Women run the family diligently and frugally, and the family's wealth is rolling and thriving.
As the saying goes: "Pair up with one relative, prosper for three generations, marry the wrong one, and harm three generations." ”
The success or failure of a family is determined by the woman, a good woman can prosper three generations of the Wangjiu clan, and a bad woman is enough to make the family fall.
The best investment in a man's life is to choose a good wife, and a good wife is often of good character and has the following three characteristics.
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Diligent and thrifty, the money is rolling in
The ancients said: "Diligence and thrift are never poor, and sitting on the mountain is empty." ”
A family that does not know how to be thrifty, no matter how much money is not enough to squander.
Just as the so-called "male outside, female inside", the financial power in the family is generally in the hands of women, thrifty and thrifty women can make wealth gather, more than every year; lazy and luxurious women will make money in vain, and they can't make ends meet.
As the old saying goes: "From frugality to luxury, from luxury to frugality." ”
Accustomed to spending money like dirt, it is difficult to be diligent and frugal.
Women who do not understand thriftiness will also lead to good and bad family style, and future generations will not be good.
There are too many evil causes sown by such families, and the evil consequences will come sooner or later.
Zeng Guofan said: "Diligence and thrift, there is no unhappiness." ”
Women who run the family diligently and strengthen the family with frugality will surely make the family's financial resources roll in and flourish.
02
Contentment, harmony and prosperity
As the saying goes, "Home and everything is good." ”
Only when the family is harmonious can other aspects be better developed.
In a family, if a woman does not know how to be satisfied, the family can never be harmonious.
Human desires are always endless, and dissatisfaction is often accompanied by comparisons and gaps, resulting in complaints.
Obviously, the work is stable, and there is a surplus every month, but he complains that no one else has money;
Obviously the child is filial and knows how to be grateful, but complains that no other person's child has good grades;
Obviously, the husband is considerate and often accompanies, but complains that there is no ability of others to make a lot of money.
Day after day of complaining, the family can not get a moment of peace, how can we talk about happiness?
On the contrary, contented women are soft and peaceful in their hearts, light on fame and fortune, not greedy, not too much blame, and will not force those things that do not belong to them.
They are not happy with things, let alone sad with themselves, they are half the sky of the family, giving their husbands support and encouragement when necessary, and guiding their children when it is critical.
They are grateful for everything around them, always accompanied by the good words of their families, and make the family and harmony beautiful.
Lao Tzu said: "There is no greater misfortune than dissatisfaction, and no more guilt than desire, so contentment is often enough." ”
Women are content and happy, and they will certainly make the "home" happy and prosperous.
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Virtuous and understanding
The ancients said: "Men have no ambition, the family is not happy; women are not soft, and they drive away their wealth." ”
Men should have ambitions, achieve careers, and prosper families; women should be as soft as water, virtuous and virtuous, and take away filth.
There's a saying that goes like this: "Behind a successful man is a great woman." ”
A great woman must be a virtuous and understanding wife.
In front of a good woman, a man can remove his disguise, pull out the softness of his heart, release the pressure, and dissolve the tiredness.
Without saying much, she can understand, without much language, she will also pour out tenderness.
No matter how much storm a man experiences outside, there is always a warm light in the home for him to live.
Writer George Bernard Shaw said: "Home is the only place in the world where human shortcomings and failures are hidden, and it also contains sweet love." ”
In the face of men's shortcomings and failures, good women will only use love and tolerance to give him unlimited motivation and help him fly high.
There is an old saying: "Wives and husbands have few misfortunes." ”
Women are gentle and virtuous, and they are understanding, which will certainly reduce the misfortune of men, and make men full of vigor and prosperity.
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Wang Fengyi, a famous educator, said: "Men should lead their wives regardless of their wives, women should help their husbands not to tire their husbands, and men should be gentle and soft, and each should do his best." ”
A good family is inseparable from the joint efforts of both men and women, and the best investment in a man's life is to choose a good wife and achieve a good family.
If the pillow happens to be a thrifty, contented, virtuous woman, you must cherish it and you will be able to harvest a lifetime of happiness.