A good marriage is based on the feelings of the husband and wife, so before marriage, if the woman makes a request for a "sky-high bride price", the man should re-examine whether the marriage is worth continuing.
Marriage is two people together to form a family, since marriage makes a couple become a family, then, if they want to get happiness in the married life, they must know how to think together, work hard together, and use the common to fight for this family.
And the girl who proposed the "sky-high bride price", most of them did not consider the man's economic situation, as well as the actual endurance in his family, even if the man gave her a "sky-high bride price" because he loved her, then how should their married life be maintained?
The ancients said that those who make friends with profit will scatter when they are exhausted. The same applies to love, and those who expect to maintain love and marriage through a "sky-high bride price" are likely to end up with nothing.
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Su Yong is 35 years old this year, he is an ordinary worker, three years ago, his parents saw that Su Yong was 32 years old, but he had not yet married and started a family, and he was anxious, so he begged others to introduce Su Yong to the object.
Later, Su Yong met a woman who was a year older than himself, Wu Shuang, although Wu Shuang's age was one year older than Su Yong, but the Su family felt that Wu Shuang was a kindergarten teacher, and his character should be very good, and Wu Shuang was also an older girl after all, and if she could be with Su Yong in the future, the two of them would be able to live a down-to-earth life.
Therefore, after Su Yong spent a year with Wu Shuang, the two people began to talk about marriage. Wu Shuang's family proposed a dowry of 188,000 yuan, for this number, although the Su family felt embarrassed, but thought that their son had found an object, and Wu Shuang was still the only daughter of the family, even if she was given a high dowry, this dowry money would be the two of them living together in the future.
Su Yong's mother cobbled together a dowry of 188,000 yuan to marry her son, and the Su family also decorated a new house for the little two and held a grand marriage ceremony.
Su Yong's mother had thought that her son's future life would be happy and sweet, however, what she did not expect was that after marrying Su Yong, Wu Shuang not only frequently returned to her mother's house, but also moved out of the Su family a year later and proposed to Su Yong to break up.
A year ago, Wu Shuang filed a divorce with Su Yong on the grounds of emotional discord, but the court rejected Wu Shuang's claim.
Now, Su Yong has been living alone at home for nearly a year, he still has a nostalgia for this relationship, and he is not willing to spend the "sky-high bride price" to retrieve his wife, so he left himself, so can he save his wife's heart?
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Su Yong's mother said that she has two sons, the younger son is not yet married, to the eldest son of this 180,000 8 dowry, is the whole savings of their family, she originally hoped that the eldest son can get a happy life, but did not expect that the eldest son just got married for a year, the daughter-in-law proposed to break up, she even said bluntly: Wu Shuang is cheating marriage!
So, is the truth really as Su Yong's mother said?
The Su family found the kindergarten where Wu Shuang worked, and after indicating their intentions, the head of the kindergarten told the Su family that Wu Shuang was teaching the child, but Wu Shuang had been working in the kindergarten for ten years, and she did not think that Wu Shuang looked like someone who would cheat on marriage.
After communication, Wu Shuang expressed his willingness to meet and communicate with Su Yong, and Wu Shuang said that the reason why he would ask Su Yong for a dowry of 188,000 yuan was because Su Yong's family did not buy a commercial house or a new car, so she would ask for so many bride price.
Originally, Su Yong's family had several self-built houses near the city center, although they had been included in the scope of expropriation, but there was no specific implementation time, so after Su Yong and Wu Shuang married, the two had been living in Su Yong's self-built house.
Wu Shuang said that after she married Su Yong, the reason why she always returned to her mother's house was because Su Yong always had to work a night shift at work, and she was afraid at home alone at night.
The reason why she wanted to divorce Su Yong was also due to the discord between the two people's feelings, once, the two of them quarreled over trivial matters, pushed and shoved each other, and Su Yong also bruised Wu Shuang's arm.
Wu Shuang said that she did not mean to cheat on marriage, because when she married Su Yong, she was already very old, but after marriage, the two people have not been able to have children, which has also become the direct reason why she chose to separate from Su Yong.
Su Yong's mother said that after Su Yong and Wu Shuang got married, Wu Shuang slept at home for a total of eight days, while his own family paid all his savings, and Wu Shuang proposed a divorce in this way, which was unacceptable to them.
So, what do Wu Shuang's parents think about their daughter's marriage? Wu Shuang's mother said that she never communicated with her son-in-law, she believed that the son-in-law had no manliness, and obeyed her mother in everything, if her husband did not think that her daughter was older and always urged marriage, she would rather let her daughter be single than let her daughter marry Su Yong.
Wu Shuang's father said that in this marriage, although the Su Yong family has made a lot of bride price, his daughter has also lost her youth, and he is willing to give 100,000 yuan to return to the Su Yong family, but he still needs to consult with his daughter.
However, when Su Yong called Wu Shuang, Wu Shuang said that she was unwilling to talk more, she did not agree to return the 100,000 dowry, she had filed a divorce lawsuit with the court, and everything was subject to the judgment of the law.
At this point, this failed marriage caused by the "sky-high bride price" has also come to an end for the time being.
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"Sky-high bride price" can not be exchanged for good love, can not be replaced by a good marriage.
The essence of marriage is a daily ordinary life, and when the man does his best to give the woman a "sky-high bride price", the life of the two of them after marriage is bound to fall into a difficult situation.
Therefore, a woman who is truly married to love will consider the married life of two people and will not ask the man for a sky-high bride price.
And rational men will not be beyond their own ability to meet the unreasonable demands of women.
In the marriage life of Su Yong and Wu Shuang, Su Yong's mistake is that he should not agree to the "sky-high bride price" conditions proposed by the woman, even if he is already an elderly youth, but when facing marriage, he still has to be more rational and understand each other.
Su Yong also has a younger brother, in order to make a living, his mother, who is nearly sixty years old, is still working to earn money, even for the sake of the family, Su Yong should not accept the unreasonable demands of the woman.
Su Yong said that the requirements of this society for men are too high, and there are hundreds of thousands of bride price gifts at every turn, without considering the pressure on men.
In fact, in many cases, the wrong is not this society, but you meet the wrong person, the girl who really loves you, will not ignore your feelings and pressure, ask you for a high dowry.
The bride price cannot be exchanged for good love and marriage, and only a marriage based on feelings can have the possibility of happiness.
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