Wen 〡璐璐日 translation
Everyone wants to be a person who dares to love and dare to hate, but daring to love and dare to hate is easier said than done. Many people in the world are wandering in the vortex of love and not being able to love, and getting without love.
Shi Hongxing is a woman who struggles bitterly between loving and not being able to get and not loving. The most right thing she did in her life was to marry the right person; the most wrong thing she did in life was to love the wrong person and not cherish the person who should be cherished.
Lin Manjiang was the wrong person who made her love, because she couldn't get it, so she always felt that it was the best.
Niu Junjie is the right person who let her get it but doesn't love it, because she got it, because she didn't love it, so she didn't feel good, and she wouldn't cherish it.
This is actually a common disease of human greed, wanting everything, but not getting anything. But Shi Hongxing was lucky, she wanted it, but she got Niu Junjie's love for her who dared to love and hate and had no regrets.
▌ His wife treats him as a gun, and he still loves him without complaint or regret!
Men are rational and selfish in the case of marital love, and they cannot accept that their wives follow another man in spirit and spirit. Even if the initial acceptance, under the mental torture of not giving back for a long time, it is difficult to achieve no complaints and no regrets.
But Niu Junjie did. He loves Shi Hongxing, and he is grateful that Shi Hongxing chose him and married him. He is willing to fulfill her pursuit of a career, even if it is mixed with some discordant impurities that affect the relationship between husband and wife.
He knew that Shi Hongxing had arranged himself in the position of general manager of Jingzhou Energy at the behest of others, violated the rules, and had other plans, but he still accepted the arrangement and did his best to assume responsibilities and obligations to turn the situation around.
This is not only doing his duty for himself, but also taking care of things for his wife. But Shi Hongxing neither knew nor appreciated this, and also scolded and obstructed everywhere and vowed to hugh.
Niu Junjie knew that if something happened, he would be left out of his relationship and would be thrown out as a ghost for the dead. Even if Shi Hongxing proposed a divorce, he gladly accepted it.
Shi Hongxing is obsessed with losing himself in his dream of power, but Niu Junjie remains awake in the harsh reality. He can't wake up his sleeping wife, but he can keep himself awake to make sure he doesn't get lost.
Shi Hongxing regarded him as a decoration, but he did not treat himself as a decoration, he has always done his duty with his words and deeds to show love; Shi Hongxing regarded him as a gun, and he was willing to be her gun as usual.
This is a kind of great love, a kind of great love that is willing and without complaint or regret, not everyone can do it, and not everyone has this kind of heart and feelings.
Niu Junjie's great love for Shi Hongxing is really rare, and a man like Niu Junjie who can have great love is also very rare!
▌ When his wife is in great trouble, he does not give up on helping him as much as he can!
As the saying goes, "Husband and wife are originally the same forest bird, and the great difficulty is about to fly separately", and "the great difficulty" is the best touchstone for the feelings of husband and wife. The true feelings seen in suffering are the true feelings, and the feelings seen when rejoicing are not necessarily the true feelings.
The saying "Husband and wife are originally the same forest bird, and the great disaster is about to fly separately" also tells the world's feelings, there is no should or should not, some are just willing or unwilling.
Shi Hongxing made a big mistake, ran into a big disaster, and encountered a big disaster, Niu Junjie did not fly away, did not watch the hilarity, but new feelings behind his back intimate and skillful protection of his wife. Shi Hongxing does not have the ability to recognize people and distinguish things, but Niu Junjie has an amazing ability to recognize people and distinguish things.
He recognized that Qi Ben'an was a leader who was different from others, so he turned on the radar of doing things, the radar of protecting his wife.
When Qi Ben'an could not identify Shi Hongxing because of the changes in the world, Niu Junjie cleverly and kindly reminded the clever Qi Ben'an that Shi Hongxing should not be the focus of his attention, she was just a master who would play a little woman's careful machine, and the real perpetrator of the crime was not her, but someone else.
In fact, the person who knows Shi Hongxing best is not Shi Hongxing himself, but Niu Junjie, who is used as a gun by his decorations.
When Shi Hongxing told Niu Junjie about the problem of 500 million yuan of funds, Niu Junjie already had his own profound judgment. He knew the nature of Shi Hongxing and knew that it was not so simple behind this matter. His worries about his wife being shot by others are slowly being fulfilled.
So, soberly, he found Qi Ben'an who could solve this problem and turn the situation around, telling and reminding him of some very critical things. These things can help Shi Hongxing, but also help himself and the low-level workers he wants to help.
When Shi Hongxing's great trouble was approaching, Niu Junjie, a sober bird, willingly stuck on the branch and busied himself with his true feelings for her, and flew away without false feelings.
It can be seen that Niu Junjie's love for Shi Hongxing is very strong and deep, but it is a pity that Shi Hongxing failed to wake up in time and cherish it in time.
Shi Hongxing is the most stupid and unclear woman in the play, she grabbed a good hand of cards but broke it up. Obviously, you can live a happy and satisfying life that envies others, but you have to chase after those things that are nothing, vague in mind, and lost in self.
Once people covet something that can lose themselves, they will inevitably lose the most important and cherished things in life. Shi Hongxing is really too confused, niu Junjie is really too rare.
In fact, we should have understood that no matter what kind of emotions in the world, there is nothing that should be done or not, some are just willing or unwilling.
"You should love me, I should love you" This kind of thinking concept should not be allowed, this kind of thinking will only make you harvest misfortune and misery, and you will not win happiness and happiness at all.
We must know that whether it is family, friendship, or love, "willingness is love, unwillingness is duty", and no one should take the love of others for you and your love for others as a matter of course.
Only with the blessing of this kind of thinking concept and psychological preparation can we more soberly and steadily handle and manage various emotions, cherish the people who should be cherished, do what should be done, and harvest a good life and a good life.
Shi Hongxing's loss of initial emotions is doomed to be unable to possess and understand the emotional thinking logic of "should not be willing or unwilling". Without the blessing of this kind of thing, she naturally would not cherish what should be cherished and do what should be done right.
Although Shi Hongxing did not cherish what should be cherished and did what should be done right, she was still lucky to meet the right person "Niu Junjie" and got Niu Junjie's sincere and unvarnished love for her. This should be the greatest luck and happiness of her life.
This is also the place where Niu Junjie dares to love and dare to hate, and the rare place of love for the people he loves. Obviously knowing that Shi Hongxing's heart belongs, he loves but cannot, and he follows with all his heart, but he still loves and guards love without complaint or regret.
Such a good man is rare, such a good man is worth marrying and more worthy of love!