In 2007, on the 100th anniversary of the birth of General Su Yu, the head of the Ten Great Generals of the People's Republic of China, a literary and historical reporter specially interviewed Comrade Chu Qing, the wife of General Su Yu and a veteran soldier of the New Fourth Army, and published articles related to General Su Yu. At the end of the interview, in the cold weather of December, Chu Qing did something that touched the Wenshi reporter: she insisted on sending them to the gate. Wenshi reporters constantly persuaded Chu Qing not to send such a far, just come here, Chu Qing insisted on opening the door and sending it to the door.
Asked why, Chu Qing replied:
"Su Zong has explained before his death that no matter what kind of guests they are, they must be sent to the door."
General Su Yu had been like this before, and Chu Qing, as the general's wife, also insisted on this detail.
The love between General Su Yu and Comrade Chu Qing is full of emotional twists and turns, and the two are not in love with each other at first sight, but as a man, General Su Yu looks at the beautiful and moving Comrade Chu Qing at a glance, and then launches a passionate pursuit. For this reason, Comrade Chu Qing was a little "distressed" at that time, some people admired their own beauty, which girl did not like, let alone General Su Yu, who was in his prime and had a good military.
But Chu Qing still refused General Su Yu's courtship twice, tearing up the love letter sent on the spot, but when they got married together, the two were like glue, Chu Qing completely fell into Su Yu's tenderness, became her loyal fan, in today's words is "super fan sister".
Su Yu's tortuous story of pursuing Chu Qing confirmed it
"The ruler is long, the inch is short, and people cannot be omnipotent"
Truth. The victorious general who was invincible on the battlefield was frustrated on the love field, which made Chen Yi and other comrades laugh.
When Su Yu was over thirty years old, he had not talked about love a few times (or even not at all), still
"One person has enough to eat, the whole family is not hungry"
Alone. Su Yu in 1939, 32 years old, just after his establishment, chief of staff of the Red Army Corps and acting commander of the detachment of the New Fourth Army, these positions at this age should be called:
"Young and promising"
。 Su Yu, a senior leading cadre of the Red Army, is looking for a wife, naturally not to say that he cannot find it, nor is he high-minded, still less is he picky, but simply does not have love at first sight.
In fact, if General Su Yu did not run away from home to join the revolution, he would have married at the age of 16 and lived
The "good day" of "wife and child hot kangtou"
。 Su Yu's father was a famous Xiucai, a very traditional feudal literati, who set up a family affair for Su Yu when he was in high school (that is, the fifth and sixth grades), without his son's consent.
Maybe Su Father wanted to hold his grandson early and let Su Yu'an share a little. Moreover, the woman who was betrothed was a beautiful-looking, small-family jasper woman, although her feet were wrapped, she was in line with the aesthetics of the time, and she was undoubtedly beautiful. And the age is exactly three years old, mature, very good at taking care of people. To put it in china now, single men are arranged by their parents to have such a marriage, I am afraid that they are laughing crazy.
Su Yu did not like it, resolutely opposed it, and did not marry anyone else when he was killed. After studying in Changde, Su Yu wrote a letter and sent it home, solemnly saying:
"The marriage contract is dissolved, I will not go home for ten years and eight years or even a lifetime, don't let people waste time and so on, I have other things to be busy." The other party is a good person, I am not, after all, it is wrong to pay, please ask the woman of the good family to marry another high door. ”
Su Yu did a beautiful job in this matter, explain this matter clearly, no one should be wronged by anyone, it just happens to be a marriage contract, not publicized everywhere, and does not affect the woman's marriage. It can be said that it is quite responsible. "A letter of resignation" is somewhat cruel, but it saved the girl and avoided the appearance of the "Wangfu Stone". Su Yu's sister said Su Yu:
"He has the most conscience, and he does not want to delay the lifelong events of others."
The 14-year-old Chiang Kai-shek married the 19-year-old Mao
FuMei was his wife (the Mao family was a local family), but after Chiang Kai-shek left his hometown and left Mao Fumei, in today's parlance, it was quite "wave":
In 1911, Yao Yecheng, who was originally a prostitute, was a concubine; in 1921, he married Chen Jieru, who was 15 years old; in 1927, he solemnly declared that he had broken off relations with several ex-wives, and soon married Song Meiling in Shanghai.
