finally walking downstairs, the goddess returned her coat to me and actually said in my ear, "Very warm, also... Very manly", the seductive look at me and shyly ran upstairs...
My heart "suddenly" jumped so hard that I felt a little moved and a little ridiculous.
After that time, we had WeChat, often chatting on WeChat, and later developed into chatting every night.
Maybe men love to be mean, and suddenly get a beautiful woman who is pursued by many people to appreciate themselves, and there is an inexplicable confidence in their hearts, eager to conquer and be conquered.
During the period we had a few meals, I sent her a few red envelopes, she did not refuse, neither refused, nor greeted, which made me more curious about what kind of woman she really is.
This ambiguous relationship lasted for several months, and I felt that the time was ripe, and as long as I took the initiative, the goddess would definitely go from it.
When I came home on the weekend, I bought a necklace for the goddess behind my wife's back and thought of finding an opportunity to ask her out to please her. When passing a small supermarket, I suddenly remembered that my wife had told me before that the bath ball at home should be changed, so I brought her a bath ball.
When I got home, I gave the bath ball to my wife, and my wife was very happy and hummed songs when cooking. In the evening, my wife took the initiative to come to me, and I asked her, why is she in such a good mood today? My wife said, "These days I always feel that you are absent-minded and have fewer phone calls, and I am still wondering if you are someone outside." However, today you bought me a bath ball, and I think I am worried about it. ”
I was shocked, and quickly smiled and said, "I just bought you a bath ball to be so impressed?" ”
"That means you care about my feelings and think about me in your heart." The wife laughed.
It turns out that these days I really ignore my wife, only to please other women, but I have left the most cherished person behind.
When I was giving red envelopes to the goddess and buying gifts, my wife was at home doing housework and taking care of the children, and I just bought her a worthless bath ball to make her so happy.
This move of my wife made me wake up in this confused relationship, and the one I should most please and pamper is my wife!
When I returned to work in the field, I did not contact the goddess again. A few days later I received a message from the goddess: Let's have dinner together in the evening, I am at home alone today.
I didn't reply, I directly deleted the goddess from my friend, and the goddess is beautiful, that is also someone else's home. That necklace I'm going to surprise my wife when I get home next week.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks:</h1>
I think that men who cheat have a huge sense of irresistible stimulation, and they all say that men can't control the lower body, and the pleasure of cheating is irresistible. "Seven-year itch" presumably everyone is no stranger, couples after seven years of marriage, there are a series of contradictions, marriage to the seventh year, husband and wife may be bored and boring because of the bland and regular married life, to experience a crisis.
There is no desire that cannot be restrained, it is just that some people do not want to restrain it. The reason is nothing more than that two people are familiar with each other, without the passion of the love period, and the attraction has faded.
Fu Seoul said it well: No one can desert 24X7 in marriage, this is human nature. It is the monks who are not moved by the mind, but they are not married, they are going to learn the scriptures, and they will not marry you. Only people like us who desert the layman get married.
I think that a long-term marriage is not always just two people looking at each other to the sea and the rocks are rotten, but after getting on this train together, after seeing so many scenery and knowing so many people, they still decide not to get off the train and choose each other as the final destination.
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