When Feng Youlan, a philosophical giant, looked back on his life in his later years, he sighed: "In his early years, he studied with his loving mother, and in his middle-aged career, he had a virtuous wife. Late in the evening, I got my daughter filial piety and helped me fly in the clouds. ”
Young people have the protection of their parents, and in their later years, they have children to fulfill their filial piety, all of which stem from blood love.
Only middle-aged people have virtuous wives in their careers, and sometimes thanks to the grace of fate, they need wisdom and cultivation even more.
A man who wants to achieve the pinnacle of his career must have multiple conditions, and it is especially important to have a virtuous wife.
Feng Youlan is like this, and Chen Yinke is no exception.
A warm haven of life
In 1928, in Beijing's Central Park, Tang Yun and Chen Yinke met for the first time.
It's just that this elegant and learned Qinghua talent walks in a slightly limp posture.
Chen Yinke explained to Tang Yun that when he was a teenager, he studied abroad, often wore inappropriate hard leather shoes, accumulated over time, and eventually caused a foot disease.
This kind of frankness did not make Tang Yunfang's heart sharply diminish, but made her more convinced of the depth of Chen Yinke's character.
One is a talented man, and the other is a famous bridesmaid.
After the first meeting, a subtle affection grew in each other's hearts.
Two years later, they tied the knot in Shanghai.
The major events of life have been completed, and Chen Yinke has no worries and has devoted himself to academic research.
Compared with her husband's success, Tang Yun was more concerned about his increasingly emaciated body.
Chen Yinke has always been weak, coupled with long-term mental work, which has greatly worn down his health.
It is said that others only care whether you fly high or not, while people who care about you only care whether you are tired or not.
The person who truly loves you, her requirements for you, are purely to the point of wanting you to live a healthy and happy life.
Thinking of her husband's infirmity, Tang Yun gave up his beloved sports career and was willing to stay in the kitchen and devote himself to cooking.
Chen Yinke likes to eat bread and strawberry pie, and Tang Yun has riveted enough to learn baking, and even homemade baking machines.
Chen Yinke was picky about eating, and Tang Yun became an authentic "gourmet", changing his tricks to make him bitter melon stuffed tempeh.
In order to nourish Chen Yinke's body, Tang Yun did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to buy a newly produced black goat, learn to milk, and often have to lean over for most of the day to squeeze out a small bowl.
She even experimented with herself and compiled a "Food Ingredient List", which recorded all the methods of food matching and nutritious diets.
Knowing that Chen Yinke loved begonia flowers, when Tang Yun arranged the yard, he would always plant a begonia in the courtyard for Chen Yinke to admire and write poetry.
In the daily life of her husband, Tang Yun was well-intentioned.
It is not difficult to imagine that without Tang Yun, Chen Yinke, who had a sick body, would not be able to survive that era of military chaos and live to the age of 79.
Life is a curtain drama, some people like to bloom freely in front of the curtain, and some people are willing to give silently behind the scenes.
Obviously, Tang Yun belonged to the latter.
In this world, it is a great fortune that some people are willing to go to the sea of stars with you side by side, but some people are willing to support you behind your back, which is great love.
Behind Chen Yinke's legendary life, Tang Yun's contribution is indispensable.
A vast sky of career
Jian Wei said: "Life is like a poem, ordinary and flat. ”
Chen Yinke's life began in 1945.
That year, Chen Yinke's already highly myopic left eye had a sharp decline in vision, and he missed the best treatment time, and eventually became completely blind.
Since then, there has been no light in the world, and no one wants to live.
Tang Yun, look in the eyes, pain in the heart.
In life, she gave her husband a warm harbor, and in her career, she wanted to give him a vast sky.
So she became his eyes, his pen.
After becoming blind, Chen Yinke began to learn to replace the eyes with the ear, write with the mouth, listen to the newspaper every day, practice oral poetry, and Tang Yun recorded them one by one.
When he was at Lingnan University in Guangzhou, Chen Yinke's assistant suddenly left without quitting, and his teaching work was almost paralyzed.
Chen Yinke looked at the full course, anxious.
Tang Yun did not hesitate to take on the work of teaching assistant, assisting him in preparing lessons, consulting materials, and compiling lecture notes.
This is not an easy task for her sports background.