It can't be described as the beginning of chaos and the end of abandonment, Mao Fuxiu and others met Chiang Kai-shek really unladylike.
A letter from Hugh was sent back, but Su Yu never found another lover, not even a shadow of an object, and was always busy with the revolutionary struggle, quite like what Emperor Wu of Han had said about Huo's illness
"The Xiongnu are not destroyed, why should they be home"
situation. In 1939, the 32-year-old Su Yu far exceeded the marriage regulations in the party organization and the army at that time, and had already been established and the family was about to become. But there is really no match, and the plan of the "two-person home" has been stranded.
Chen Yi, who had chased several girls and was married, once told others about his old fellow:
"Don't look at him talking in front of the battle map without stopping, and when you see the girl's mouth open, you can't say a word."
Su Yu smiled and did not speak, still going his own way, not in a hurry about marriage at all.
In 1939, an incident happened to Su Yu, used
"Wonderful, wonderful"
It couldn't be more apt to explain. In March of that year, Su Yu rushed from Jiangnan to the headquarters of the New Fourth Army in southern Anhui to attend an important meeting presided over by Zhou Enlai. During the break in the middle of the meeting, Su Yu remembered that he was going to arrange a few people to do civilian work at the Jiangnan Headquarters, so he came to the military headquarters' teaching corps. Here is a group of aspiring and knowledgeable young people who have just participated, which is a "good treasure" on the frontline battlefield.
Commander Su Yu came to pick someone, which made Liang Guobin, the head of the teaching corps, feel honored, and under the hasty reception, he helped recommend his treasured "scarce talent", Chu Qing (also called Zhan Yongzhu at that time). At that time, Chu Qing had just joined the Communist Party of China organization, the officers were diligent and neat, Xiu Waihuizhong, or a Jiangnan woman from Yangzhou, with a very gentle personality. When Su Yu heard this, he felt good, so he said that he would take time to meet him in the afternoon, and if appropriate, he would take it away. Liang Guobin replied:
"Yes, I'll arrange it."
In the afternoon, Su Yu arrived as promised and came to the teaching corps, and Liang Guobin immediately personally went to invite Chu Qing to come over. At that time, Chu Qing was dressed in a gray suit, and as soon as he entered the door, he was stared at by Su Yu's directly hooked eyes, Su Yu's body had a sense of electric shock, and the inner monologue should be "She is so beautiful." Chu Qing saw commander Su looking at himself strangely, a little confused, tilted his head and asked:
"Commander Su, what's wrong?" What's wrong? ”
Su Yu reacted to this, and the tone and words spoken were somewhat unnatural:
"Ah, nothing. I heard that you have performed very well, and the military and government have achieved excellent results, which is really good. ”
Fortunately, Chen Yi was not on the sidelines, otherwise he would have spoken out
Teasing, is that how you chat with girls? When Chu Qing heard Commander Su praise himself, he was not shy, but showed a generous happiness: "No, this is all the credit for the education of the headquarters." ”
Su Yu, who usually did not care about the girls, talked more, asked where people were (although they knew in advance, but said hello), and asked why they wanted to join the New Fourth Army, and whether they usually had any interests and hobbies. Chu Qing was not embarrassed, and told his story in the soft and sticky Wu Nong whisper. Chu Qing did not have a letter of introduction to join the New Fourth Army, so it took more than ten days for Chu Qing to come in.
Su Yu was fascinated by this girl and the girl's story, he really was
"Moving Hearts"
finish. Su Yu is not untouched by girls, there are many women who secretly agree with him who is handsome, high-powered, and has outstanding combat ability, and has also pursued a period of courtship, but what about Su Yu? Oak wood, like no reaction. Who said "women chase men, compartmentalized yarn"? deceitful!
Su Yu determined that Chu Qing was the one who "searched for her in the crowd for a thousand hundred degrees", and was the other half he wanted to hold hands for the rest of his life. But now the time of acquaintance is too short, and boldly showing love will frighten others, and it is difficult to have good results. Su Yu could only suppress his inner excitement, and told Liang Guobin that this man he wanted, and arranged for Chu Qing to go to the Jiangnan branch of the New Fourth Army.
