People often say that marriage is the graveyard of love, after marriage, there will be a lot of contradictions between the husband and wife, their feelings are not as good as before, in fact, marriage and love are still very different, when in love, two people do not need to consider other things every day, they are still very comfortable, but after marriage, you face chai rice oil and salt every day, no matter how vigorous love, after marriage will return to plain, but there are many people who can not accept such changes, after marriage there are some regrets, He even committed marital infidelity.
Marriage is not a child's play, since you choose to get married, you have to be responsible for this marriage, if you feel that you really can't live, you can negotiate with both parents and your partner to solve, but you must not do something against morality, then hurt the family, hurt your partner, and let yourself lose face, it is really harmful and no benefit.
Today's story comes from the sharing of fan Liu Jiahui.
After marriage, he was dissatisfied with her husband.
Liu Jiahui and her husband Wang Songlin met each other on a blind date, and the two got married after half a year of dating, because they were not young at that time.
Wang Songlin is a down-to-earth and steady person, will not please the girl, never talked about love, and Liu Jiahui married her very considerate, everything in the family does not need her to worry, in fact, such a life is also stable and happy, but Liu Jiahui is not a peaceful person, she feels that living with a man like Wang Songlin is really boring, so every day after work, she asks her fox friends to go out to play.
Liu Jiahui has many friends, some of whom are her suitors, and she also maintains an ambiguous relationship with those suitors after marriage, and sometimes friends will ask her: "Are you not afraid that your husband will be angry when you come out to play every day?" Liu Jiahui smiled and said, "What qualifications does he have to be angry, he is a boring wooden man, as long as I don't mention divorce to him, he should be grateful to Dade." ”
In fact, Liu Jiahui later had some regrets about marrying Wang Songlin, at that time only felt that Wang Songlin was a good marriage object, but the personality of the two people was actually not suitable, what she wanted was vigorous love, and Wang Songlin gave her a plain life, in the later married life, Liu Jiahui was dissatisfied with Wang Songlin, often quarreled with Wang Songlin because of some small things, Wang Songlin felt that he was not good, so it would provoke Liu Jiahui to be angry, so every time Liu Jiahui was scolding, Wang Songlin sat there without speaking, But Liu Jiahui was even more angry when she scolded.
Liu Jiahui also told her parents that she and Wang Songlin could not get by and wanted to divorce Wang Songlin, but her parents felt that it was really inappropriate for the two of them to divorce soon after they got married, saying that they did not agree with anything, and later Liu Jiahui also dispelled this idea, since Wang Songlin could not give her what she wanted, then she would go to find fun herself.
Infidelity within marriage.
Liu Jiahui is with a male colleague of the company, the male colleague is still single, he also knows that Liu Jiahui has been married, but it is very unhappy, Liu Jiahui likes this male colleague of the company, although he just came soon, but there is a common topic between the two people, the male colleague has always felt that Liu Jiahui will divorce Wang Songlin sooner or later, so the two people often secretly go out on dates.
Wang Songlin found that his wife had recently left early and returned late every day, and sometimes came back very late, so he said to Liu Jiahui: "Have you been very busy lately?" Is it overtime in the company? It's not safe to come back so late every day, if you have to work overtime one day, just tell me and I'll pick you up. Wang Songlin originally cared about Liu Jiahui and was worried that it would not be safe for her to go home alone, but she did not expect Liu Jiahui to say to Wang Songlin: "Don't worry about it, I can come back myself." After listening to Liu Jiahui's words, Wang Songlin didn't say anything more. Since Liu Jiahui is not willing to tell him this, then he will go to Liu Jiahui's company every day after work to wait for her, and secretly escort her back.
Wang Songlin will go to Liu Jiahui's company after work every day to secretly wait for her, the first few days did not find anything, but one day Liu Jiahui left work early, but she did not go home, but went to a café, and then Wang Songlin saw a man sitting opposite Liu Jiahui, the two people talked enthusiastically, but also held hands, Wang Songlin suddenly felt something was wrong, did not expect that two people after drinking coffee together to go to a hotel, Wang Songlin secretly followed in, found out that the room was set by the man, And it was fixed for a long time, and Wang Songlin knew at that time that Liu Jiahui must have cheated in marriage.
Husbands retaliate against their wives.
Wang Songlin felt that he could tolerate Liu Jiahui's bad temper, but he could not accept her to do such a thing as cheating in marriage, just on the night of her cheating, Liu Jiahui was lying on the bed with a male colleague, did not expect the hotel phone to ring, picked up was actually a call from her mother's family, Liu Jiahui's mother said to her: "Son-in-law said you want to take your life lightly, we will arrive immediately, daughter you don't want to open it, I and your father still have to count on you." After saying that, her mother hung up the phone, and Liu Jiahui felt very strange, how could her mother know that she was here?
Just wondering, suddenly someone was knocking on the door of their room, the male colleague walked over and opened the door, and found that it was Liu Jiahui's mother's family, her parents saw that their daughter was in the hotel with a man, the two people were still disheveled, and suddenly understood that the daughter had done something sorry for the son-in-law, and the son-in-law also knew, so they called their family here, and after a short time Wang Songlin also came, Liu Jiahui understood at that time that all this was designed by Wang Songlin.
She walked over to Wang Songlin and asked, "Did you already know that you deliberately humiliated me in front of my mother's family today?" Wang Songlin said, "Didn't you do the shameful thing?" How did I embarrass you? Liu Jiahui's mother slapped her at this time and said to her: "How can I have a daughter like you, do such a shameless thing, and hurry up and follow me home." ”
Liu Jiahui and Wang Songlin went back to her parents' house together, and Liu Jiahui's parents knew that they were in a bad situation, so they said to Wang Songlin: "Son-in-law, all this is our fault, we did not educate our daughter well, no matter what decision you make, we support you." Wang Songlin said to Liu Jiahui, "I asked myself if I was good enough for you, but why did you hurt me so much?" Liu Jiahui said to Wang Songlin: "You just gave me everything you think is good, but you didn't ask me if I wanted it, living with you is really boring, I really can't stand it, I have thought about divorcing you countless times, but my parents do not agree." ”
After listening to Liu Jiahui's words, Wang Songlin said: "Let's divorce, I will fulfill you, you go to find the happiness you want." "This marriage between two people ended like this, people often say that it is good to get together and disperse, but often they can't disperse well, and at that time you will find that the other party has become unrecognizable."
After Liu Jiahui married Wang Songlin, she felt that she and Wang Songlin had a different personality, and the pursuit of life was different, she wanted to divorce Wang Songlin at that time, but her parents did not agree, so she cheated in marriage, no matter what the reason, cheating in marriage is not worthy of being forgiven, this is unfaithful to the partner, but also irresponsible to the family, any problem has a solution, you can't do hurt others in order to satisfy your own selfishness, so it is inevitable that some are too selfish.
Wang Songlin learned that Liu Jiahui cheated, the design let her mother's family meet, Liu Jiahui lost face in front of her mother's family, the marriage between the two people was finally over, I think they were full of expectations for the future when they were together, but I did not expect that this relationship was finally scrawled over, maybe liu Jiahui will regret it later, but the damage caused to Wang Songlin can not be repaired.
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