In order to prepare for a class, she often plunged into the sea of books after doing housework, from dark to dawn.
In addition, she also took the time to listen to Chen Yinke's lectures and took a lot of notes, which have been passed down to this day.
Thanks to Tang Yun's dedicated assistance, Chen Yinke's teaching work has been like a tiger and has achieved remarkable results.
During the days when he lived in Hong Kong, thanks to the help of Tang Yun, the "Sketch of the Political History of the Tang Dynasty" was able to come out of nowhere and has been passed down to this day.
Many of Chen Yinke's masterpieces in the second half of his life, such as "Remembering the Marriage of Li Wuwei Yang in the Tang Dynasty" and "Recounting the Exploits of wang zun in the Eastern Jin Dynasty", were mostly handwritten by Tang Yun himself, and even made detailed annotations.
After the arrival of the new assistant, Tang Yun still insisted on squeezing out time every day to sort out Chen Yinke's manuscripts and make preparations for the publication of Chen Yinke's Collected Writings.
Especially in Chen Yinke's poetry manuscripts, Tang Yun was even more hands-on, and there were more than five originals copied by the light brush, and countless ones recorded with a pen.
Each of chen Yinke's huge works has condensed what he has learned all his life, and has also infiltrated too many of Tang Yun's feelings and emotions.
In addition to teaching and publishing work, Tang Yun took the initiative to serve as Chen Yinke's "clerk", ghostwriting and writing various daily and business correspondence.
Those texts copied day and night, those finishing notes, and those historical materials that are slanted sideways are cultural treasures, and they are Tang Yun's love for her husband.
The so-called true love on earth is nothing more than understanding, support, and fulfillment.
Wholeheartedly helping Chen Yinke to climb the academic peak is the direction of her heart, and it is also the refuge of her life.
Spiritual refuge
In the last 20 years of his life, although Chen Yinke lived a lonely and lonely life, he could also be considered peaceful.
Until his later years, Tang Yun remained Chen Yinke's "spiritual pillar" and hoped that he would leave more works in his lifetime.
Tang Yun said to the children: Daddy's academic attainments are extraordinary, and they should be written and preserved.
Therefore, Tang Yun, who was already the year of Hua Jia, completely disregarded his tired body and transformed into a heroic warrior, blocking the malice of life and letting Chen Yinke's tired soul get a moment's breath.
Even if the years are gone, she can laugh it off.
Chen Yinke, who was mentally tortured, often lamented: "The human world has parted from ancient wounds, and the true believer in the human world is not free." ”
Tang Yun was relieved: "If Qiu Xing understands the rise and fall of the will, he should explain that the world is not free." ”
Jian Wei wrote in "Private Conversation": "The most difficult thing is to maintain a tolerant and calm smile in the midst of hardship and displacement; the most cherished thing is that in the journey of cloak and rain, you can also protect people with kasa." ”
When Chen Yinke's life was surrounded by loneliness, illness, and suffering, she became a knight and saved him from the depths of the water.
As a wife, what she gave Chen Yinke was not only the romance under the moon before the flower, but also the fireworks of a meal and a vegetable.
What she gives is the utopia of life, the refuge of the spirit, and the foundation of life.
I can't help but think of what Canoe said: "Even if the world is barren, there will always be someone who will be your believer." ”
It is undeniable that Chen Yinke's life believer is Tang Yun.
This weak little woman, with her indestructible spirit, held up a piece of heaven for Chen Yinke.
Stetson once wrote a sentence in the book: "She is a child who floated down the water, but it was not I who fished her, it was she who picked me up." ”
The affection of people is very different.
For example, Chen Ximi came for Shi Tiesheng, and Tang Yun was born for Chen Yinke.
During those turbulent years, internal and external difficulties, Tang Yun's appearance made him no longer drift.
In those days of continuous fate, Tang Yun became the crutch of his life.
Everyone said that Tang Yun was drowned in Chen Yinke's aura.
As everyone knows, the light source of Chen Yinke's life is all in Tang Yun's place.
Chen Yinke, who has always been stingy about praising others, wrote a heartfelt praise for his wife on his 66th birthday:
"Weaving is still in the mood to put wine, but the fat work can be sealed."
This praise, Tang Yun deserved.
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【Text| Happy Little Open】
Edit | Daniel Lee]
【Typography | Drizzle】
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