Readers write to:
I've been married for almost three years, and the child is a year and a half old. But my own life is very depressed every day, and I have a sense of fear about the future life! My wife's love for me can be said to be a deformed love of immature mind. Both of us are office workers, the nature of my work is relatively special, overtime is a common thing, and she herself knows it very well. But she was often suspicious of me, questioning me and not believing me. After each fight, she apologized vigorously and wrote a guarantee or something. But again and again, habitually, I was really helpless!
Specifically, I will make a simple analogy. I came back an hour late from work, and I told her by phone that she would put on my face when she came back and start questioning me, asking me questions that I personally didn't think of as a normal person. For example, I walked on the street and talked to her, and she heard the voice of the opposite sex on the street, and she would ask questions, doubt the ghost, and then get angry, etc., and many of these similar questions.
I felt that she was too scary, and afterwards she knew it was her own problem. I have told her many times why she thinks so every time, she is not tired, and her husband is so tired. She promised afterwards that she would never do it again, but now it seems that she simply cannot do it.
I was so tired that she didn't bring her one-year-old son with her, and she didn't do anything at home. I don't feel like home now, I'm tired and confused, what should I do?
Contradictory Prince Q&A: It is recommended that you communicate with your wife more, understand what she really needs, chat with her more, so that she can feel that you love her, and also encourage her to find something she likes to do. At the same time, you also have to think about whether your behavior is causing anything that makes her particularly insecure. If it is a misunderstanding, solve the matter in time. If there are really no problems, you can also consult a professional psychological counseling, which is also a way.
Meet a girl who is suddenly very close to you, very intimate kind, and then after about a month becomes so cold, ask her why, she said she is incompetent, what should I do?
Contradictory Prince Q&A:
The loveless cannot reveal their true selves up close. When you meet such a person, there are only two choices, either to leave or to stay. If you feel like you can't get a response in the relationship, leave. If you feel that she has opened her heart to you and you love her very much, you can choose quiet companionship.