As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. What women are most afraid of is to meet an unreliable man in a relationship. Therefore, many people will do a detailed understanding of some things about men in order to know what kind of character this person is.
Carnegie, a famous adult education expert in the United States, once said that women want to see a man, do not need to ask a lot of things, and talk to him about 3 things is enough.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="3" > talk about your past</h1>
Everyone has their own past, or nostalgia, or regret. But whatever it is, it is an integral part of our complete lives. To know what kind of person the other person is, then look at what his attitude is towards your past.
Carnegie said: "Love is not to love a perfect person, but to use a period of time to understand that the other party is an imperfect person." Admit that we are not perfect, then try to understand each other's shortcomings, and work hand in hand with the person who still loves himself even though he also sees his own shortcomings. ”
So, for those who cannot accept their past, be brave enough to say goodbye.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="7" > second, talk about each other's life plans</h1>
Life planning is not full of nonsense, but based on one's actual situation about the possibility of achieving one's ideals. Talking about life planning with each other, you can see his attitude towards life, whether to get by and live or work hard.
After all, any woman wants to be with someone with a future, not someone who has been smoothed out by life. People who have ideals and plans for their future will give people a sense of hope and will feel that this is a solid, mature, self-motivated person.
Therefore, if a woman wants to make her future promising, she may wish to talk about his life plan.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="11" > third, talk about attitudes toward money</h1>
In modern society, many people have a sense of anxiety about money, and even some people have the concept of "money first". Therefore, when talking to a person about the attitude toward money, you can often see the other person's three views and personality.
Shakespeare once said, "Money is a great magic wand that can change a person's appearance at will." "It's true that there are a lot of couples with good feelings who end up losing out to money.
In fact, a person's attitude towards money determines its position in the other person's heart. If he values money too much, there's a good chance that money is above you. A person with the idea of "above money" is the most unreliable.
Remember that a woman's greatest happiness is not given by others, but by herself.
Regarding the way for women to achieve happiness, Carnegie wrote clearly in "Carnegie's LifeLong Happiness Advice to Women", which accumulated a large number of cases and expounded how to get a smooth career, how to achieve a happy marriage, and how to achieve the wisdom of life consummation, which not only lit up the sky of many women, but also washed away the troubles of many men.
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