It has been said that all mothers are brave fighters, and they can activate all the energy in their bodies for the sake of their children. It makes a lot of sense, at least, that paying for their children is something that most mothers are willing to do.
Aisyvaya Ray, a well-known Indian actress, was once regarded as India's number one beauty, and she was also invincible at the box office in Southeast Asia. However, when she became pregnant, she automatically gave up her job and waited for childbirth, not sacrificing her body to gain weight due to childbirth.
It is not easy for Aisevaya to have a child, she was born in 1973 and did not get married until 2007, which is a real late marriage in India.
Of course, people are stars, and the path they take is understandable different from that of ordinary women. But Aisyvaya is a traditional woman in her bones, and although her career has reached its peak, she has never forgotten to be a wife and mother.
It is said that according to the calculations of the Indian feng shui masters, Aisyvaya is still a very hard woman, also known locally as the "beauty marriage curse", that is, it is too beautiful, and the man who marries her cannot control her at all, so she will encounter accidents.
To this end, Aisyvaya married a traditional local "marriage" before she got married: she married the banana tree chapel.
Although this kind of thing is nonsense at first glance, it reflects the traditional thinking in Aisivaya's heart from another side.
Even if she is good at acting and the height of her life, she cannot wave away the conservative ideas of ordinary people.
So, when Aisivaya finally gets married, it's easy to understand that she won't hesitate to give up her career for her family.
After marriage, Aisyvaya was eager to have a baby, which is obviously another traditional woman's traditional thinking. But I don't know if it was because she was too thin or for other reasons, she had been conditioning for several years before she became pregnant.
Some people say that it is simply a choice that she does not want to give up her career, and has little to do with her body. Perhaps, as a star, sometimes I have my own helplessness. However, it can be seen from the process of waiting for the birth after Aisywana became pregnant, and she was very concerned about the child in her belly.
In November 2011, Aisyvaya finally ushered in the day of meeting her baby. It was a baby girl, and Aisyvaya was very happy about this, and very seriously and solemnly announced the news on her social account.
According to the thinking of normal people, seeing that the star they like has a child, whether it is a fan or not, will give a compliment, a blessing, right?
But Aisyvaya never expected that there were only a few blessings, and instead the scolding came and went, for the simple reason that she had become fat and out of shape.
Some say she disgraced India and became a "witch who took away beauty", while others say she should "follow the example of Sister-in-law Andrea Jolie and get back in shape a few weeks after giving birth".
Others are even more extreme, saying that Aisivaya has let go of her figure, which is tantamount to "treason".
Oh my God, this is also too serious, Aisyvaya is just a little fat, as for being criticized like this?
Most egregiously, someone made a video online comparing Esihua's pre-birth and post-birth figures, while at the same time, a picture of her getting fat was accompanied by the sound of an elephant stomping on the ground, implying that Aisyvaya is now like an elephant.
As soon as this video came out, it immediately exploded on the Internet and was watched by more than 500,000 netizens.
Indian netizens believe that Aisivaya's beauty and good figure are not her own, it belongs to the state, she has the obligation to maintain her own image, and the figure is similar to dereliction of duty.
Well, this view is really strange, at least we see the Indian people "love beauty" side, in their eyes, the original beauty is a public asset, can not be changed at will, even if this beauty is an external thing.
Just think about it, this recognition is still quite terrible, a beautiful woman after winning the honor for the country, it also means dedicating herself to the country. If one day you become ugly and get old, shouldn't you be scolded by thousands of people?
Fortunately, Aisyvaya did not take it seriously, and people were very indifferent, and she responded to the online insults: "I enjoy being a mother." ”
Fortunately, when the age has a certain height, it is relatively mature in cognition.
Today, Aisivaya's daughter Arratia is 10 years old, and in this long 10 years, Aisivaya has embarked on a firm path of "let them say go, I will be serious about myself".
In the past 10 years, Essevaya has continued to create her own new image, and at the same time, she has not forgotten to cultivate her daughter into a beautiful girl.
This girl, who was once fat, has now grown into the shape of a little beauty.
Anyone who has seen the pictures of Aratiya has this feeling: the beauty has returned.
Yes, although her skin color is darker than that of her mother, Aisihuaya, her big eyes are beautiful that can't be hidden, and she is really big and watery.
Attilaya's brown-black pupils, although they have the shadow of their father, are larger than their father's eyes, like an elf that falls on the earth, and the innocence exceeds the mature beauty of the mother.
Moreover, from Alatia's face, it is not difficult to see her exotic eyes and teeth, which is an inevitable condition for a girl to become beautiful in the future.
Netizens who see little Aratia think that this is a predetermined version of indian beauty in the future.
In fact, the beauty of girls is staged, it is a kind of cuteness when she is born, and when she is in her teens, it is an innocence, and when she is about twenty years old, she will become the peak of beauty in her life.
The image of innocence at this time of Aratia has really surpassed most girls of the same age, and I believe that in the near future her beauty will become more attractive with her own perception of aesthetics.
Of course, Aisivaya has always been aware of this, so she has begun to cultivate her daughter since she was a child, no matter what kind of activities she attends, as long as she can take her daughter with her, she will take the opportunity to show off.
In order to create a mother-daughter relationship with her daughter, she often appears with her daughter in parent-child costumes. This process is both a motherly companionship and a building of confidence in the daughter.
The most surprising thing is that when Attilaya grew up, Aisivaya did not grow old, and she even gradually transitioned from the "fat mother" at the time of childbirth to the brightest moment of her life.
To this end, people are amazed by the changes in Aisivaya, at the same time, for Attilaya is no longer indifferent or even dismissive, some netizens in India call this pair of mother and daughter who grew up together and are beautiful "sister flowers".
It has to be said that Aisyvaya has the steadfastness and bravery that many women do not have, so that her daughter can break the public image on which she depends for her survival. But at the same time that the child grows up, he can regain his self.
This enjoyment of motherhood and the personality of having oneself is worth learning from women.
Of course, we must reiterate that there is nothing wrong with being fat, and we cannot measure whether a person is successful by appearance, especially a mother, who has given to her children that none of us can imagine. On this basis, we can only identify, not strike.