Every woman who enters marriage longs to have a happy family, husband and wife are harmonious, children are sensible and well-behaved, but there are inevitably many bumps and bumps in the life of the long stream, and the biggest family hidden danger is only the "little three" that everyone hates.
There is no woman who does not worry about the warblers and swallows around her husband, because as long as men loosen their moral standards, "little three" usually becomes the killer of people's marriages. Gu Jia in "Thirty Only" is the perfect female representative of China's current era, she has to go up to the hall and the kitchen, has emotional intelligence and appearance, not only is her husband's virtuous help, but also very independent, but it is such a perfect woman, but it is difficult to escape the fate of her husband's cheating.
"Gu Jia", as his name goes, is a very virtuous woman. During the college period and Xu Huanshan fell in love, after graduating from college, they walked into the palace of marriage, the two hearts and minds, not only harvested a beautiful love, but also worked together to create a fireworks company, although the current scale is not large, but the year-round flow account is also calculated in tens of millions.
Gu Jia's husband Xu Huanshan is a science and engineering man, who is not very good at dealing with and dealing with business, and all the thorny problems of the company are solved by Gu Jia himself. After the company's operation is on the right track and her husband sits firmly in the "Jiangshan", Gu Jia is willing to retreat behind the scenes and teach her husband and children at home, but she is different from ordinary housewives, she can stand up at any time when her husband needs her, and be independent in the business.
In life, she is a very disciplined woman, she not only takes care of her husband and son's food, clothing, shelter and transportation, she also exercises every day, reads books and newspapers, does beauty, and makes friends. In order to help her husband win the cooperation, she worked hard to break into the circle of wives, and won the trust of the snobbish rich wife with high emotional intelligence, and successfully promoted the cooperation.
Life is rich, career success, son is lovely, wife is virtuous and beautiful, Xu Huanshan is simply a winner in life, it is difficult for people to imagine, why such a man should cheat, what dissatisfaction does he have with life?
Xu Huanshan is a science and engineering man, who devotes himself to technical research all day long, and he is not originally a person with flowers and intestines. He and Gu Jia are also in love, love each other, if there is no girl named Lin Youyou, they will always be happy like this.
Lin Youyou works in a paradise, not long after she graduated from college, she exudes a different youthful and lively atmosphere from the old fritters in the workplace, and her smile is bright and moving, just such a pure beauty, with a sweet mouth, no colleague does not like it. She met Xu Huanshan in a job hosting Xu Huanshan, and she found that this big boss was very different from those rich people who were high above the top, he was approachable, gentle and considerate, not very old but successful in his career.
Just by chance, she looked at the man in front of her, and asked, the handsome and golden, warm and sunny boss and her often have contacts at work and take good care of her, how can she not be bothered? Therefore, she approached Xu Huanshan with another purpose, greeted him warmly, she found that this man did not refuse, she invited to do some very beautiful things after work, playing football, eating a romantic candlelit dinner, going to the playground, listening to this man's voice, adoring his achievements, she behaved frankly and naturally, unconsciously, so she captured Xu Huanshan's heart.
Xu Huanshan had struggles and hesitations before cheating on Lin Youyou, he felt that he was sorry for Gu Jia and the child, but Lin You had very means, she knew that her biggest capital was young and beautiful, she pretended to be sick in front of Xu Huanshan, let this man have pity and love to accompany her for one night, and then gave himself to this man when the emotion broke out, so that Xu Huanshan completely fell.
Why did Xu Huanshan cheat? Maybe life is boring and tedious, although the wife is virtuous and beautiful, but after all living together for so many years, all the passion has become affection, Lin Youyou appeared like a spring breeze, blowing into his numb heart, evoking the hormones of youth, facing the interesting soul and young body of pure beauty, he could not resist.
Although Gu Jia is excellent, it is precisely because he is too excellent that Xu Huanshan has no sense of superiority in front of his wife, and Lin Youyou worships him and relies on him, so that his man's vanity is greatly satisfied. There is also a very important point, although Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia live together very steadily, but they have neglected to communicate with each other spiritually, lack of fun, Lin Youyou understands this very well, where is the wife at home more attractive than the charming cheap goods outside?
In the final analysis, it is Xu Huanshan who is not rational enough to grasp the boundaries of male and female interactions, and Lin You has such a girl who is too greedy and vain, and does whatever it takes to become someone else's "little three" for her own interests and desires, destroying other people's happy families.
On the day when Xu Huanshan, who was wandering in an extramarital affair, finally had paper to keep the fire, he was lusting for the romance with Lin Youyou before the moon, and he was worried that his wife Gu Jia would find out that he had left him. When Gu Jia revealed the truth about all this, she couldn't imagine that her life also had such a terrible scene, she hated Lin Youyou, she hated Xu Huanshan even more, the marriage and family she worked hard to run were destroyed, and the kind of hoarse grief that only those who had experienced it would understand.
Although in the end Xu Huanshan woke up, he returned to the family, Gu Jia also drove away Xiao San, but the price paid was too great, the company went bankrupt, her husband was imprisoned, leaving Gu Jia alone to face this broken marriage, a ruthless and amorous man, not only hurt two women at the same time, but also deeply hurt his wife who silently paid everything for her, hurt his family, and the result he finally endured was completely his own fault. Poor Gu Jia, even if the marriage is saved, but the rift in the marriage, how to repair.
Finally, I would like to advise those men who are wandering between family and extramarital affairs not to treat feelings as a game, because once lost, you may always lose everything, get it right, and you will be killed, since the ancient human tragedy is because of love. The most important thing between husband and wife is communication, life is not only career and life, spiritual abundance is often as important as material abundance.
May everyone be faithful to marriage.