Interesting things happened: Chu Qing worked at the Jiangnan Headquarters for about a month, did not wait for a new anti-Japanese work, but waited for a "obsessive Lang Jun" affectionate love letter, which also included "Lover Lang" deliberately posed for half a day to take a photo of himself. The lover is naturally Su Yu, chu Qing, who received the letter and the photo, was not happy, and when he threw things away at will, he no longer paid attention to it, and the letter naturally did not return.
Su Yu waited, waited, could not wait for the reply, the mood was so depressed, he thought that he had touched a soft nail, and he also thought that the other party might not have received the letter, and finally he mentioned his greater boldness: he wrote a love letter and let Wang Jing, the political director under his command, carry it. Wang Jing listened, hey, the old chief finally got the hang of it, so he took the letter and sent it to Chu Qing personally, bringing his own congratulations and ridicule. Wang Chuangxing squeezed his eyebrows and said:
"You have to invite me to eat candy, I am the matchmaker of the two of you, Commander Su has asked for it, have you not invited it yet?"
What Wang Jianwan did not expect was that Chu Qing's face was sullen, tearing the letter into pieces that he had not even seen. Girls' minds are always complicated, on the one hand, Chu Qing thinks that he has come to resist Japan, not to "find a man"; on the other hand, he thinks what does it mean for Su Yu to let the political director deliver letters? Is it to use power for personal gain and to oppress others? I didn't like him. I'll never see him again.
Wang Jing watched from the side, a little embarrassed, wanted to persuade something, but could not say a word, although he could usually speak the Tao, but this situation said nothing appropriate, can only sigh, fruitless. Su Yu was informed by Wang Jingjing, and his heart was a little uncomfortable, but he quickly expressed understanding:
"She has the right to choose freely in love, I can understand. Take it easy. ”
After that, the Jiangnan Headquarters of the New Fourth Army was formally established, with Su Yu serving as deputy commander and chief of staff of the Jiangnan Command of the New Fourth Army, and Chu Qing as a stenographer in the headquarters secretariat of the Jiangnan Command. Just as the so-called "not the wrongdoers do not gather", the two can not meet without meeting. Chu Qing saw Su Yu again with a nervous mood and communicated with him, Su Yu did not wear small shoes for her as Chu Qing imagined, and did not show other differences, that is, the normal interaction between the boss and his subordinates, Chu Qing could not help but breathe a sigh of relief in his heart, but he was a little lost.
Did Su Yu give up? Of course not, this is not in line with his style, and his heart has long been determined to "not Chu Qing and not marry" idea. Now the inaction, just no longer hard to hit hard, let's take a roundabout attack, first eliminate her vigilance, and then take it down in one fell swoop! In order to be able to see Chu Qing every day, Su Yu specially invited someone to take pictures (although the two worked not far away, but Su Yu was too busy to walk around), but not alone, if this is the case, Chu Qing absolutely did not agree, so she also found Roy and Chen Mo who lived with Chu Qing.
Roy and Chen Mo could not understand Commander Su's meaning, so they agreed to come down. In this way, Roy, Chen Mo and Chu Qing left a precious group photo at the gate of the Jiangnan Headquarters, which was the earliest witness to the love between Su Yu and Chu Qing. Su Yu took advantage of this opportunity to co-opt Roy, Chen Mo and other girls to assist him, and slowly "corroded" Chu Qing's "hostile city wall".
Later, the relationship with Chu Qing turned into a harmonious friendship, and Su Yu launched another attack: confession. At this time, Chu Qing was much more mature, and instead of being angry, he politely refused. Su Yu was not discouraged, as usual, he treated Chu Qing and other female comrades with normal heart, and no longer showed such a strong "desire to attack", which was obviously used by Su Yu from the battlefield
"Retreat is the advance"
Hmmm.
First friends, then good friends, then boyfriend and girlfriend, and finally into the palace of marriage. Although Commander Su has no experience in love, he still understands these things, Xu Xu Tuzhi, the spirited woman is afraid of pestering, we have to take it slowly. It seems that this kind of girl chasing routine that is popular in the twenty-first century, General Su Yu has no teacher and has long used it.
It was really a good thing not to go out, bad things spread for thousands of miles, and the news of Commander Su's third confession spread throughout the army, causing controversy and scandals. Soon after, even Chen Yi, the commander of the Jiangnan Command, who did not like to listen to gossip and did not gossip, heard about this matter, and advised Su Yu not to do it, let it go, let's find a more beautiful person to talk to, and be angry with her. Su Yu did not listen, Chu Qing he was relieved, could not forget.
Su Yu, then commander and political commissar of the New Fourth Army, made a great deal of effort in the central China battlefield, as if he had discovered all the depression that was unfavorable to "attacking Chu Qing" in the Japanese. Chu Qing was also touched by Su Yu's water mill work and his legendary deeds, and gradually opened the door of his heart.
In 1941, one evening, after the willows on the moon, and about dusk, General Su Yu confessed again and said sincerely:
"I respect your opinion, I can accept it anyway, you can rest assured." If you still don't want to, I can keep waiting. One year is not enough, I wait two years, two years is not enough for me to wait for three years, until you are satisfied, as long as you do not deal with others."
Su Yu showed love this time, Chu Qing did not speak immediately because he was a little shy, and his heart agreed. When Su Yu finished speaking, Chu Qing looked shy, but he couldn't help but express his meaning with actions:
Hug Su Yu hard.
The joy in Su Yu's heart is unknown to outsiders, but we can guess that it must be more refreshing than drinking a glass of ice water in the summer, and I feel that life is full of hope.
On the 100th anniversary of General Su Yu's birth, Chu Qing still mentioned this matter with happiness on his face. Chu Qing said,
General Su Yu waited for her for three years.
Soon after they were together, Chu Qing and Su Yu held a wedding, and Chen Yi and others sent sincere blessings. After marriage, the two lived a very sweet life, the feelings were very strong, and they gave birth to two sons and a daughter.
Before they were together, Chu Qing had heard many legendary stories of Su Yu, and now that Su Yu had become her husband, Chu Qing often asked him about some things about battlefield command, and also learned more about the personality, ideas and general demeanor of her husband, General Su Yu. His wife Chu Qing admired Su Yu very much and became a loyal fan, and there was nothing Chu Qing did not fail to understand about Su Yu's life deeds and the big and small battles he commanded.
If you have a wife like this, why should your husband ask for it? What man does not wish to be worshipped by his wife and seen as an idol.
The only thing Chu Qing didn't know about her husband was why Su Yu would have a headache whenever he was overworked, and taking medicine would not work or cure it. At that time, it was speculated that it was the sequelae left by Su Yu's injuries caused by the shell. It was not until February 15, 1984, that the body of General Su Yu was cremated, and three pieces of incorruptibility were found in the ashes of his skull, and a closer look found that it was fragmented shrapnel, the "culprit" of Su Yu's headache before his death.
Chu Qing silently wept after seeing it, the conditions of the field hospital at that time were not good, and it could not be found; it was found that this kind of large-scale operation could not be carried out. But there were conditions, surgery could be performed, but no one thought about it, so that they remained in general Su Yu's head for 54 years. These three pieces of shrapnel became heirlooms of the Su family, and it was not until 2003 that one piece was donated to the embassy of the Academy of Military Sciences for exhibition, and the other two pieces were kept by Su Rongsheng, the eldest son of General Su Yu.
From strange to familiar, from rejection to love, General Su Yu and Comrade Chu Qing spent their lives together. After the death of General Su Yu, Ms. Chu Qing was busy writing, editing, and sorting out
Memoirs of the Su Yu War, Su Yu on the Battle of Huaihai, Su Yu's Military Anthology, Su Yu on the Soviet-Chinese War of Resistance
And other writings did not stop until his death on February 21, 2016. If there is an afterlife, I hope that the two will meet again.
I would like to use this document to general Su Yu and Comrade Chu Qing to commemorate the ordinary love of the war years!
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